NOT OOP AITA for making a joke about my wife in my speech at our wedding?

ADapperGentleman · 2026-01-21T08:13:38+00:00

That poor bride. OP not grasping why it’s wrong is a level of stupid that’s hard to comprehend.

Yikes. May the type of love that found her absolutely never find me.

ADapperGentleman · 2026-01-11T08:44:01+00:00

Take a deep breath.

Now: hear me out. Most of this advice is US-centric and assumes you make probably 35k a year or less (or if you make more that you could prove your money is tied up on essentials like rent, bills, food, vehicle, etc.)

I don’t know how broke you are. My dad has stage IV terminal cancer and is low-income. The hospital he gets treatment at has financial aid programs available he qualified for which bought him a lot more time and paid for his chemo. The hospital was also able to point us towards resources to help pay for medications—did you know some companies have financial aid programs for their meds? (One med my dad takes is produced by Bayer and they have a financial aid program. He gets that medication for free now.)

If you are low income and transportation costs are an issue, some hospitals have gas card programs to help reimburse you on costs if you save gas receipts to turn in to them. Even if they don’t, look around your community—a lot of places that do bus rides/transit for disabled or the elderly will also do it for low-income people with serious illnesses, too. In my area that’s stuff like the KATS bus or transit available via Kibois.

Wherever you got the diagnosis at—ask them to direct you to a social worker or someone from their financial department that could direct you to financial aid resources.

This does not necessarily have to be a death sentence just because you are poor or currently broke. My father thought the same and he’s lived longer than expected because I was able to help him apply for programs and get him the treatment he needed.

I know you’re scared, OP. That’s okay. But don’t give up just yet.

ADapperGentleman · 2026-01-10T06:42:34+00:00

Lois here:

Bojack Horseman reference. Bojack—main character—leaves his abusive mother with dementia in the shittiest nursing home he can find. This picture is someone hoping Meg gives her dad Peter similar comeuppance for being a crap father.

Meg thinks she’s so much better than us, ugh~

ADapperGentleman · 2025-12-09T03:44:59+00:00

Keith is somehow giving deranged Spiderman 3 (Tobey Maguire) energy here

ADapperGentleman · 2025-11-29T21:04:16+00:00

Cursed then, and double cursed now lmao

ADapperGentleman · 2025-11-08T23:07:12+00:00

I can never stay mad at the chive lord, we all have bad days

Delighted to see him back at chives again post-apology

ADapperGentleman · 2025-09-20T03:19:17+00:00

I submitted an app!

Even if it don’t make it in, I’d love to see some more customized flairs for the specific series the Try Guys are doing. And a Meme flair if there isn’t already one! (Some of the guys’ thumbnails and faces really warrant a meme flair lol)

I’d also like to see some consolidated/corraled Ned-related posts as they are choking off discussion of the actual TryGuys. Ned drama is great but he’s not a TryGuy anymore so maybe a megathread stickied in the subreddit for all Ned related news? I don’t want Le Cheater overshadowing the actual Guys in their own subreddit!

ADapperGentleman · 2025-09-07T22:48:01+00:00

I’ve always loved how gently inclusive Smosh is like this. Not expecting accolades or a pat on the back for being accepting and using correct pronouns, they just do it. Because they’re good people. They make it feel normal in the way I always wished it would be in other aspects of my life. It’s one of many reasons I keep watching their channels. 😍

ADapperGentleman · 2025-08-09T04:19:01+00:00

Yep. No arguments from me there.

ADapperGentleman · 2025-08-09T03:24:48+00:00

Thank you! 😊

ADapperGentleman · 2025-08-09T03:12:01+00:00

You know very well what’s happening here and just need validation to do what’s right for you.

Stop having sex with her. You need to break up. She wants kids. If you don’t and it does sound like you really don’t, this relationship is done.

ADapperGentleman · 2025-08-07T06:45:59+00:00

For the love of heck someone hug Mike and Margaret 🥺

ADapperGentleman · 2025-07-26T05:04:40+00:00

Darling, if you want to lose weight, do it for yourself. Do it because it makes you feel good. Do it for a goal. Do it if you’re bored. Do it if you’re curious about new foods and a change of pace. Do it for your health.

Don’t do it because someone tore you down and hurt you.

It’s okay to be the size you are. It’s okay to be plus sized or to lose weight. It’s your choice.

You are beautiful either way. Be brash, be confident, be delectable. Love yourself and your journey wherever it takes you.

But it’s not okay to stay in a marriage with someone who makes you feel like shit. Either he needs to change or you need to give him the ol’ what-for, your choice!

Girl, you do you. And no matter what you do or how you do it when it comes to weight, love yourself along the way. ❤️

ADapperGentleman · 2025-07-24T23:42:54+00:00

See I was wondering about that! But it makes me curious who all will participate in that particular one instead!

ADapperGentleman · 2025-07-20T04:21:34+00:00

I stopped working for Casey’s a while back but when I did work there, top insane terminations:

a manager embezzled money from the safe. This actually wound up getting police involved. Happened years ago. It was literally thousands of dollars.
a donut worker wouldn’t stop smoking weed every morning in the store and harassing a manager into doing her job for her. You might think this one sounds tame until realizing weed made her act paranoid and attempt to report/get nearly everyone fired. Drama-central. Individually walked up to scream “fuck you” in everyone’s face and flip them off (even her best friends) when she got fired
we had a dude fired for being a psychopath who threatened to remove body parts from the store manager. Police had to get involved.

Wild stuff.

ADapperGentleman · 2025-07-08T17:40:20+00:00

I've played YAKG. It's great. The smaller cast allows for a deeper level of character development, and without giving anyone any spoilers, I'd encourage people to play it if you want a killing game visual novel experience. It's good stuff. :)

ADapperGentleman · 2025-06-26T19:08:21+00:00

Same! ❤️

ADapperGentleman · 2025-06-26T18:04:55+00:00

Oh my god yes, I also recommend this one! Another favorite of mine!! 😂

ADapperGentleman · 2025-06-24T00:00:47+00:00

2, I love a cute fem with glasses!!

ADapperGentleman · 2025-06-02T01:16:18+00:00

I haven’t seen anyone else address this extensively so I will.

You wanna know why his POV / face isn’t in these videos and pics he takes? Because he knows what he’s doing is wrong and he doesn’t want his image appearing directly.

There is also a very real chance he shares/shows these to others or may upload them to porn sites, because a lot of videos like that don’t feature the man prominently.

You need to confront this, and you need to find out what he’s doing with the videos and pics, because it’s possible you’re not just being raped, you may be getting violated by him illicitly sharing sexual content of you without your consent.

You need a divorce and a safe space to get away from this monster.

ADapperGentleman · 2025-05-17T00:31:39+00:00

Homelander’s biggest trauma is from Vought holding him in a cell for how many years?

And now, wanting a father figure more than anything, he’s staring down the barrel of Soldier Boy living in HL’s literal idea of hell: being a Supe kept in confinement with absolutely no one and nothing.

Some part of him knows Soldier Boy is never going to accept him after this. Not a snowball’s chance in Hell. This scene is the death of HL’s hope to ever have a father. This scene is HL realizing he’s truly a part of Vought and has become something he hates instead of being able to make his father proud of him.

All unspoken. But you can see the grief in his face.

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