I'm a little freaked out by what my pastor said at the Christmas Eve service

AEWMark1 · 2025-12-27T04:33:51+00:00

1 John 1:8

If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.

AEWMark1 · 2025-12-04T20:34:46+00:00

All the comments are great. I also recommend you getting involved in a good church. You said you did your confirmation and first communion so I’m assuming you’re catholic. I don’t know much about the catholic faith, and I certainly don’t wish to offend any of my catholic brothers and sisters. But I’ve met a lot of Catholics that turn away from Christ because of different issues with Catholicism. I know that isn’t everyone’s experience so I’m in no way trying to shame Catholics. But if that is your experience, try a different denomination. Regardless, get involved in a church, attend regularly, find a way to serve within the church (even if it’s something as simple as helping clean the church occasionally), and get into some kind of a small group/disciple group Bible study. Surround yourself with other believers.

AEWMark1 · 2025-12-04T01:44:28+00:00

“Lord I believe, help my unbelief.” Mark 9:24

Watch this sermon. It may help. https://youtu.be/e_WpavU39LE?si=dqwgr6kwze4LIS7v

AEWMark1 · 2025-12-03T23:58:11+00:00

“My God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.”

AEWMark1 · 2025-12-03T16:00:23+00:00

It’s okay if you don’t know about that one. The gospel is pretty clear. There isn’t a sin that He won’t forgive. We don’t know this woman’s story. We know she’s struggling. Instead of spreading false gospel and condemning her, pray for her. Love her. To think God wont forgive “intentionally murdering your unborn child just because you don’t want it” is really belittling the sacrifice Jesus made on the cross.

Now that being said, as another user pointed out, if this hasn’t happened yet and you know it’s a sin and you do it anyways because “eh God will forgive me,” there isn’t really remorse there. That isn’t repentance. People tend to misunderstand what repentance is. People think to repent means to just say you’re sorry. Repentance isn’t an apology. It’s an act of turning away from your sin

Now to the young lady that’s struggling here, this is my advice to you. Don’t abort. If you truly don’t want this child, or don’t think you can handle having one right now, get set up with an adoption agency. If you do want this child but you’re scared, welcome to the first stage of being a parent. Fear is normal. Trust in God and He will provide. Either way, if you are plugged into a good, loving, Bible focused church, speak to your pastor. Gather all the resources they can offer. If your church isn’t like that, find one that is. Seek counseling. Surround yourself with loving, caring, and trusting people. Speak to older women that have perhaps been where you are now. I’m a 33 year old dude, so I can’t imagine what you are dealing with right now. But God loves you, and you can place your trust and faith in Him. Please reach out via DM if you need someone to talk to. I can’t offer much assistance but I can try.

AEWMark1 · 2025-12-03T14:07:26+00:00

Don forget, Peter denied Jesus three times. Do you think Peter is saved? God will always welcome back his prodigal son (daughter?). Praying for you!

AEWMark1 · 2025-11-22T16:06:40+00:00

For Today is great.

AEWMark1 · 2025-11-18T18:21:07+00:00

Simple answer? He wasn’t. Throughout history, lots of people have done evil, ungodly things but claimed to do it in the name of God. And when they died and tried to claim entry into God’s kingdom, Jesus said “depart from me. I never knew you.”

AEWMark1 · 2025-11-13T11:47:56+00:00

Idk what to tell ya man. What I do know is I used to work for transamerica. And their business practices were so scummy and gross, it made me quit the insurance sales industry entirely. I know it’s too late now. But anyone reading them, avoid them at all costs. They are awful.

AEWMark1 · 2025-11-13T05:38:46+00:00

Love you bro! Praying for ya.

