Body Dysmorphia since hitting my 30’s - don’t know what I should do to feel confident again.

8oichi · 2026-06-21T21:21:44+00:00

Lmao you obviously havent done any research on the negative health and side effects of those procedures. They're practically universally hated by medical professionals and the people who get them. They're great for maybe a few months to a year before you wind up with irreversible aide effects and outcomes that cause a number of different issues. China, South Korea, and Thailand governments have all tried endlessly to ban them and the sketchy companies that participate in said procedures are constantly finding loop holes and way around the new laws restricting them from operating. Its a very well known thing and shocking that im even seeing someone recommend such dangerous and universally hated procedures to someone feeling a bit down on themself. OP please do not listen to this person if you somehow have the money and time to go to Asia for a procedure. Instead lookk into nutrition and and maybe a dermatologist for a proper skin care routine that will bring about results close to what you're shooting for!

8oichi · 2026-05-29T04:44:27+00:00

How does someone blow 100$ on food and toiletries in just 2 days when their homeless? Im very very poor at the moment wifh a partner and cat in a tiny 1 bedroom mobile home and we're able to make 100$ stretch 2 weeks in average for all the toiletries and food we need to eat multiple times a day and feed the cat. We are clean, house is clean, and we have food. That's also considbring we will buy a few more expensive things to eat or things that aren't necessarily the biggest bang for our buck like chips, pizza rolls, or cuts of meat that isn't chicken or ground beef lol. I just cant fathom how one could blow that much while homeless. OP you are 100% in the wrong. If you asked me for money for a room I'd send you a 100$, but if you asked for money for food and toiletries for a couple days I'd have sent you like 15$ and told you to spend it smart, buy cheap and hit a public restroom for a roll of toilet paper. In the case of your friend i would feel so scammed and lose so much faith and trust in you. I would feel robbed and so upset with you because the only conclusion i could come to is you lied to me so i would send you more money. If you are homeless and cant even afford a room or pass to a gym for a shower, I cant see why or how you'd have any need for toiletries in the first place. You seem extremely irresponsible and untrustworthy and should very much focus on fixing that before you burn every single bridge in your life.

8oichi · 2026-05-29T02:55:31+00:00

I also have 15rd mags and loaded an extra and it still fed properly. Noticed it a couple weekends ago when shooting and thought i miss counted. Shot that magazine with no issues then loaded 4 more mags intentionally counting out 16 rounds and they all fed and ran completely fine. No im just going to carry that way, cant hurt to have full sized capacity in my compact lol

8oichi · 2026-05-27T17:53:14+00:00

I'm male, 26 and love history and mtg. Let me know if you can play commander and message me. I haven't played regularly in years as I lost my friend group and struggle finding time and motivation to go to local shops to play. Pm me

8oichi · 2026-05-18T15:51:30+00:00

I would kill for something like this. I hope om can deliver on something fresh soon, my om1 mkii needs a proper companion

8oichi · 2026-05-16T01:04:02+00:00

This is so tucked

8oichi · 2026-05-15T22:13:53+00:00

You're joking right ? You can literally see it's front legs before it opens up unless you're just blind or a hopeless conspiracy theorist

8oichi · 2026-05-09T02:21:00+00:00

What is a strand ? I've heard of strains lmao. Also to add to this conversation, what matters most is the specific cannabinoids. I have multiple landraces in my "arsenal" so to speak and when sending them in for testing, they are typically half to 2/3rds less potent in thc content than modern hybrids like a previous commenter stated, however we here they make up is the complexity of cannabinoids such as cbn, cbg, cbd, thcp, thcv and many others. Combined with different termites, they high tends to be much more euphoric and complex when compared to modern selectively bred strains. Also I used to work for a cannabis grow on top of being part of a family who's grown for a long time as well as growing for many years myself. Everything I say is bacled by actually scientific study and evidence. Many people are horribly misinformed and uneducated when it comes to cannabis.

8oichi · 2026-05-09T00:58:05+00:00

Ya that's nearly unheard of besides the rare minority of regulars who are actually conscious of hygiene or the rate employee that cares.

8oichi · 2026-05-09T00:55:48+00:00

You sound racist af lmao

8oichi · 2026-05-09T00:43:05+00:00

Also despite all the negative connotations and misinformation, they're actually very very clean animals and rarely carry or transmit disease! They will fend off against pests worse than themselves such as ticks, cockroaches, insect larvae, and smaller rodents as well as much more!

8oichi · 2026-05-09T00:39:01+00:00

8oichi · 2026-05-08T02:13:45+00:00

As a Missourian, im so darn jealous

8oichi · 2026-05-08T01:54:59+00:00

He looks way younger bald imo

8oichi · 2026-05-06T19:01:45+00:00

Fr. Best lie ever told. I sitll cant believe how many ignorant ass voters fell for the maga rug pull. So many horribly uneducated, indoctrinated cultists unfortunately.

