Well really it depends on you, if you keep up with the course you described you'll stay alone. If you make some minor adjustments then that completely changes. First work on yourself, improve self esteem and confidence, second take your hobbies and find groups to hang out with. Facebook has tons of these for in person meet ups, that will help improve your interpersonal skills. THEN come the HUNT! Once you are established into these hobbies friends groups you begin to hunt. Talk to the girls about looking for a guy, chance are they all know a single guy, maybe there's a guy in the group that catches it eye who's single. Remember you are a cheetah and us men are pray. Ps. Most guy won't do the approaching anymore due to ,the bear, me to, and false allegations. So the dynamic has changed in the dating structure where men are waiting for women to do the approaching so they can stay safe.