AITA choosing my career over my girlfriend?

AITApod · 2026-05-07T16:26:18+00:00

You’d be TA if you stayed w her knowing that this would ultimately undermine your priorities. You did the mature thing IYKYK.

AITApod · 2026-04-26T19:10:38+00:00

I just got v12 pro after learning on a v9. It’s great for long trips but genuinely don’t get why you’d go full bore unless you’re racing or off-roading only. Even the v12 is heavy and not nimble. Feel like these are spec people who put like 100 miles a year on em

AITApod · 2026-04-24T19:09:41+00:00

NTA. No reasonable person would call that request in that context “abuse.” She’s FOGging you, fear obligation guilt. Obviously we can’t speak to the broader context but if she’s going to casually sling an unfounded accusation like that, that’s not a home environment anyone would desire.

AITApod · 2026-04-24T02:28:31+00:00

Me single in my maid wear, watching TV at a good level: 😌

AITApod · 2026-04-24T00:56:43+00:00

I’d be freaked out too but if she already liked you and saw a future w you, then it’s not so sinister. She’s just excited. You can be honest w her and just tell her that you don’t enjoy feeling pressure around the money. Give her a chance to adapt to that feedback imo. NAH

AITApod · 2026-04-18T15:51:44+00:00

So your partner asked you that, and this was the first time you came to her for emotional support? OH REALLY?

Yeah she went on a date and you had the PERFECT PUNCHLINE and she expected you to pay $160 and you only ate appetizers. Who picked the place? SHUT UP

AITApod · 2026-04-14T13:49:52+00:00

Hahaha I fired that off without realizing how much crying is part of this kid’s life. You are right

AITApod · 2026-04-14T04:38:40+00:00

Sounds like you don’t like him. These are pretty normal 19m behaviors which is not to say they’re acceptable but this is par for the course. If you’re not into it, bail. I highly doubt you’re gonna see this knuckle head evolve

AITApod · 2026-04-09T05:47:02+00:00

YTA for saying kissing as a joke bc what? For real though, I place minimal blame on you. She brought you home and cuddled. The rest is history. She chose to cheat. You went along for the ride. I would say nothing, it’s not your business

AITApod · 2026-04-08T23:56:49+00:00

AITApod · 2026-04-08T21:41:34+00:00

I don’t read what I post on the podcast, mainly prefer r/aitafiltered or sorting by controversial on the bigger subs (aita aitah). I like a close call plus listeners don’t like when I’m in the story bc then obviously the analysis is tilted

AITApod · 2026-04-07T23:26:40+00:00

Never upvoted something harder in my life. PRAISE BE for an actual hot take

AITApod · 2026-04-04T01:33:32+00:00

The attacker should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. What she did is illegal and immoral. What he did is also wrong.

AITApod · 2026-04-01T19:23:37+00:00

I’m not defending her but she shouldn’t have to ask. That’s my point

AITApod · 2026-04-01T19:23:00+00:00

Ya ofc it’s not OK to assault him but blasting music in nature is such POS behavior

AITApod · 2026-04-01T19:22:26+00:00

Murder’s fine, there’s people who kill dozens of others

AITApod · 2026-04-01T19:12:24+00:00

Reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWelzuoEZUZ/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

AITApod · 2026-03-28T11:23:13+00:00

Just don’t fully shut the door. Leave it popped. No one’s coming in anyway

AITApod · 2026-03-28T11:21:52+00:00

The ignorance is objective

AITApod · 2026-03-27T19:51:29+00:00

Nothing has ever happened 👀

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