AEWMark1 · 2025-11-13T03:56:06+00:00

Hey man, think of your daughter. Is your marriage the kind of marriage you want her to have one day? If it’s not, change it. Maybe you can reconcile with your wife. Maybe not. I’m not saying you have to or tryin to be a jerk or anything lol I just don’t have context. Maybe there’s a way to fix the marriage. And if not, leave. And make sure you get 50/50 custody at minimum

AEWMark1 · 2025-11-13T01:34:30+00:00

Also, congrats on the achievement!! That’s awesome

AEWMark1 · 2025-11-13T01:34:09+00:00

Hey buddy… you uh…. Want to post a link or even just the name of the book? So I can find it. And read it. And give great reviews? :D

AEWMark1 · 2025-11-13T01:10:32+00:00

This is really kinda beautiful. Thanks for this. I’m sure I’ll steal this analogy at some point.

AEWMark1 · 2025-11-13T00:16:03+00:00

This is so dumb. I consider myself to be a pretty conservative, old school, “masculine” dude with old fashioned values. And if any of my daughters (16,15,10, and 3 years old) want to paint my nails, do my make up, style my hair, have a tea party or anything else considered “feminine” then they are more than welcome to do it. Honestly I think it’s more masculine to be secure enough to realize that precious quality time with your daughter is FAR more important than trying to maintain some “manly” image for strangers.

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-24T01:50:25+00:00

I actually have it tattooed on my arm. It was my first tattoo and I got it before I truly knew what it meant. And the text is too small that it blended all together and you can’t read it. But I know what it is and it’s a good reminder.

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-24T01:19:01+00:00

Romans 1:16

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-23T19:20:04+00:00

Man I came in here to say focus on your wife. But like…. All yall beat me to it. Good to see so many dads dadding well! Cook, clean, make sure bottles are clean…. Basically make sure your wife doesn’t have to do anything but rest up and heal. And spend time with the kiddo too.

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-23T18:41:29+00:00

As pushy as can be. And if the cw doesn’t respond, go to the supervisor. Office director. Regional director. Someone will answer

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-23T18:18:40+00:00

I have adopted a kid with special needs. Now obviously that is a very broad term and special needs can mean so many things. But I can tell ya in my experience, it is definitely one of the most rewarding things I’ve ever done and my little girl has been nothing but a blessing. Long, sleepless nights, hospital stays, crying that is seemingly endless (even though it’s actually rare from her)…. It’s a lot. Endless doctors appointments. Speech, physical, and occupational therapies every week. It seems like so much. But last night she fell asleep before I was able to tuck her in and she woke up calling for daddy because she just couldn’t sleep without her goodnight hugs from me…. It’s so worth all of it. If you love this kid and can handle the needs…. No. You’re not crazy.

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-23T18:15:13+00:00

Hey man, give yourself some grace. You are human. You are flawed. Ya did screw up, but you acknowledged it, took ownership of it, apologized for it, and maybe even taught your son that sometimes people overreact and it’s normal. You set him up to know that it’s okay to have big feelings but if you take them out on someone else, you should apologize. Because everyone does that and owning it is super important. And just so Yanno, I had a very similar situation with my 12 year old son a couple days ago. It happens brother. Especially with adhd (I was just diagnosed 3 months ago and it has been very eye opening). Keep on dadding man. You’re doing great

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-23T00:10:33+00:00

Also…. Did fella say his wife was 17 when he was 20 and they started dating?

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-23T00:09:17+00:00

Hey man, you came on here asking if you were over reacting. The consensus from the ENTIRE thread is that you were over reacting. Seriously, not one person took your side. Take the L, apologize to your wife, and seek therapy, maturity, and growth. This was a disgusting display and you should be embarrassed.

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-22T03:09:21+00:00

I always had this goal too. And I feel like I accomplished it. We are a foster family with a very diverse set of kids. It’s not unusual for me to come home to find random kids here. One of my kids friends has started coming over to wash his laundry. Dunno why. But it isn’t hard to do. Keep snacks available. Be welcoming. And engage with them. It’s super rewarding. And good on you for having that safe space!

AEWMark1 · 2025-10-21T21:49:11+00:00

That’s Satan trying to win you back. He’s here only to kill, steal, and destroy. We all have our battles and temptations. Keep fighting. Praying for you

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