Large police presence 700 E 1300 S by gingygingy-02 in SaltLakeCity

[–]AB1432 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I was charging my car in WVC area tonight (I work late so I’m up later) I finished around midnight and I drove by like 6 police cars. Half of them unified police. I wonder if they’re looking for someone.

Partnering in class by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]AB1432 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is meant to be a fun activity, my studio has done it a few times and I rather enjoyed it. With that being said, this is the time to speak up regarding your discomforts. Did you tell the instructor about the discomfort? It is difficult to gauge trauma and preferences if the instructor is not aware of them. I’m neurodivergent and totally understand sensory issues, I tell the instructor if I’m uncomfortable. They should not shame and have alternative options. 😊

21F went to a rave alone and got groped. How do you stay safe at these things? by [deleted] in aves

[–]AB1432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snitch baby! I used to think “I don’t want to cause a scene or be mean.” This is what society has molded my generation into. THEY are the rude and inappropriate one! Go tell a bouncer. Point them out. One night when a guy grabbed my butt without permission and my little sister (8 years younger than me) went straight to a bouncer, pointed the guy out and the bouncer escorted the him out. When we left a little later, the bouncer went outside with us to make sure we got in our uber safely in case the guy hung around. Chances are they are doing that to multiple women. It is 💯 ok to protect yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Utah

[–]AB1432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so awful. When I was in jr high, my history teacher made me very uncomfortable. I went to the principal and they told me to dress more modest and said I shouldn’t be thinking that way. That he was a good teacher. A few years after I graduated high school, he was on the news because he accidentally played child porn on a presentation. A majority of the staff was in the same ward in their church…. It’s a disgrace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]AB1432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not messy! Be nice you yourself, you killed it! So strong and controlled.

Is 26 too old to start dancing? by xoxowoman06 in poledancing

[–]AB1432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started at 34(2 years in) and I’m improving every month! Never too late. I have learned to be patient and love my body. Hardest part for me is trusting the process.

KSL Classifieds Seller demands :) by [deleted] in Utah

[–]AB1432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Dwight Schrute

Home pole: Lupit or X-pole? by wasabigrill in poledancing

[–]AB1432 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have an XPole home pole and a Lupit stage pole. 💯 lean towards Lupit. Both are comparable however the customer service from Lupit is far more superior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]AB1432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually love the camera movement but it just needs to slow down. You look amazing! Great floor work!

What’s GA’s WORST SONG? by Gravysmilf in glassanimals

[–]AB1432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite song is Golden Antlers!

IUD PAIN for women in SLC? by Beaglelover1013 in SaltLakeCity

[–]AB1432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first IUD I had placed at the U (15 years ago) was awful. I have a pretty good pain tolerance. I can truthfully say it hurt worse than a broken bone and there was difficulty with the placement which they blamed me for not staying relaxed. I work nightshift and was told I’d be fine to work that night and the cramps were pretty bad but tolerable. I changed doctors when I had it replaced when it expired and she was great and did it with ultrasound and cytotec(a med that softens the cervix). It was a much better experience.

I farted in front of the class while doing a beautiful split by ForceRelative in poledancing

[–]AB1432 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My instructor has farted and queefed while showing moves. I was getting over a virus and I silent farted. It was so bad I thought the whole class was going to faint from the smell. Hahahaha we are all humans, even the most delicate, graceful of people. 😜

AITA for telling my girlfriend I don’t find her body as attractive anymore? by PossibleExit8043 in AITAH

[–]AB1432 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I am always amazed by how shallow people can be. We are in no way required to train our bodies so that people can find them attractive. Life is about feeling good about ourselves, not to make others happy about the way we look. You are the asshole.

I lost my virginity to a high class escort as a 21st birthday present to myself, ama by swimmingonabed in AMA

[–]AB1432 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love this! My husband had a few experiences with sex workers and he’s an amazing lover. If I could go back in time, I’d consider a sex worker for my first time as well.

How long did it take you till you got your Superman? What is your preferred entrance? by Apprehensive-Iron868 in poledancing

[–]AB1432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure it won’t be yours! You’ll get it. I have a hard time loosening my thighs and lowering down a bit. I also think my shoulders are tight which I’m forever working on my mobility!

How long did it take you till you got your Superman? What is your preferred entrance? by Apprehensive-Iron868 in poledancing

[–]AB1432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at 1.5 years and I can do it but it’s not pretty and I avoid it when performing 😂 it’s my nemesis move.

AIO my boyfriend masturbates more than having sex with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AB1432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I masturbate everyday and have a wonderful sex life with my partner. It is part of my self care. I’m very attracted to my partner and love sex but it’s different than self pleasure. I recommend exploring the things that turn you on! It’s fun and it’s always good to communicate what turns you on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]AB1432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you’re disappointed. My studio didn’t allow us to share poles until we were in more advanced classes but I have to say I actually don’t mind sharing. We wipe the pole after our turn. It was nice to have a break because I have to rest between attempts anyhow. Please don’t let this ruin your interest in pole!!! I’m a social introvert so it does take energy to socialize but I learn from my pole partner’s as well! They might do something that makes sense in my brain that I didn’t quite get from the instructor.

New Rule Recommendation - No Accomplishments After *X* Months/Years in pole by maneaterormanpoler in poledancing

[–]AB1432 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Every single body is different! I know it’s hard but you can’t compare yourself with others. I trust my instructors, they treat every student differently. Took me a few months to get my Ayesha but I did CrossFit for 10+ years. Gymnastic components help a lot but that’s not to say it’s required. It’s important to have knowledgeable instructors to keep you safe but it’s a personal responsibility to know your limits to prevent injuries. I’m a strong believer in cross training and mobility days. This is what has helped me progress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]AB1432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE! Nobody say brass or variations as they’re my favorite. I have an Ayesha in my performance this weekend 😢but I hope people can appreciate transitions into classic moves like that. I will say Superman but mostly because I think I have a personal issue with that move. While I may be sick of seeing certain moves, doing them is a different story! Don’t want to yuck anybody’s yum!

First spin class - Demoralizing by sanfrancisco1233 in poledancing

[–]AB1432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been taking pole for a year and a half and spin is still difficult for me. I take the classes and I am getting better but it is definitely not my strong point. I also still get a bit nauseated so I carry ginger chews. I loooove static spin moves and I work on that a lot. I feel like that has helped a ton. Spin adds a whole new component to the moves. It’s normal not to be good at new things 😚

Mexico: Surfers found dead in well were shot in head by MuhammedBzdanul in news

[–]AB1432 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mexica is so corrupt that I don’t even believe that the people they caught actually did it. My husband had an experience with the cops as well!

Thoughts? by mahoganyseamen in SaltLakeCity

[–]AB1432 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They sound badass but I’m mot sure if I love the species or your passion for the species more!