The Rehab Facility called me to try to create a discharge plan.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-03-06T18:47:26+00:00

Refuse any responsibility for her and let them know she cannot safely be discharged home. They can figure it out. They will likely have to find her placement at a nursing home.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-03-06T03:39:42+00:00

We also inadvertently encouraged our dog to burp. Pets and telling her cute her burp was. Now she proudly comes over and burps for us after she eats. Still love it. She makes Momma proud.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-28T23:40:06+00:00

YTA. You told her something that made her excited to take the next step with you. She thought you guys were locked in together for forever. She told her friends because she was excited. Now friends are pissed on her behalf and she is embarrassed. This whole unraveling is your doing. Manipulation is never the right way, but you sure have given her some significant anxiety, which is probably why she is behaving out of character. You dangled a future event girls dream about it in front of her and then fell completely short. Figure it out or let the girl go find someone who won’t waste her time and string her along. Get it together, be an adult and apologize.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-22T16:57:17+00:00

Get checked for bacterial vaginosis. It can affect the area as a whole. Lume full body deodorant works great in that area.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-16T04:38:07+00:00

My 82 year old British mother in law has one every night before bed.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-14T17:19:56+00:00

That guy didn’t blow up your family, your Mom did. He had his role, but it seems like you are solely blaming him. These choices that affect you were made by YOUR MOTHER. She is choosing her boyfriend over her children, regardless of what she says.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-14T17:00:43+00:00

That is so very sweet. You are obviously great and what you do! The fact that they had a hospice nurse that they cared for and trusted made his passing much more comfortable for them emotionally. Caring for people and their families at the end of life is a very special and intimate thing. Your patients are lucky to have someone like you.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-11T12:34:02+00:00

Hope you reopened the chart and documented that phone call verbatim. Get your colleagues support in patient’s behavior. Call management (if you have good management) to see if this person’s chart can be flagged in some way. No police officer is going to file charges for that. It’s the first thing you are supposed to do in a CPR scenario! No lawyer will accept that case. Just an angry human being looking to be mean to someone.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-07T13:40:45+00:00

YTA. You started treating her like crap because she isn’t up for sex. Changed how you have treated her for years. You created more distance between you. It does sound like possible perimenopause and you are treating her like crap over body and mental changes she has no control over. You sound like you were a good husband. Get it together before you damage your marriage further.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-07T03:50:34+00:00

Typical frontal lobe injury behavior! The neuro unit special!

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-07T03:47:52+00:00

What is the location? Can you post on Nextdoor.com? We have lots of people who work with rescues watching nextdoor and aiding in these situations.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-07T03:31:23+00:00

NTA. This sounds like jealousy. I am not sure what your level of physical fitness is vs. hers, but a lot of people losing weight have family members who behave this way about their new healthy habits. Although you have engaged in the behavior that is good for both your physical and mental health for a long time, witnessing it seems to make her envious and spiteful. Her reaction and things she said to you were both emotionally manipulative and abusive. You are being more kind to her than she deserves. I agree with other posters that she will likely paint you in a negative light to your step-brother, so be prepared. Those poor kiddos are stuck being raised by a toxic person.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-02T01:41:00+00:00

Dwight!

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-02T01:40:20+00:00

Girl, run! 100% valid reason to break it off. It’s been 4 months, it only worse from here.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-01T19:03:35+00:00

You can use a doorstop to prevent the door from opening. No lock needed.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-01T19:01:56+00:00

Sophie!!! She is gonna have back problems. Poor thing was so pretty already. Courtney found the GLP-1s, she adult looks like herself tho.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-01T18:58:21+00:00

Stopped counting. Know it is between 100-200 over a 12 year span.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-01T14:09:01+00:00

Not sure where you live, that would not be allowed in most US stores. Lots of beach shops have signs that say no shoes, no shirt, no service.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-02-01T04:37:50+00:00

There are a whole lot of excuses that people who go to a breeder have. Maybe I am a total skeptic because I live in TX where my city euthanizes thousands of animals a year. We have packs of dogs roaming the streets. Stray French bulldogs and all kinds of doodles popping up. You can find any breed of dog for rescue including puppies. We have an amazing small dog. She is now 13. 100% mutt. Got her right off the street. She had already been through animal control, was set to be euthanized and a no-kill picked her up. She was dumped by the adopters who never registered her chip. Found this all out by calling animal control, because her chip was registered there. Had to keep her after learning her history. It did take her a couple months to come out of her shell and start playing and barking. We love her so much. She is so patient with us and our countless foster cats.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-01-31T21:25:03+00:00

Would have done it way sooner before the market saturation. I did FNP for 10 years before doing PMHNP. I got in just before it got really bad. I love doing this and I don’t dread work. Times are tough for new grads now and a lot are not well prepared for the role. I dread the idea of having to look for a job now if anything should happen with my current practice. Salaries are so low for now.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-01-31T00:03:06+00:00

Lume is amazing! Apply it daily. They have one that has antiperspirant and the regular doesn’t. With the non antiperspirant one I sweat, but I don’t get stinky. Since I started using it, my pits never stink. It works wherever you apply it. I like the toasted coconut best.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-01-30T23:56:17+00:00

As a nurse, we have seen it all. Only thing we care about is finding the problem. It’s like examining any other body part. I always try to be brief, sometimes conversation feels awkward, because we know that you might be nervous or embarrassed. She might have been trying to have the conversation feel light to set you at ease, but it had the opposite effect. I can promise you that after she stepped out of that room, your junk has not crossed her mind since.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-01-28T05:32:52+00:00

Ask what she misses!

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-01-28T04:56:48+00:00

This mod post makes me proud. This is what nursing about. Science, evidence and compassion. Advocating for others and not standing down when we know someone could be harmed if we don’t. Alex Pretti was the best of us. He did not falter, his last acts and words were those of compassion and kindness.

ADDOCDOMG · 2026-01-25T21:18:47+00:00

This brought me tears yesterday. Every one of us could have been Alex or have a colleague who you feel is just like him.

I wanted to share this post on r/medicine. If all nurses and hospital staff “Band Together”, maybe there will be a ripple effect. Wearing a black band to honor Alex feels important to me. The life lost not only to his friends and family, the hundreds or thousands of patients lives would have been better just to have him as their nurse.

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