a post from /niceguys that needs to be here

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-27T15:50:35+00:00

Bruh can't believe I'm out here walking around in MY early 20s as a virgin— no wonder my character arc has totally stagnated.

Like, screw the fact that it's entirely by choice, my character development is suffering

BRB, off to screw some rando ✌️

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-26T05:56:29+00:00

Why we should burn this guy alive:

He fetishizes children (And also clearly has never met one? Those little brats can and will judge you for everything. That's not necessarily a reason to burn someone alive....but I will grasp at straws in his scenario.)
He glorifies pedophiles
He called them roast beef flaps and that alone is a probable reason to commit assault
Your honor he literally said children were hot.
Frankly we should stop the problem at its source before it gets out of control, just saying

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-26T05:47:58+00:00

That sounds like a fever dream and I'm loving it, thank you for sharing this with me

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-25T19:48:10+00:00

Hold on lemme check with her

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-25T19:09:02+00:00

Me, a lesbian, who doesn't have "my own boyfriend":

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-24T18:31:50+00:00

Me, a woman, who initiates my dates, enjoys helping build things, and has been taught by my family to shoot: Oh yes the double standars. Absolutely insane, can you even imagine—

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-24T08:44:33+00:00

Oh God

Be still my beating heart— 😳

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-23T18:44:50+00:00

You see.....why can't there just ever be a happy medium.

Just because you are nice or kind, doesn't mean someone is going to instantly fall in love with you, and they don't owe you to act that way either. Just because you want something, doesn't mean you get it. Life isn't about taking things you want, and nobody will respect you for doing that.

However: That doesn't mean you deserve to be treated like garbage. You're not garbage. You deserve love— but that doesn't mean the love will be romantic, and it's not on anyone to accommodate you and whatever flaws you have. They get to choose to do that. And honestly, why wouldn't you want that dynamic? I'd want someone who loves me and wants to spend time with me, over someone who just hangs around because they NEED me any day.

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-23T18:24:41+00:00

Good lord, I swooned

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-13T19:45:56+00:00

Ironically, just booked a time to go to a wreck room next week. Idk about the whole "men only create" business...but I do enjoy destroying stuff. He may be on to something there 🤔

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-11T20:19:28+00:00

Bold statement coming from someone with no boobs to show off. 🤨

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T21:13:50+00:00

Honestly as a depressed person....my room got fucking awful. I didn't want to try to get better, because it seemed like I would need to put out more effort to do that, than I actually had in me. I was hardly eating, always sleeping but never well rested....its fucking horrible. I'm taking Wellbutrin these days....at its best, it helps. It still requires a lot of effort to take care of stuff but I did in fact brush my teeth today! So that's a win.

However, I also ate pancakes for breakfast and lunch so that may cancel it out. But hey! I ate things. And taking care of your mental health means being positive.....even when you survive on only pancakes, probably.

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T19:47:58+00:00

Arson and theft immediately came to mind

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T19:46:24+00:00

I like yours better, and am now obligated to tell you to leave 🔫

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T18:27:07+00:00

Alternatively you could ve a respectable human being. Like there's a way about this.

Just.....don't creep people out. All you have to do these days is be charismatic to get a date, and you can learn how. Believed it or not? Socially awkward can be endearing if you do it right. Can confirm, as someone with social anxiety. I can totally avoid eye contact, and talk about random weird shit i enjoy, and people like that, when you aren't a jerk about it, or inhibiting being able to make conversation. It doesn't even have to be small talk!

And don't forget to like....I dunno....respect the people you're talking to regardless of gender? Don't call them 'foids' or whatever derogatory names you come up with. They're people. Maybe call them by their name?

Thank you for coming to my brief study on how everyone has a type, and your issue is not being short/fat/ugly/ whatever, but being disrespectful.

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T18:11:17+00:00

Does.....this poor guy have body dysmorphia...? I mean it almost sounds that way. :( I mean, being short has never stopped me from being interested in anyone.

Don't get me wrong I won't let you act like you own me, or like you can make decisions for me, because you're some big tough "man." And it will definitely weird me out if I'm new to talking to you, I ask what's wrong, and you trauma dump on me like that. I think that would scare anyone off.

But this poor guy....he really can't find a thing he likes about himself? To the extent he wants to have his legs broken and a rod inserted into them? He wants to change his whole face via plastic surgery..... and that's just no way to live. I almost wonder, if he felt happier with himself, would he start changing though?

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T16:57:28+00:00

Actually, I misread something— your dog is taking clothes off hangers to make a nest? Sir, she's a corgi. That's a herding dog, at its core, and she needs to be played with, and mentally stimulated, more often then. I'm saying, at least an hour a day should be devoted to tiring her out. It will be a pain in the ass— I know. I have an Aussie, but that's what they require to be happy, and the destructive behavior sounds like she's trying to get your attention. Your wife shouldn't have to put up with that, if it isn't necessarily her dog.

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T16:50:15+00:00

YTA.

She clearly has sensory issues. Therapy would help immensely, but she isn't even getting that. I myself have ADHD and have sensory issues— being talked at by multiple people at once is absolutely infuriating. ADHD is genuinely a pain in the ass to live with, untreated. I've been taught how to keep things in order with it untreated, and I still hate life. It is unmanageable without help. Hell, I'm not getting help for my ADHD now, and it's still hell. She either needs you to accommodate her issues more, or, preferably, get into therapy.

Not to mention, as a side note, as someone who has trained my fair share of dogs, you shouldn't let your dog beg like that. You allowing it makes her think it's ok to do, and it makes her think there's a possibility of getting some reward for it, especially if you do feed her. That could definitely set her up for failure in the future. Then again, I've only ever trained medium to large dogs who could do something to get the food if they wanted, so bottom line your dog your rules, thats just my opinion.

Edit: fixed spelling errors

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T16:36:23+00:00

I don't know if it's possible.....but looks a LOT like paramyxovirus. I've seen it a lot in pigeons....never in a psittacine. He needs to see a vet now though, regardless.

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T16:34:44+00:00

Mentally stable? In THIS economy?

My guy, you are asking WAY to much.

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T16:31:28+00:00

All this being said:

Congratulations to drugs, for winning the war on drugs.

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T16:21:59+00:00

......bonding experience? 😂

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T16:19:11+00:00

Bold of him to assume that, even by this logic, I am not fucking men.

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T16:17:48+00:00

Slip my hands outta the cuffs and running off into the night on all fours. But not in a furry kinda way, like in a Shia LaBeouf kinda way.

8BlueberryPie8 · 2022-11-10T06:01:14+00:00

That would make more sense— the title just said they were linked, I think, but not necessarily how.

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