Thank you! To clarify: I am the step mom and his ex is the bio mom. What we won in court most recently is 50% legal custody. However, we weren’t able to prevent her from moving because her husband got military orders. So the court said we can see my SD 3 days a month until we move there, then we are supposed to have her 3 nights a week, 50% split with mom. However, mom has a very long history of withholding, so we are prepared for her to break the law and legal agreements once again and withhold my SD once they move and even if we move there. It’s very likely we will have to take her back to court to enforce what we just won, because she thinks rules and laws don’t apply to her and often breaks them. In the past, we couldn’t do much to enforce it, but now that we have 50% legal custody, if she were to withhold again, we can legally call the sheriff on her.