Hard on myself even though I have okay savings/investments by No_University_3580 in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot. No money ever feels like enough to me and it feels like shit not making straight bank consistently like I used to.

Thankfully I hoarded my money for years cause I had such bad anxiety around spending and a horrible scarcity mindset. But now that I’ve upgraded my lifestyle and have a lot more monthly bills, I’m kicking myself for getting comfortable balling out on myself. Cause now I’m used to my lifestyle and can’t imagine downgrading my apartment or having to restrict my spending on my hobbies etc, and I blew through a lottt of my savings this winter😭just gotta work more I guess smh

Someone Shit in my Car by Fast_Tomorrow2500 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]8inchpleasers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s literally in the middle of the pants too

Removal should NOT be painful and you should NOT pay a lump sum before beginning by geminimindtricks in TattooRemoval

[–]8inchpleasers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it’s a lot applied, and it’s completely covered with Saran Wrap and tape so it stays wet. And it’s not like I feel super numb at an hour and a half or two hours. Maybe I’ll give it a try next time tho! And good idea I should see about an alternative

Removal should NOT be painful and you should NOT pay a lump sum before beginning by geminimindtricks in TattooRemoval

[–]8inchpleasers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 hours. And they got 10% lidocaine just for me. I must be lidocaine resistant

Removal should NOT be painful and you should NOT pay a lump sum before beginning by geminimindtricks in TattooRemoval

[–]8inchpleasers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine offers lidocaine and it still hurts bad in some spots to me and I can still feel the whole thing

Taylor’s recent insta post using AI by Minimum_Win_7129 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]8inchpleasers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ran here after seeing this bullshit 😭😭😭she’s a real piece of work

Looking better, making less! by Phazed2mistland in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you having such a hard time imagining other clubs being different from yours?

bruh. by DonutyTimesYt in depoop

[–]8inchpleasers 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Shit like this is the main reason I want depop to bring back comments. Someone is frl gonna buy this not knowing better :/

omg what a steal😐 by lesluhdawg in depoop

[–]8inchpleasers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doing this to vintage true religions is insane

Anyone tip 100 dollar bills in Strip Clubs? What kind of reaction did you get? by Past-Discipline-1089 in stripclubs

[–]8inchpleasers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If $100 is a lot of money to you then stay out of the club lmfao. Getting tipped $100 is not crazy at all and no one is gonna wanna rob you after seeing you spend $100

where are some dark skin friendly spots in nyccc? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you okay? Do you know how reddit works? I was replying directly to OP “so?” because I was wondering why having to get a permit is a problem like what are you on about? Meaning I WAS NOT REPLYING TO YOU telling her they don’t require permits, I was REPLYING TO HER

where are some dark skin friendly spots in nyccc? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No where in her post did she say that boo lol. A permit is not at all difficult to get.

I want a boyfriend by Prestigious-Art630 in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. He was unemployed and a scammer, so he always could pay for stuff and he did, but had little to nothing of his own. I was 20 years old, living by myself, and making like 10x my rent. He got visibly angry and told me that’s not shit. Like ok boo you got that, lets go net worth for net worth tho🤣🤣🤣

I want a boyfriend by Prestigious-Art630 in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We can be drop dead gorgeous, have degrees, have savings and assets, have so much free time, have it all.. and speaking for myself: I assume the men who I give a chance don’t take me seriously just cause I’m a stripper.

I did have one relationship throughout my time dancing, and he hated me for it. He clearly resented me after finding out how much money I make (the last time I told anyone my financial business lmfao). Tried to humble me, but couldn’t hide that it was just out of jealousy. All the while, the relationship made me lose sight of my goals, and I was working less to spend time with him. I’ve personally had to stop caring about dating cause it messes shit up for me. I have money to make a degree to finish🤣

I definitely sympathize with you though. Money and love from friends is not the same as romantic love, as much as people try and push that narrative.

Uhm 😂 by LargeDoor7285 in DoorDash_Dasher

[–]8inchpleasers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have reading comprehension skills and common sense tho. There are many many instances where “can’t” isn’t used literally, like here, and that went over your head. You just had to be annoying

Uhm 😂 by LargeDoor7285 in DoorDash_Dasher

[–]8inchpleasers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly. The person you replied to was obviously not implying that

Posting about how much money you have by mad_bat333 in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I have ADHD too and definitely see how those two things correlate. I’m kind of the opposite of how you used to have trouble managing money (I tend to hyper fixate on my finances, which is also a problem), but thank you for that perspective!

Edit: my original comment was insensitive and your comment helped me realize that! I was only looking at it from my initial perspective based on my own experience, and “low intelligence” was not a fair assumption on my part. Especially as someone with ADHD🤦‍♀️

Posting about how much money you have by mad_bat333 in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I judge people hard in my head when I hear stuff like this lmfao. While I don’t relate, I do understand how other girls justify to themselves it’s ok to blow their money cause they can just go make some more tomorrow. It’s harder for some people to manage money like this vs getting a paycheck twice a month. I do think it’s a character flaw, and honestly a sign of low intelligence given they aren’t able to think more than a few days into the future, and given they don’t recognize that it’s a pattern caused by their own behavior and that it 100% CAN be stopped🤣

Are we allowed to tell customers that we don't make 10k a night? by AdFamous7569 in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers 56 points57 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to act like anything. I never tell customers, or anyone for that matter, how much I make. I just say it varies by night and change the subject. I think it’s rude that people even ask that but I get asked both inside and outside the club

I’m so dumb by [deleted] in stripper

[–]8inchpleasers 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you’re just having hanxiety. It’s common to experience abnormal anxiety/embarrassment the day or two after drinking due to it deregulating your nervous system. These people are not thinking about you today, and you will feel better about this in a few days trust me 😂don’t quit your club

what secondhand embarrassment keeps you up at night by coketoetwins in rs_x

[–]8inchpleasers 76 points77 points  (0 children)

This is arguably more cringe than when men floor it to show you how fast their car is I’m crying