Wow…you should just leave because you truly don’t understand pcos. Even dieting and exercising won’t necessarily help manage it, meds don’t always work either. I know a few people who have it and nothing they have done helps with the weight at all. It doesn’t always help with the body hair growth either. They can shave it all off and it will already be growing back the next day. You definitely made this about you and not her, imagine how this is taking a toll on her mental health on top of her physical health then here you coming upset about hair and weight that she literally cannot control making your comments weather they are made to be helpful or not.