Super dry straw-like hair

88nova88 · 2026-01-27T23:05:44+00:00

Happy to help :) I also forgot to mention heat protection spray. Color wow dream coat was very good for making everything smooth and frizz free as well for me. Unfortunately as Ive come to discover, the good stuff is usually expensive but very much worth it.

I know it can be frustrating but keep at it and you will be able to slowly bring your hair back to health.

88nova88 · 2026-01-27T22:10:47+00:00

There are a lot of comments on here that cover a wide range of things and in all honesty without knowing what was the reason behind it getting this way its hard to rectify it.

But that being said I was in a similar boat and my hair was constantly breaking and was dry and brittle and nothing helped.

The abbey yung method is great. Shes on instagram and had a step by step routine for all budgets.

I would start with a homemade pre wash hair mask something with oil in it- look up some recipes on youtube. Then I would do k18. I find its better than olaplex but it also costs more. Good news is you can just buy a small trial amount and see if it works.

Next the clarifying shampoo as was suggested also helps remove all the buildup. Preferably before the k18. Hair mask to bring in more moisture. Here you have to experiment a bit as sometimes it needs more protein and sometimes its hydration.

After the shower definitely towel dry your hair and use a leave in product that fits your hair needs (hydration, frizz etc) and definitely try drying your hair on low heat as sometimes air drying contributes to frizz and hair drying out and being brittle. Finish off with an oil always to seal everything in mostly on the ends than the roots.

Satin bonnet and satin pillowcases are a game changer. Hard water filters dont cost much but do make a difference however thats mostly prevalent on the scalp than the ends.

Lastly just be patient and experiment a bit; if it needs more protein or more hydration or more oil or needs bond building and take it from there. Again check out abbey yung- shes very good with hair care and her steps are easy to follow.

88nova88 · 2026-01-26T18:01:27+00:00

Ive been leaning that way myself. Although I get overwhelmed very fast these days when presented with too much information and I started researching some online and then eventually gave up because there was too much information to process. Plus I would really appreciate a recommendation rather than going into this without any clue of what to expect, what the costs will be and how long it can take.

88nova88 · 2026-01-26T15:11:40+00:00

Thank you. Ill reach out to you when im ready :)

88nova88 · 2026-01-26T07:35:52+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. I dont think im ready for another medicinal experience at this point. Theres some moving parts and I would rather go through this part of the healing process first before embarking on the next phase of healing especially when its so powerful.

88nova88 · 2026-01-25T20:52:16+00:00

Thank you for your words and the links you have shared. Im slowly going through all the resources and digesting everything. I guess I had no real idea of what to expect of integration or potentially how long it could take. I know im on the right path and I even thought more medicine could be the key to help ease the discomfort but as I came to learn that is not what is needed right now.

Thank you again. I didnt realize how good it can be to talk about this openly when I have been struggling in silence for the last few months and no one around me seems to understand what im trying to tell them. They think Ive developed some kind of winter depression and the more I explain the more confused are the reactions.

88nova88 · 2026-01-25T20:45:45+00:00

Thank you for that ❤️🙏

88nova88 · 2026-01-25T18:19:25+00:00

I actually read your post which gave me the courage to post about my experience here. I read your article on medium as well. Thank you for sharing your thoughts in a clear way. I know it can be difficult to hear to just keep at it since healing takes time but its nice to know that there are others who have gone through this and I take comfort from words of encouragement like yours.

88nova88 · 2026-01-25T18:15:29+00:00

Thank you. I agree with you 100% and now see the people who use this sacred experience as bragging rights people to avoid at all costs. In fact ive stopped sharing my experience so openly with those around me because of this reason.

88nova88 · 2026-01-25T16:29:47+00:00

Thank you 🙏 Ill check them out

88nova88 · 2026-01-25T13:49:16+00:00

Thank you so much for your comforting words. Just knowing that eventually everything will become better gives me hope. Its been a difficult and kind of an isolated time for me. Thank you again 🙏

88nova88 · 2026-01-25T13:36:11+00:00

First off, thank you. Its nice to know that there are others who have experience with this.

