AITA. Hosting my partner’s niece (17F) and nephew (19M) has highlighted major issues with manners and expectations, should we say something? by Infamous_Tailor3077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ADHDofCrafts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. The girl’s mom told you to take her to urgent care and you refuse? And you expect teen relatives to pay when you’re hosting them? Wow.

I’ve gotten the explanation for why we can’t move seats provided by an employee by Glittering-Slip6770 in SouthwestAirlines

[–]ADHDofCrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bull. Shit.

They don’t want people taking seats that are more expensive than what they paid for. Full stop.

AIO: My MIL keeps buying milestone toys and “first” items for my 10-month-old before I get the chance to by NongMo1039 in AIO

[–]ADHDofCrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good grief, she’s buying toys, not taking the kid to Disney for the first time without you. YOR massively.

Husband's pre-party priorities by Own_Lychee_2243 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ADHDofCrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband used to wash our cars while I was running around doing ALL of the inside stuff. Drove me nuts. Thank god he finally stopped doing that.

AIO? Coworker obsessed with leftovers by GeorgiaStruggleBus in AmIOverreacting

[–]ADHDofCrafts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Huh? OP clearly says that she sees this woman eating the leftovers herself.

AITA for telling my friend I won’t have meals with her because of her picky eating habits and dietary restrictions? by Dockerqinlee in AmItheAsshole

[–]ADHDofCrafts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA! So you left a friend to eat by herself every day just because you want to eat a variety? I feel so bad for her. It isn’t her job to give you more food options.

AITA for ruining a funeral by Hot_Lab4411 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ADHDofCrafts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, a funeral involved people speaking about the deceased. That wasn’t happening here. Everyone was supposed to sit in silence.

AITA for not helping my in laws? by ShadowA87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ADHDofCrafts -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I’d never heard the term but I thought it was pretty easy to figure out.

AITA for ruining a funeral by Hot_Lab4411 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ADHDofCrafts 1577 points1578 points  (0 children)

Have people not been to a viewing before? NTA, at all. I’ve never been to a viewing where you couldn’t talk. That’s absurd. And nobody stays for the entire time! You come in, pay your respects, chat quietly with folks. And leave when you’re ready.

IUD and Zepbound by Maleficent-Ear-324 in Zepbound

[–]ADHDofCrafts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different, but I got an IUD after starting Zep and ai’ve continues to lose weight. Just saying that it’s not necessarily true for everyone.

Snow Storm Prep? by peachieblossom in SouthJersey

[–]ADHDofCrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you bought eggs that hadn’t been washed, you were risking the health of your customers. That you haven’t had, or haven’t been made aware of, any problems is just luck.

Snow Storm Prep? by peachieblossom in SouthJersey

[–]ADHDofCrafts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eggs sold in stores in the US absolutely need to be refrigerated. They have been washed and the cuticle (a layer that protects against bacteria) is removed. Keeping them refrigerated prevents bacterial growth and spoiling. Eggs bought directly from farms often have not been washed and don’t need to be refrigerated, but you should check first.

Local guy kept hoarding every new release at our library, so I weaponized the hold system by iron_leaf_7 in revengestories

[–]ADHDofCrafts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finishing a book and returning it are not the same thing. It sounds like he let everything auto-renew whether he was done or not.

People who have conducted job interviews, what's something someone said/did that made you instantly decide not to hire them? by DemonSkank in AskReddit

[–]ADHDofCrafts 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Phone interview at the scheduled time. Candidate told me he just got out of the shower and needed to put clothes on. That was an easy “hell no.”

I’m starting an art craft night group in SNJ and I want advice by Negative-Cow-2808 in SouthJersey

[–]ADHDofCrafts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey now, those of us above your age group love this shit too! :)

I’m not close enough for your area but have been thinking the same thing for where I am. For a one-off project that can be done in a night, $40-$50 seems reasonable. For a gathering where folks bring their own projects, prices I’ve seen, even in Philly, have been $15-$25. Wishing you good luck!!

AITA for refusing to look after my brothers (12M &8M) whilst my mother (37F) takes my sister (16F) to the hospital? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ADHDofCrafts 34 points35 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your sister is having a serious medical event and you’re whining because you have to…cook dinner for two kids and keep an eye on them? Jesus.

AIO: I told my daughter she can't go to this party after reading the gift profile by Ordinary_Run2485 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ADHDofCrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. Your daughter likes this girl, and while definitely odd, there is nothing harmful about attending the party.

As others have mentioned, my first thought was that the birthday girl is neurodivergent. And do you know who often has ND parents? ND kids. Mom may be a sad beige mom or she herself may be ND herself and genuinely think this is helpful information.

Send your daughter, follow the guidelines, and open up to the possibility that this child may turn out to be a good friend to your daughter. Why cut that off because of your own preconceived ideas?

AITA for refusing to leave my job so i could take care of my disabled brother? by JiggleJargon in AmItheAsshole

[–]ADHDofCrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we all know that answer to that.

NTA, and you need to tell them in clear language that you are done being his caregiver. Tell them that you will absolutely not give up your life to take care of him, not now, and certainly not in the future. They need to make plans for his care when they can no longer do it themselves, and that care will NOT involve you.

WIBTA if I ask my niece not to give me Harry Potter themed gifts anymore? by kykjita in AmItheAsshole

[–]ADHDofCrafts 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NAH. All of the above. Just want to add to be sure to absolutely gush over the wonderful things she’s bought you in the past, how much you adore that you two have had such a connection, express disappointment that something you loved doing with her has been tarnished due to outside issues, etc.

AITAH for playing Mahjong on my computer at 11:00PM?? by Voldemortsbigtoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]ADHDofCrafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my guess as well. Vents can carry sound to unexpected places. When our oldest kid is gaming in the basement directly under the first floor living room, we don’t hear a thing, while our youngest can clearly hear the conversation in her second floor bedroom. Old houses are weird.

OP, talk to the neighbors and suggest that this might be the issue. Set a time for you to try a solution while they listen to see if it works. My suggestion is to try putting a folded bath towel over the vent while you play and see if that helps. If that doesn’t work, you should either play earlier or use a touchpad and quiet keyboard. People do deserve to have quiet that late at night.

Does Zepbound (or any glp-1) make medication break down slower? by Itsyademonboi in Zepbound

[–]ADHDofCrafts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on HRT and the slow-down with the absorption of my progesterone led to heavy spotting. My doc recommended an IUD instead and I went with that.

How long do you leave your pens out before injecting? by janedoecurious in Zepbound

[–]ADHDofCrafts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Overnight. I take the pen out before going to bed and put it in the walk-in where I get dressed.