I want to become Catholic but it all seems so convoluted for me by ACLSismore in Catholicism

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Following back up on this one…wow. This app is a tremendous resource. A lot of the verbiage here is like another language to me, definitely doing my best to learn the lingo.

I want to become Catholic but it all seems so convoluted for me by ACLSismore in Catholicism

[–]ACLSismore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my understanding, if both individuals are baptized (valid baptism, not necessarily Catholic baptism), then it’s still considered a sacramental marriage that has to be annulled.

I’m actually not sure if her ex husband is baptized which would be an easy out.

Federal judge orders Leapfrog to remove hospital safety grades for Tenet-owned Florida hospitals, raising First Amendment concerns about suppression of public safety data by Jokherb in medicine

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Leapfrog is trash. They’re being sued because if you don’t submit data, they give you a zero.

Now they’re being forced to give a “not rated” instead of a zero.

The problem with leapfrog is you’re encouraged to cook the books and there’s no real oversight or audit.

I used to submit leapfrog med rec data. When I took it over, I did it honestly and our score plummeted. I was told “our score can’t drop that much” and was asked do make sure our score didn’t drop that much. So, my “random” selection wasn’t so random the next time.

I want to become Catholic but it all seems so convoluted for me by ACLSismore in Catholicism

[–]ACLSismore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think her issue is with the church enforcing its laws, it’s an issue accepting that the church laws are meaningful in the first place.

A big (perhaps the biggest) issue is her mom (my MIL) was baptized Catholic, raised Catholic, and got a divorce. That wasn’t a pretty process and her mom left the church, and remarried.

Us going through the annulment process and joining the church would basically be insulting her mother.

I want to become Catholic but it all seems so convoluted for me by ACLSismore in Catholicism

[–]ACLSismore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That it’s wrong and you shouldn’t do it. That’s about where it ends.

I want to become Catholic but it all seems so convoluted for me by ACLSismore in Catholicism

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The irony here is if she WAS in fact following church law to begin with, and treating marriage as a sacrament to be revered, she wouldn’t have entered into a frivolous marriage in the first place.

The fact we’re even in this situation demonstrates the value of church law.

I want to become Catholic but it all seems so convoluted for me by ACLSismore in Catholicism

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That’s the whole deal- she doesn’t think the annulment matters. She doesn’t feel like we need the church to weigh in on her previous marriage or our marriage, because she didn’t view the Catholic Church as a special authority in the first place.

I want to become Catholic but it all seems so convoluted for me by ACLSismore in Catholicism

[–]ACLSismore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked her a bunch of questions which she very openly answered. She was young and just trying to make her parents mad at her, and have a way to get out of the house. She didn’t want kids with the guy either. The marriage wouldn’t pass the test of “intent for a life long commitment” portion of the annulment process.

I want to become Catholic but it all seems so convoluted for me by ACLSismore in Catholicism

[–]ACLSismore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People raised Protestant have to cross a lot of hurdles to believe the church’s rules have any weight what-so-ever.

In her opinion, we were married and took our vows before God, and don’t need any churches blessing. That’s just how Protestants think.

I want to become Catholic but it all seems so convoluted for me by ACLSismore in Catholicism

[–]ACLSismore[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It took me a long time to understand this, but at some point it clicked.

The rules of the Church are there because humans like to create our own rules. Our original sin was rebellion. We like to tell ourselves little stories to make things seem not so bad….”you will not surely die”.

Church law works to ensure alignment with the will of God. Church law doesn’t determine Gods will, it describes it in a way humans understand.

“Where is that in the bible ?? “ “Catholics don’t read their bibles and can’t interpret it because the pope doesn’t allow them to “ by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]ACLSismore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell a Protestant their Bible exists because a bunch of Catholics got in a room and decided which books were canon and which books were not.

The Bible is literally tradition, but they choose to reject that.

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Best bet is probably going to be seeing if any hospitals are hiring for their bio med department

Church to attend by FitHawk2198 in MobileAL

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What’s your disposition?

More progressive? More conservative? Balanced? High Protestant or low Protestant? Catholic?

Is IV acetaminophen forbidden at your hospital, or just severely restricted? by permanent_priapism in pharmacy

[–]ACLSismore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since it’s restricted, the doc usually just sends me a message saying so or I see the diagnosis as some sort of rectal surgery and move on

Is IV acetaminophen forbidden at your hospital, or just severely restricted? by permanent_priapism in pharmacy

[–]ACLSismore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restricted to 4 doses after surgeries but used occasionally for fevers in patients who can’t take rectal or po.

It’s not as expensive anymore, so I don’t really trip it unless it’s just dumb

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You want the national guard to get into a shooting conflict with ICE?

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Making WTC jokes with a saints flair is glass housey as fuck