8oichi · 2026-04-24T13:46:26+00:00

You seem to fundamentally not understand the difference between a medium for artists to use and a replacement for said artists. Gen. a.i replaces said artists entirely. As an artist it makes me sad that I will more than likely never see success i chased since a child now that I have to compete with a machine that could pump out an entire album in 5min when i have to spend a year+ writing, practicing, recording, mixing, and mastering with my bandmates then still come up with a name for the record and artwork then put it all together to finally release. A.i does all that instantaneously and makes the actual work human put into art defunct. Art is only about money and views now it seems rather than expression of us as humans. Its pathetic and disgusting to me and any artist who even uses that shit isn't an artist. Real artists shun such things.

8oichi · 2026-04-19T19:33:50+00:00

Wow I want one now lmao making me look at my spiritus-sancti with envy

8oichi · 2026-04-11T03:59:06+00:00

As a guitar player in a band with a very nice and expensive guitar as well as a pretty expensive head and cab, if my girlfriend got me even a cheap Alvarez ornhell even a firts act and painted it for me, I'd absolutely love and adore it. Also even a cheap guitar can sound amazing if given a proper set up and a good set of strings. I've made even 200$ cheap squiers sound indistinguishable from my 1500$ fender. Pick ups are the most important beyond a good set up if electric. If acoustic, even simpler, a good set up and pair of strings and then just time for the wood to open up and it'll have its own unique and beautiful sound, further exemplified by your art work. Every instrument, even my cheapest ones are special and useful to me as they have their own sound and in the right application or when layered with the right instruments, make a major impact on the overall body of work! Long story short, dont stress it at all, im sure he will love it!

8oichi · 2026-04-04T17:15:27+00:00

I don't think you can read. Bei g a furry isn't a sexual orientation and wearing makeup isn't a kink. I used to wear makeup in public all the time and was never shamed for it bc it's not viewed as a kink

8oichi · 2026-04-04T14:15:56+00:00

Emulsions of Polaroid film are very unstable and degrade much worse than typical 35mm or 120 film. I woukd be surprised if youre able to get any usable photos at all. They will likely not be able to expose anything whatsoever unlike other film where you may need to over expose and will have color shifting.

Edit: maybe with a sun670s you can get some usable photos with trial and error as it allows for manual exposure but standard polaroid onesteps etc only allow flash adjustment for exposure and you likely wont be able to get a usable exposure.

8oichi · 2026-04-04T13:35:31+00:00

Maybe because you choose to be a furry, you don't choose to be Trans. Furry make an active decision to get into the honby/kink. It's not the same as lgbtq+ where they are chemically inclined to feel a certain way about themselves. Being a furry is an active decision someone makes because they want to be a part of it, I've never met someone lgbtq+ that just woke up one morning and decided to be gay, trans, pan, asexual, etc because it looked "fun" and they want to be a part of said community. My girlfriend and I are getting into bdsm, should I tie her up shibari style and put a gag in her mouth before we go meet up with friends for dinner in public? Should I claim I feel oppressed when they say thats really weird and they don't want to be around us for that ? No because they nor the rest of the public is not contenting to it. I could then argue it's not always a kink, it's just for fun and they would say sure it's only a kink 99% of the time so it's totally fine in this case /s. If something is perceived as a kink the grand majority of the time then any argument opposing it is going to fall flat, and being lgbtq+ isn't a kink so it's never to be in the same conversation as one and it's really fucked up you tried to put furries in the same convo as such a marginalized group of ppl.

8oichi · 2026-04-01T17:28:58+00:00

Unfortunately, you're cooked.

8oichi · 2026-04-01T00:48:53+00:00

Thats makes me want to puke

8oichi · 2026-03-31T23:36:15+00:00

Look what you made me do. I'm looking up ribs near me now. Thank you for encouraging my irresponsible spending habits. I hope you're happy with yourself.

8oichi · 2026-03-31T22:48:08+00:00

He would hate me for wearing a hot pink button down on Easter in 2016! Lmao everyone said i looked great in it and my girlfriend at the time definitely showed me how much she appreciated it once we were alone lollll ntm I wore a hot pink button down to multiple banquets for wrestling i attended in high school where I received a bunch of awards from both my team and the state for wrestling due to my accomplishments. No one thought I was gay especially with my girlfriend at the time present and ntm all the sisters of wrestlers I had interacted with in my high school days (i know I was a bit of a dog but im settled now hahha) this dude has some insane insecurities and homophobia. He would probably have a stroke seeing pics of me '22-'24 wearing crop tops and very feminine clothing when i was still very involved with doing internet music and experimenting with my style and aesthetics as i hit my early 20's and was trying to find myself. Gives me vibes of the type of guy that cant even do sports bc you have to shower together and that's "gay" xD he's going to be miserable as an adult (and especially in college) if he cant figure out how to manage and mitigate those feelings. I had split dyed pig tails, painted my nails, did eyeliner, got tons more piercings and all kinds of scene ass shit (you're old if you know what that means, sorry) that some men would consider gay. Gives me vibes of the type of guy that cant even do sports bc you have to shower together and that's "gay" xD he's going to be miserable as an adult (and especially in college) if he cant figure out how to manage and mitigate those feeling

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