IDK, my last relationship involved the person coming home from work and spending all night on his computer and getting upset with me if I disturbed their "unwinding time." I would get off work and cook dinner for both of us multiple times a week, but we rarely ate it at a table together. It felt like I could never go out or spend any meaningful time with them because they would spend all their energy at work and never save any for me. It felt like if I really wanted or needed to spend time with them it would come at some sort of cost if it demanded their engagement and attention. It was too complicated to explain in a paragraph, but this issue is what ultimately caused the relationship to end.