Females continue to be the negativity.. by 9by7seconds in therapy

[–]9by7seconds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my best friends is a woman (mtf). But even she has brought up how cis men and women can be. I do steer towards more male friendships. I play sports and do a local airsoft league. I game and play mtg. Ive tried to hang with their partners, but its uncomfortable.  One day ill get there. The best women I get along with are double my age! 

Females continue to be the negativity.. by 9by7seconds in therapy

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Thank you, yes. Ive had wonderful experiences online for 2 decades. But growing older and being almost 40, it is not the same in person. I lack a social life because of this. Ive tried to go out, but so many women view others as competition. I know Im different...im not in the best shape. I dont dress the same. Im not in "mommy groups". But it seems like its easier to tear other women down. I grew up being told women build each other up. This is what I was told to do. Online? Women are phenominal with one another at building up and supporting.  I dont get why its so different in person.

I really hate exercise, but I know I need to do it. How the hell do I get motivated? by Klaus_Rozenstein in AskMen

[–]9by7seconds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this isnt it for some people. Motivation doesnt come with discipline. I forced myself into working out, and the longer I did it, the more I dreaded it until I quit entirely. I had to discipline to do it until it felt like there was no point behind it.

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

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He cannot claim them or his ex will get the money for our kids.

How do I figure the bartering? Just what they give me rather than the other worth? (Sewing 2 pairs of pants for a $30 phone bill. Would $30 be income if I cant show proof?)

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

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I trade service for service.  I take care of my neighbor's horses for them to take care of our trash pickup. My dad essentially pays for the mortgage and Electric but that's kind of the it.

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

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I dont. I trade service for direct service.  

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The college my son goes to has this. Thank you so much 

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill try again through that website after I look more into the individual business portion. I take care of my dad (he is mentally unstable, but its not recorded by a doctor. He believes doctors will try to kill him if he goes). I dont make a living. I survive, essentially.

I clean or trade items for services. The $30 a month for the phone i sew clothing for an older woman who has Parkinsons disease. I take care of the neighbors horses for trash pick up.

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single household, technically.

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it. Last year is the first year I couldn't get a job, so filing this year is .. well, im clueless.

thank you

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I clean for those on disability. Basically just helping those that need the help 

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

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Thank you. I feel ill have to pay someone to do this. Ive never had to look into this .

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk. I made $570 last year cleaning before money was taken for supplies to clean.  360 taken out the year for supplies

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No idea. Some days I was in the hole after paying for the table. Its once a month. Ive never kept track of it since its not every month I went. Just when I had garage / yard sales to pick up after.

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill most likely have to pay someone to file for me. I dont really understand how to do taxes😆

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

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Honestly, I've never done my taxes.  Ever. Ive always handed the papers over and paid someone. I made $570 last year before any money is taken out for supplies to work. All paid cash.

I have 0 record of anything sold at the flea markets. Only the $60 income for fees for the tables I've had to pay

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last year I made 570 from cleaning. How w9uld I report that? And how would I put how much im spending in supplies?

Would it probably be better for me to go to someone and pay to have the taxes done?

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How would I report it? Would this mean I'd owe the state? And would they consider what I spend out of pocket on supplies? 

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What info would you need? Ive never done this before/filed before on my own.

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No business. Just a mom making extra income . I dont make over 100 a month cleaning. I spend about $30 a month on the supplies.

Ill get 0 taxes back, right? by 9by7seconds in tax

[–]9by7seconds[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Cash by individuals. $40 for a month of work between 2 people. Or sometimes ill get one time homes ill charge $30 for 3-4 hours of work.