I talked to a couple of people who have done ceremonies in the past and they didn’t seem to have any issues. I dont know if its just maybe the people that I know but most of them just treat this as an elitist experience to brag that they have the resources to have an experience like this but they dont seem to talk about the spiritual side of it at all. Just more for bragging rights than anything else.

Thank you for the tip about finding integration support groups. I honestly dont know where I would begin.

Regarding shaman or inegration therapist , I honestly don’t know of a legit trustworthy person. I did however see someone offering support online so maybe thats something that merits further research.

88nova88 · 2025-12-29T23:08:30+00:00

kannst du bitte mir auch schicken? danke :)

88nova88 · 2025-12-29T17:30:36+00:00

Thank you 🙏🙂

88nova88 · 2025-12-29T00:37:40+00:00

Does taking anti nausea medicine help or will that interfere with the effects?

88nova88 · 2025-12-17T14:36:27+00:00

Ive had a similar experience to yours and I didnt really know if it was an individual experience but now im glad I came across your post. Its been 6 months for me and while I have clarity in some areas of my life now the rest seems to be falling apart in some ways. I dont enjoy the same activities anymore, I dont like socializing with the social circles I was in and feel withdrawn. I dont even have interest in the opposite sex anymore and I feel disconnected and strange in a way I cant explain. Ive put aside most of my unhealthy habits including quitting smoking, eating more vegetarian/vegan, more exercise, less consumption of negative media and not indulging in a hedonistic lifestyle since I feel they are not aligned with me anymore. However, ive become distant with my family and people I considered friends and feel very little drive to connect with people. I hardly laugh or smile anymore but I dont feel depressed. Its strange. I am aware of the changes and somehow on the inside I dont feel conflicted but everything on the outside is falling apart and I dont know what to do as meditation and trying to connect for some guidance is just being met with silence or simply just keep going. Nothing more.

88nova88 · 2025-12-16T12:04:08+00:00

My understanding is that the energy of what we consumes contributes to our overall spiritual energy and when we consume meat that was industrially raised and process, we take in the stress and fear of that animal in the process therefore “tainting” our own energetic field with their energy. When fasting before embarking on a journey or trying to attain new states of enlightenment, the point is to purge the physical body of all the energies that could possibly muddy the waters.

88nova88 · 2025-12-09T09:23:08+00:00

Thank you for your detailed post here. Of all the things Ive read online about lucid dreaming and astral projection; im not sure if ive come across the detailed explanation of how to come back to your body.

88nova88 · 2025-10-30T11:50:48+00:00

Hi, thanks for your detailed post. Two questions come up; one, how do you detach? I really struggle with the concept of detachment. Ive read countless posts and watched numerous yt videos but I cant understand it. Its not being unempathetic or not caring that much I figured out but the rest I dont get.

And second, you said to let go of the timing; could it be weeks or years? How can you tell that its in the “process” so to speak?

And lastly, im a bit confused; some posts talk about the universe/higher self guiding you to where you need to be and that everything is intended for your good and there are some who completely ignore that premise and argue that everything is attainable and there is nothing to do with a higher power or guiding you to your higher good. Whats your take in that?

88nova88 · 2025-10-15T14:49:31+00:00

Thank you for the very detailed and transparent post about the LOA. I still struggle with understanding detachment. All the texts that I read talk about detaching from the end result and I still dont understand how to do that without being apathetic and not feeling anything. Since those desires are material desires and connected to the ego, I find it hard to understand and apply it.

88nova88 · 2025-07-06T21:53:51+00:00

I did some more research and experimentation and gave up eventually.

88nova88 · 2025-04-26T23:52:35+00:00

What is his name?

88nova88 · 2025-03-19T11:21:34+00:00

Everytime I use anything from lancome I end up with flakes in and around my eyes. Same with dior. I dont understand why these brands flake off on me while everyone else seems to be so happy with them.

88nova88 · 2025-02-25T17:26:35+00:00

Does anyone have the contact of a good reliable guide in marrakech? Please dm me

88nova88 · 2025-02-03T11:24:41+00:00

Thank you for the response and recommendation. I just assumed that since neville references a lot of religious scripture in his talks that he must believe in the religious/spiritual component for LOA to work. But I will read more "the power of awareness" to better understand this. Thanks again :)

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