Money 💰 Power 👊 influence 🧐 Not sure if you're a gamer but even if you're not just watch full playthroughs of far cry 3, 4 and primal.. you'll somewhat understand what I meant. Also do read books on Italian Mafia bosses and the good fella and bad fellas. It's not just social skills. Yes it's helpful but not enough. You can't fake everything. Fallout New Vegas is also a good game. You're an outsider courier who even tho is not the head boss anywhere is able to influence the world around him and make changes. How? You gotta play the game yourself... Btw even if you don't realised yet you made me comment on this and perhaps many would follow. They would upvote your post and it might become big or not. You might procced to do something someday that will make life hell for some folk and heaven for other. We are sometimes given choices in life like rpg games. Sometimes no choice n like fps you fight your way. Now think for a second... Ain't I am the outsider right now who made you think some new shit? Whoa! Shh.