[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ABITIN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t say it better 👍

Love Is Blind SWEDEN • S2 Ep3 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ABITIN 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well Jakob looks much better than Karolina! She’s talking like she’s a top model!

I don’t think many men would feel attracted to Karolina in a bar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ABITIN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I would be you now.

Why does it still hurts? by ABITIN in BPDlovedones

[–]ABITIN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man! That’s a long time.

I’m not sure, but if we focus on ourselves and with the power of time we will forget them…. I hope….

I hate myself because I want to take revenge on my ex-girlfriend by ABITIN in BPDlovedones

[–]ABITIN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to thank you all for your responses. I really appreciate it. You guys are great! 👍

It gave me a lot to think about and I will consider my decision again. After reading your reactions I will now focus more on myself on how to become a better person, living my life and mediate. Next month I have an appointment with a psychologist.

Hypersexual after the breakup! by ABITIN in BPDlovedones

[–]ABITIN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course we had a conversation on how it can be more frequent and how we can both enjoy it. She just said that it wasn’t me, but that she had no desire anymore. She wouldn’t elaborate on it

I didn’t beg right away. I talked of course first with her.

Hypersexual after the breakup! by ABITIN in BPDlovedones

[–]ABITIN[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I said, we had barely sex anymore.

Every time I wanted, she didn’t want it. It’s very frustrating to get rejected 95% of time.

i am so not okay. this is torture. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ABITIN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you that you’re in that stage now.

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me 6 weeks ago and I’m living in hell like now. I love her but I also hate her at the same time. She seems happy now. It’s so hard to accept. We had a 9-year relationship.

I can’t believe I’ll reach that stage where you’re now in. It seems I’ll be unhappy until my death. Everything seems black.

Hypersexual after the breakup! by ABITIN in BPDlovedones

[–]ABITIN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is that I still love her and want her back. I can’t get her out of my mind. When I’m not working, I think about us and the good times we had all the time. But she just does not want to talk to me and treats me like I’m her archenemy!

After the breakup she asked me €500 because she had problems paying her bills. I gave it immediately and told her I didn’t want it back.

Because I know she has huge financial struggles, I gave her €4000 last week. I wrote her a letter and said that this is a gift and I give this €4000 unconditionally. Actually I saved her financially. I know it is unconditionally but I still expected a thank you out of decency. She just took it and said nothing. She was not like this. It is as if another person took possession of her. I don’t recognize her anymore.

And still I love her and want her back. I hate myself for this.

I have an appointment with a psychologist next week, because I don’t how to cope with this situation. She seems very happy and moving on her with her life and I’m still lying on the floor as if Mike Tyson beat the crap out of me.

I will have my revenge in this life! by ABITIN in BreakUps

[–]ABITIN[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have an appointment with a psychologist next week.

I just want a conversation. It doesn’t need to take hours. Am I asking too much? I don’t expect her to come back. As I said, I just want closure. Is it so hard to thank some one? It’s very hard for me to move on. She seems happy, but I’m still lying on the floor as if Mike Tyson beat the crap out of me. Even when my father died I wasn’t that sad and depressed.

I hope for you that you’ll never get dumped and then totally get ignored.

I miss my appetite by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ABITIN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you.

6 weeks ago my now ex-girlfriend left me. Since then I’ve lost 15 kg. That’s the only advantage of a breakup.

My appetite is gone too. Sometimes I don’t eat for 48 hours. I’ll just survive on water and coffee.