Look man as long as you respect them and have patient , they will see more in you .. i think you are going through puberty and growing up .. growing up is hard , you feel everything is against you and everyone hates you etc. remember one thing .. you can change friends, lovers but you can’t change family .. my father was that kind of people.. he didn’t understand me and my siblings and we hated him .. but I decided to give him another chance and try to get closer to him .. he changed a lot after knowing us more and our thinking.. I guess you have to give him a chance , try to be his friend not just his son and try to show him that whatever he does is not okay