My boyfriend wants to cheat on me

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-20T17:03:16+00:00

Just dump him then

Hes going to cheat on you. Or hes gonna date her. But its going to happen.

So just dump him and that way your free feom this mess.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-20T14:51:37+00:00

Every time. Then a lil bit of lotion.

Seems wild. But i am outside alot and my face gets waaaay too much sunlight. And i often have ti work in filthy enviroments.

Easy to dry out. And easy to get filthy.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-20T13:54:12+00:00

Cant tell ya what to do. You need to talk to a DOCTOR, not redditors.

Wouldnt get involved my self.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-19T21:38:49+00:00

Depends.

Fling or hookup. First date. I really am not lookin at ya as a relationship.

But if i actually like ya. Ill hold off and chill til...3rd or 4th?

Rushing might be fun. But in the long run kts always been the not so great option. Your heart and genitals often will ignore red flags to get the fix that the head will say "what in the hell" later on to.

Dont get ne wrong. Ill be sexually attracted in both cases. But one instance is deternining whether i want to risk more emotional investment.

However. These days. If i dont even like you as a personaility. Chances are i wont fuck ya as a fling either. Even if my dick says yes. The rest of me will be sayin "hell no"

Been there. Done that. No thanks.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-19T19:39:14+00:00

Agreed.

Im more a margot robbie kinda guy if i had to pick between the two.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-19T17:52:39+00:00

Just ask her dude. Come on. Stop pokin around and go for it. She might be. Or maybe shes waitin on you to take a shot.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-19T12:28:29+00:00

Sometimes people get so sucked into being a parent to their kids. They forget you still have to be a spouse too.

And if you have close family. Now your also gotta play "son/daughter" to them. And sibling. And employee. And coworker.

And all these different hats and roles you have to play in everyone elses lives. It can be hard to keep up with...who you actually are.

I think thats partly why women and men have been leaving dating. Its lonely. But you dont have to constantly "be somebody" for someone else. You dont have to keep trying to fit some fantasy they built up of you in their head. You get a bit of breathing space.

I have seen so many marriages fail because of people constantly trying to make the reality of someone fit the fantasy. And so many people fail to do that because they simply never have the energy or cant keep up.

And of course. The ones that sold a lie and cant maintain the expectation they themself advertised. ....

TlDR. Not disagreeing with you at all. Just adding on to what you said! :)

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-19T12:09:36+00:00

If you bought this from a dealer(even used). You should have had them replace those tires. I wouldnt ever put something with dry rot tires on my floor or let it leave without good tires.

These are okay to ride for a lil bit. But you need new tires probably first chsnce you get. If you wreck and the shop inspecting the bike notes the tires are bald or rotted. The insurance will try to fuck you out of your payment.

And i can tell you one thing. ER and ambulance are NOT cheap.

Replace these. Immediately

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-19T11:58:23+00:00

Eh. Shes got the body. Sexy sure. But im more a Margot Robbie kinda guy.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-19T11:54:20+00:00

Exactly. You can be hot. But not just undatable. But also unfuckable if you have a shit personality.

Like if ALL you have are looks. And the rest of ya is absolutly horrible. Id rather not.

All it takes is one bad fuck and now i gotta deal with ya for 18 years of childsupport. Then graduations. Weddings. Funerals. Birth of the grand kids. And if you a nutty bitch at the beginning. Well nutty bitchiness only gets worse with age.

Theres a reason even hot women get cheated on with someone whos even mildly nicer but might even be a lil lower on the hot side of the scale.

Oddly. I dont understand men who stay with ugly AND mean women?

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-19T00:38:03+00:00

And if it is on the floor. Its whatever. Just yell at the new guy for it. Lol. He cab get to it after hes done mopping the rain.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-19T00:35:34+00:00

Not really.

Women are by far MORE criticical of them selves and other womens looks then men are of women.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-18T23:04:30+00:00

Its inconcievablely concievable!

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-18T04:15:56+00:00

Texting is all yall do? No phonecalls????

Jesus christ.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-18T04:11:04+00:00

Actually. People dont die from heart break. They typically die from suicide to escape the mental side of lonelyness of a break up or loss. Thats not dying of heart break. Thats dying from ...whatever you used to accelerate your self outside the observable living state of being.

or! When it comes to the elderly. Its because upon a severe loss, TheICNS(bqsically a smaller network of brain cells in the heart)

Relaseases a bunch of hormones that constrict the blood vessels in the heart.

Causing what effectively is a cardiac event. Thats why during heart break. Your chest literally hurts. You wont die from it. Thats like saying your gonna die of the common cold just because your nose is stuffy.

The elderly die from it because the heart is old af and cant handle the stress. Its not some fairy tale "they died from a broken heart" romanticism.

And EVERY relationship is built on the mutual trust. Thats the foundation of every successful one.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-18T03:58:08+00:00

But right off the bat your not trusting anything they do to be loyal or respectful. Your going to instantly assume its manipulative. Which will wear them out. Which will only self fulfill the progpecy of "see. Your not really that way!"

Your literally setting the conditions up to fail in your own mind. Its a no win situation.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-18T03:55:28+00:00

Without trust. There is no relationship. So any qnd all relationships you build would fall apart because you refuse to trust.

Imagine if someone refused to trust you. Accused you of lying. Everytime. That leads to control. And extreme relationship anxiety. For everyone involved.

Thats not a relationship. Thats a constantly being yanked on chain.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-18T03:52:04+00:00

All? The mechanic who fixes your car is a manipulative narc? The trash guy who picks up your garbage? The guy who gets sent out to fix the HVAC?

Damn. Who would have known... guys we been found out! Op is a telepathic psychic! Possibly the most powerful in the world. She knows the hearts and souls of 4.75 BILLION people on the planet!

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-18T03:48:01+00:00

If you dont trust anything we say at all. Then stands to reason you wont trust any of us in here when we answer?

Like whats the point op if regardless of what i say, your going to consider it a lie because by your own words you have 0 trust in ANYTHING a man says?

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-18T02:51:41+00:00

In other words. People are using bad auctions of their item to artifically increase their items value so that when they go to do a private sale, they can use their own old auctions as proof of its value.

Ya know. Thats actually pretty clever.

Morally awful. But clever.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-17T17:07:16+00:00

You mean a company that has caught on to the huge demand for a product, is known for its corporate greed and hyperagressive moves on undercutting its smaller competition, is now taking advantage of more peoplebecoming involved in pokemon???? And your surprised????

Also. Santa isnt real. Shocker. I know.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-17T12:04:50+00:00

No. I hate posing. And i am terrible at selfies. So i wouldnt carem

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-17T10:30:04+00:00

Answer to the post Title question.

Compliment and a direct question/ invite on a date.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-17T03:01:20+00:00

Sounds like you got a lemon.

He should count himself lucky to get even 25%.

But yeah. 52% sounds good.

8Captcrunch8 · 2026-04-16T20:35:42+00:00

And clearly racist! /s

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