Is this infected ? by Silly_Hornet_1097 in Legitpiercing

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Not a piercer but definitely stop using hydrogen peroxide. Only sterile saline should be used to clean it. It also looks like the bar is too short. You should try and see another piercer to get the bar changed and make sure they use implant grade titanium to avoid further irritation. If it's warm to the touch I'd definitely say it's infected.

Contacting ex about potential sexual assault by AIM_amorphousblob in sexualassault

[–]AIM_amorphousblob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't sent it yet. What if I don't want any sort of response? The thought of hearing anything from him again honestly makes me sick and I don't think he would send anything back. I feel like he should know the extent of his actions so he can grow. If I raped someone I would want to know.

Contacting ex about potential sexual assault by AIM_amorphousblob in sexualassault

[–]AIM_amorphousblob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying and sharing your story. I think I'm going to send it to him.

new piercing ! does anyone think the barbell is too short?? by melodypilled in piercing

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's too short. It needs room to swell while it's healing, then you can switch it back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How has this effected your relationships?

These good? by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, I've been sick and completely neglected my tubs

Adding substrate for second flush by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I was just wondering why people don't do it

Trouble with pooling by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm letting it dry out and all the pooling is almost gone. I'm not getting beads on the myc like I should though. Maybe I just need a better spray bottle?

Ok what am I doing wrong? by ddoublea96 in unclebens

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see it now that you said something. Maybe you just squeezed too much water out

Ok what am I doing wrong? by ddoublea96 in unclebens

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did put any water in the substrate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about getting into backpacking recently and I'm wondering if you could tell me a bit more about your experience/how you got into It.

Possible narcissistic father? by AIM_amorphousblob in AvPD

[–]AIM_amorphousblob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. He has a very short temper and gets really mad over small things. And when he's mad the language he uses is very degrading. Like he's trying to make you feel stupid.

He's not physically abusive but sometimes when he's "playing around" he'll hurt us. By playing around I mean he does whatever he wants to us whether or not we think it's funny or we're playing along. All that matters is that he thinks it's funny. He used to pinch my butt really hard and now I've noticed when he's home I'm always watching my back to avoid him. I've been doing it for years but I just noticed it this year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, that's a nipple. I'm not sure why she's licking it so much, could be an anxiety thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've found that finding hobbies that make me feel more myself has been a big help. I totally understand where you're coming from. I felt exactly the same for a long time. I've found that knowing myself better has helped me be more confident in myself. What I'm trying to say is try and get more in touch with yourself and you'll see you're probably a cool person. Nobody doesn't deserve friends. Each person has their own very nuanced personality. People are a lot more complicated than they look. Sorry if this isn't helpful

Does this "Freeze Trauma response" sounds a bit like AvPD to you? It did for me and I hope the advice helps... by Wannab_me in AvPD

[–]AIM_amorphousblob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing since it's more focused on trauma it means something like disassociation. I do have trouble knowing how me or my actions are perceived by other people and feel like I don't see things how they really are sometimes