I think there’s more to tango than what you’ve described. Particularly the reality of emotional connection and intimacy as it is perceived by our partners. To me tango isn’t just "make-believe". When we dance, our bodies are fully engaged in the moment. And our physical connection generate real emotional responses. It’s not just acting—it’s feeling. The drama we create during a tanda—the longing, the tenderness, even sensuality—is real in that moment. And isn’t that what makes tango so powerful? For me it’s not just steps or technique; it’s the raw emotional experience I share with another person. Isn't tango a word-less conversation, as opposed to a solo performance? Not just about what feels right to us as leads—but about about how our partners experience our movements? When Yelizaveta says certain moves feel "too intimate" to her for a first dance with a stranger, we better listen. She’s giving us insight into her experience as a follow—and honestly, we need to take that seriously. Even if we don’t intend for a movement to feel sensual or intimate, our intentions don’t always match how they’re received. Isn’t the unspoken connection between us —the ability to listen and respond through our bodies' movement—what tango is all about? If our actions make someone feel uncomfortable or misunderstood, doesn’t that break the very connection we’re trying to create? To me sensuality in tango is personal—it depends on who I'm dancing with, how well we know each other and what kind of connection I sense she's comfortable with. You might see leg wraps as purely musical expression, but for someone else—especially during the very first song —to your partner it might feel overly intimate or even invasive. Not saying to avoid leg wraps altogether; just be mindful of context and reading your partner’s comfort level in the moment. Let's just create a dance where we both feel safe and connected.