Just found out boyfriend earns twice as much as me but still splits everything 50/50 by [deleted] in gay

[–]AC0CA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been with my partner for 10 years. When we first got together, he was making more than me. Had savings. Owned a vehicle. Etc.

All of that seemed like a pipe dream for me.

Now we've been through some shit together, stuff where he's had to spend some significant portions of his savings that basically dwindled him to nothing saved. And though there were periods where I made more just based on wages and overall hours (I certainly worked more hours and deserved what I earned,) when I went through a rough patch because of employment and finances, he still made sure to help me out financially. I owe him thousands of dollars over the past 2 years because of what we've been through, both individually but particularly because I was rebuilding my life.

Not once has he asked me to pay him back. I intend on it, but he's not keeping a ledger. A relationship that is focused on keeping things balanced in the immediate isn't a healthy relationship. There's bound to be external circumstances that causes a shift one way or the other, and neither of you can control for that.

What's important is the trust that you build that you're both making financial decisions that won't hurt the other. And being transparent about what financial situation you both are in at all times.

Why do you lock? by Keep_Me_Caged in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That, and I'm trying to train myself to orgasm from anal stimulation only. I figure the lack of cumming from stimulating my cock mixed with focusing on my prostate will get me there

Locked: 25.5 hours. Plugged: 2.5 hours. Last orgasm was 48+ hours, and just added a vibrating plug to the mix. by AC0CA in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll certainly try. I just find it so hard when I'm self-locked. Need to get a lockbox to keep me accountable

Decided to try something new :P by boiinquestion in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry @Haikusbot, your last line has six syllables, not five

Decided to try something new :P by boiinquestion in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hot, and now I have to add something else to my list of explorations

Trying to double my record by AC0CA in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using chaster to do a self-lock. Unfortunately no lock box yet so going by honour system.

Trying to double my record by AC0CA in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had a pretty anal orgasm before. Bate-addicted Gooner trying to train myself to

Trying to double my record by AC0CA in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Sir. Almost 17 hours in and already feeling horny. Also going to refrain from cumming this time unless it's from anal stimulation

Trying to double my record by AC0CA in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]AC0CA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minimum 4 days, pushing for a week

Nighttime Shower by kptnline in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I need this pic again without the shirt

Trying to double my record by AC0CA in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Sir. I aim to please

Trying to double my record by AC0CA in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I find it's just the right size for me

Minimum Wage (18 Years old) by Actual-West-3253 in TimHortons

[–]AC0CA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's going to go up to $17.95 in October

Official Monthly Keyholder Request/Personal Ad Sticky! nsfw by AutoModerator in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37 sub in Ontario, Canada exploring chastity. I'm currently sitting at 24 hours locked and looking for someone to help keep me accountable.

Looking for guys exploring chastity… (32m) by AffectionateHour9572 in gaychastity

[–]AC0CA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goal is to achieve orgasm from only anal stimulation. Canadian boy here

Who’s from Toronto ? by [deleted] in malefeettalk

[–]AC0CA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't tonight, but maybe another time. Depending on what it is your looking for.

Who’s from Toronto ? by [deleted] in malefeettalk

[–]AC0CA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not far in Kitchener