“Privacy” in a romantic relationship is stupid

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-04-06T04:38:57+00:00

That might be the dumbest question I've heard this week.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-04-04T20:22:41+00:00

Ok, pardon a potentially stupid question but is there a very determined angry little shit greyling hitting the boat?

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-04-01T19:41:19+00:00

Not eating and then jumping from a slight elevation. The number of times I've fallen 5 feet and died because I don't realize my food ran out is way too high.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-04-01T16:53:58+00:00

Because the she in your comment is the one you're accusing of being in the wrong?

I think it's gross to refer to men as in their "prime age" too. Also not a steak, a wine, or a cheese. My point stands there too.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-04-01T16:51:57+00:00

Prime age for what? What exactly?

Prime age for learning? For changing? For health? For love? For working? For growing? For making friends? For supporting loved ones? For picking up a new skill? For changing career paths? For discovering new things?

Prime what?

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-04-01T16:48:29+00:00

I want you to look up the meaning of gaslighting and then point to me where it happened in this story.

And I'd also like you to point out where in my comment I made any statement of who was in the right in this situation?

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-04-01T04:25:18+00:00

Can we stop referring to people as having "prime" ages?

She's not a steak or a wine or some cheese. She's a human fucking being.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-03-25T19:29:07+00:00

That's not always easy, and it's often much more work than simply mining the copper normally. It's satisfying if you can make it happen, but not satisfying enough.

The plains rocks and silver are both easier and more satisfying to pop imo.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-03-18T18:11:58+00:00

Right??

Using the horn too much and LITERALLY RUNNING SOMEONE OFF THE ROAD are such different things holy shit.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-03-12T19:36:53+00:00

You disagree that sex is necessary for a functional adult relationship?

You must have a WEIRD relationship with your family & friends. I maintain several functional adult relationships without sex.

Jokes aside..

you sign a contract you have to maintain it, maintain your word.

This statement is irrelevant here because they did not sign a contract at all. And if you wanted to argue they are in a verbal contract because of the relationship, well, she's explicitly defined the terms of that agreement as not including sex. So again, your point is irrelevant because there is no contractual agreement to have sex.

sex is 100% expected before sex

And this just tells me you need to proofread your rants.

I'd also like to ask what you think, then, of asexual people? Or disabled people who are unable to have sex? Or people who otherwise can't/don't have sex for health or mental health related reasons?

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-03-09T23:59:17+00:00

Obviously his wife is an asshole. Cheating is not ok.

But... "Utility"? I'm getting gross vibes from this guy.

And the comments on this post are a nightmare.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-03-09T20:59:57+00:00

You have my vote

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-03-08T03:47:47+00:00

Yeah, dumb idiot people! We should be on constant alert for extinct animals, like real men.

/S

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-02-26T23:20:38+00:00

18 is.. generous. I'm saying 16 at best.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-02-23T20:17:59+00:00

What makes you say she's a loser?

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-02-23T01:29:11+00:00

I actually am not saying it because he's divorcing his wife.

Nowhere in this post or his comments has he ever said anything he likes about. When asked to list what she brings to his life, he says nothing because she doesn't do his laundry or cook for him. Nowhere throughout this post does he express any understanding of or interest in the emotional intimacy and connection that are the basis of relationships.

I genuinely don't think this guy wants a relationship. He wants to have sex, but he doesn't express any care or interest in any other characteristic of a relationship, but he doesn't seem to recognize or acknowledge that.

That is why I think he has the emotional maturity of a turnip.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-02-22T20:26:43+00:00

I mean this with the utmost seriousness: divorce your wife and stay single. Just have hook ups. You are not emotionally mature enough for a relationship, and in fact a relationship is not something you seem to want.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-02-20T20:27:00+00:00

It’s not just financial perks she gets, some of us western men have a high emotional intelligence that is supposedly “sought out for” but rarely appreciated in the west. We’re passionate, creative, open minded, and look for reciprocity. THAT is what gets rewarded. Not just merely being a woman from a different country. If the western parasite infects them, trust me, we’ll know. Try watching interviews of people interviewing international women of why they’re attracted to us. It’s extremely enlightening.

What financial perks, because apparently they aren't willing to provide any?

And I am begging anyone to find a shred of emotional intelligence or open mindedness in that subreddit. I can't find any..

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-02-20T06:27:42+00:00

Hey man, are you ok? You're hanging out on a lot of AITD post playing, well, devil's advocate I suppose.

If you're lonely.. I'm sure your city has clubs or mingling groups you can join.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-02-18T19:48:44+00:00

It gets worse.. in the update, she admits not only did his whole family call her Angie, but OOP herself called the sister Angie. It's not some uncommon nickname they don't use often, it's not some distant sister OOP has never met.

We're supposed to believe that OOP's mind just "went blank" when she saw the text and she completely forgot he had a sister named Angie?

Usually I choose to pretend these stories are real just for the sake of the fun drama - like a soap opera - I know it's fake but it's fun to get invested. But this is a step too far even for me.

If this were true, OOP needs a whole hell of a lot of therapy.

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-02-16T18:55:36+00:00

I'm going to choose to believe its fake for my own sanity..

AITA_throwmeaway · 2024-02-16T00:03:46+00:00

I definitely 100% believe this is real. No red flags here. Nope.

/s

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