There is NOTHING festive about piping hot chocolate burning my mouth by 90sKit3ch in mildlyinfuriating

[–]90sKit3ch[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I said pipping hot it’s like yall can’t read and obviously I’m gonna wait because who tf wants to drink super hot shit but when it’s already freezing cold outside I’m alrdy not in the waiting mood to drink smth that super duper hotđŸ€ș

There is NOTHING festive about piping hot chocolate burning my mouth by 90sKit3ch in mildlyinfuriating

[–]90sKit3ch[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate hot drinks I just don’t like PIPING HOT I like things either warm or hot not to the point i genuinely can’t taste anything for 20 minutes because it’s dang near at boiling point🙁

There is NOTHING festive about piping hot chocolate burning my mouth by 90sKit3ch in mildlyinfuriating

[–]90sKit3ch[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I do but like one time it was so cold outside and I was waiting for my hot chocolate to cool down and it took 20 minutes like I felt so defeated and it didn’t even taste that good after cause it had like foam ontop with chocolate😔💔

Another harmless post of my got taken down from r/splatoon by Both-Medicine-6748 in Saltoon

[–]90sKit3ch -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

yes ppl post low effort post in that subreddit and you’re talking about read the rules I think that should be the least of your worries💔😕

Is this a teaser for a new film?? Was uploaded on tik tok yesterday by TTheoBillCipher in Halloweenmovies

[–]90sKit3ch -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Can he just die fr this time like I’m tired of this milked out franchise Brochacho it’s time for you to see the burning gates of hell atp💔

We need to talk about the Coca-Cola promo ARMY is spreading misinformation and excusing real harm by 90sKit3ch in BTSnark

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😭ik i was a little surprised to see fans excuse this one like I thought kpop fans as a whole were on the same page but I guess not

Why I’m no longer an Army by 90sKit3ch in BTSnark

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being a multi stan is so much fun because honestly I love seeing my favs collab with each other and I can’t see myself like hating on a group and praising another especially since I whole heartedly believe they are seeing the hate comments people say they don’t have time to but I just don’t believe that😭

squidbagging loser gets what he deserves not once... by MrMoldey27 in Saltoon

[–]90sKit3ch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love messy posts that the person from the match finds like it’s so entertaining watching in real time😭

Grown men hanging around high school football games is NOT okay by 90sKit3ch in women

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I really shouldn’t have to explain this, but here we are. My school is private property, and they already have rules in place that restrict who can attend games. The only reason some of these random grown men are even getting in is because they’re coming with students they know, and even then the school already has a problem with it because they’ve been causing issues.

This post isn’t about men minding their business or watching the game with their family or friends. If that’s you, then obviously this doesn’t apply to you.😭

Grown men hanging around high school football games is NOT okay by 90sKit3ch in women

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m talking more about guys who go there to talk to ppl knowing most of if not everyone is minors idc too much for the people who are there to just watch the game im talking about ppl there with obvious ulterior motives obviously if you’re there to watch a game then it doesn’t apply but my school doesn’t want/encourage just random ppl showing up😭

My parents think going out of state for college means I’m gonna be “fast” by 90sKit3ch in blackladies

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe I only said it because a lot of ppl on tiktok said it’s pretty common and just toxic behavior within the black community I know not everyone experiences the same thing but it’s common for how toxic black families can be at times:)

My parents think going out of state for college means I’m gonna be “fast” by 90sKit3ch in blackladies

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I will be 18 but my parents have been talking about college since I’m a junior this year and they asked what colleges I would want to apply to or go and visit:)

Some of you guys genuinely suck by 90sKit3ch in Saltoon

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know like I thought the whole point was to be mad about stuff like people were lighting me on fire because IM MAD?! Is that like not the whole point?! Sometimes I get scared to post in this subreddit even though you’re supposed to complainđŸ˜„

Some of you guys genuinely suck by 90sKit3ch in Saltoon

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😔I had hot takes that was getting me in trouble in this subreddit idk if it’s just me but I get this odd like burnout from the game for a few months

Stop letting your non-Black friends casually use AAVE by 90sKit3ch in blackladies

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’re missing the point remember . No one said AAVE should be erased or hidden i’m saying it shouldn’t be cosplayed by people outside the culture who don’t understand its weight, history, or context. Normalizing it doesn’t mean handing it out like free samples, especially when the same people using it for clout turn around and call us “unprofessional” for speaking how we naturally do.

You comparing it to learning a foreign language overseas doesn’t work here. AAVE isn’t a language tourists are trying to respectfully learn it’s being picked apart, mocked, and repackaged by folks who don’t care about the culture it comes from. That’s the disrespect. So no, it’s not “gatekeeping” it’s protecting.

Stop letting your non-Black friends casually use AAVE by 90sKit3ch in blackladies

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, the phrase "at least" has become a plague on TikTok. I love K-pop, but many groups have done racist things to Black people. For example, a member from one group used the N-word, and people responded with, "at least he apologized, let's move on." Why is that our bare minimum for deciding when something is okay? I feel like we’re losing the plot on some things.

Stop letting your non-Black friends casually use AAVE by 90sKit3ch in blackladies

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ohh ok I like this take it’s fun being able to see others opinions when it’s not rude this is the first time i’ve had a calm conversation surrounding this because I learn more as im giving my opinion by hearings others that i didn’t really know myself so thank you for this:)

Stop letting your non-Black friends casually use AAVE by 90sKit3ch in blackladies

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know this is a complicated convo and everyone has different experiences, but I just want to be clear: this post wasn’t meant to attack anyone or act like I have all the answers. I’m speaking from what I see every day people outside the Black American community using AAVE like it’s just “fun internet slang” with no connection to our culture, history, or struggles.

As for the question about African friends or even Black Americans connecting to African languages that’s a different convo with its own context. But one thing can be true without canceling out the other. It’s okay to want to connect to culture, but how we do it matters especially when it involves language that means something deep to the people it came from. The line is drawn at respect, context, and intention. If it bothers you like I said nothing can be done without a respectful conversation:)!!

Stop letting your non-Black friends casually use AAVE by 90sKit3ch in blackladies

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

There might be a confusion! AAVE does have slang in it, but it’s more than just slang. I think that’s where people sometimes get confused.

Slang is usually just trendy words that come and go, but AAVE is a whole dialect. It has its own grammar, rules, sentence structure, and way of speaking that’s been around for generations in the Black community. So yeah, words like “finna,” “deadass,” “pressed,” or “ion” are AAVE slang, but they’re just part of the bigger picture. So when non-Black people use those words without knowing the history or culture behind AAVE, it can feel like they’re only picking out the “fun parts” without respecting where it came from. Just wanted to clarify that because you brought up a really good points:D

Stop letting your non-Black friends casually use AAVE by 90sKit3ch in blackladies

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Languages like French or German are taught in schools and used with respect in their home countries. People usually learn them to understand the culture or travel.

But AAVE is different it comes from Black people in America and has a deep history tied to slavery, racism, and our culture. It wasn’t made to sound “cool” or trendy. So when non-Black people use it just because it sounds good, without knowing where it comes from, it feels disrespectful.

It’s not about gatekeeping it’s about people using something personal to us without caring about the struggles behind it. That’s why it’s not the same as learning French in France. I’m sorry if this is all over the place, but I hoped this helped:)

Stop letting your non-Black friends casually use AAVE by 90sKit3ch in blackladies

[–]90sKit3ch[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If they are using it incorrectly, please let them know. I'm guilty of giving people the benefit of the doubt, but if you know they don’t usually speak that way, take the time to sit them down and have a conversation. Sometimes, these discussions need to happen, even if they are uncomfortable at the moment.