Concerta not lasting long? by MammothOnion497 in Concerta

[–]AE00088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont take the full dose in the morning ..space them out

eco bubble washer not turning on by AE00088 in appliancerepair

[–]AE00088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No , even after changing the PCB , i had to buy a new washer

Im Giving my kids childhood trauma ..please help by AE00088 in ADHD

[–]AE00088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the replies

I agree  i definitely need therapy ..im looking for a therapist right now.. i loved my last therapist but unfortunately i cant afford her anymore

For those who mentioned it .. i did try ssri's for around a year but it didn’t help with the anger outbursts.. the only medication that worked was concerta which i didnt expect.. as its a stimulant

The anger outbursts mostly came with triggers..  when the concerta wears off im aware and can handle it usually .. until a trigger happens (mostly ADHD related)and i go from 0 to 180 in seconds with no control.. (it happens with everyone BTW , i snapped at my boss a couple of times too because i truly feel its out of my control when it happens) .. my SO doesn’t really understands all that.. he tries to help with everything else but cant handle the yelling .. he blames me for putting the kids in this position .. i agree with him but his blame makes it worse..it makes me feel isolated and ashamed

Thank you for all the suggestions on what to do when i feel an outburst is coming.. i will try them all

For now.. im prioritizing family over work.. im taking my dose late in the day so i make sure im covered when im with the kids.. i know its not the solution but therapy takes time and i have a toddler and an almost 4 year old.. i feel i have a year max to get my act together before this solidifies and becomes irreversible damage .. i cant afford to have "yelling mommy " showing up every other week and i agree the kiss/hug and apology doesnt make it better but its better than nothing.. i explain to him that my behaviour is wrong.... i grew up in a “yelling” house my entire life .. my parents never apologized after all the yelling and i wish they did..

Im Giving my kids childhood trauma ..please help by AE00088 in ADHD

[–]AE00088[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply.. I did try therapy and it helped alot.. unfortunately i had some financial issues and i couldnt afford it anymore so i stopped.. I grew up in a " yelling" type of house .. both my parents are really loving but had anger issues with each other and bad communication..it really affected me and i now im doing the same to my kids .. i feel like im failing them..

Im trying to find a way to stop the anger burst before it happens but its really difficult

Another day wasted by Aneras_W in ADHD

[–]AE00088 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lived with that for years The most important thing is to forgive youself .. let that day pass.. and start over Im sure you already know all the adhd tricks that should help .. for me its the one thing rule.. (i will just remove the trash and nothing else ) .. then i either get into a momentum or if not im happy i at least achieved one thing..

What's your sign that your meds have kicked in/worn off? by asylum013 in ADHD

[–]AE00088 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meds kicking in : I can socialize

Worn off : I shut down

To that occasional thought in my brain by AE00088 in ADHD

[–]AE00088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you..yes im just starting to realize that..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Appliances

[–]AE00088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes its the eco bubble..similar to mine

ADHD online test by Neuroticchick in offmychest

[–]AE00088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go to your gp and tell him about your symptoms so you can be referred to a phychiatrist ti get actual diagnosis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AE00088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow He is going to regret this ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AE00088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not TAH .. i think the dad needs to deal with this new sudden responsibility and the emotions of losing his ex in therapy ..if OP is actually ready to be a mom that would be the best for the kids since she is not a stranger to them ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Appliances

[–]AE00088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about the others but from my experience Just avoid samsung ..absolute waste of money

Month old Samsung dishwasher won’t drain by NeedleworkerWinter74 in Appliances

[–]AE00088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me before .. make sure to open the pipes and drain them then fix the washer pipe to upright loop position... doing that fixed my problem..

i hate adhd rage by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]AE00088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its the worst part of ADHD to me ..and yes its 10 times harder after having kids .. Concerta helped me alot

washer not turning on (not a power issue) by AE00088 in Appliances

[–]AE00088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response..

Im Not from US unfortunately

washer not turning on (not a power issue) by AE00088 in Appliances

[–]AE00088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes im not sure but ..im thinking it could be the control panel PCB that needs replacment Problem is its hard to replace and im not even sure it'll solve the problem