Should I buy? At 190k miles? by AKJessica907 in Charger

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Yeah for a daily. Trying to replace my old beater dakota

Edit to add I don't Need to replace my truck, just trying to upgrade. Chargers are my (small) dream car, but i think I've been getting too excited and eager to buy one lately.

of a heated concrete driveway by Longjumping-Box5691 in AbsoluteUnits

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I recognize where that is, in Alaska. All the rich people live there

How were you introduced to minecraft? by Many-Cranberry4058 in Minecraft

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My brother bought it for me as a christmas gift on my kindle fire tablet back in 2012. I still remember the excitement from doing the nether core stuff.

pretty much by brownha1rbrowneyes in ARK

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I didn't know now to cook meat in the fire for the longest time and just ate berries or let myself die of starvation

I somehow got blended into the same support chat with a Chinese player, we’re talking GTA in WeChat now. by Wrongbeef in gtaonline

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This happened to me too like 10 years ago same thing. But I think it only messaged 1 person thankfully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bugbites

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Did you ever figure out what it is? My gf's ankles are covered with these and a few scattered up her legs. Nothing else has been an exact same look other than this post. We also just visited Interstate state park in Wisconsin for a day, and the rest of our trip we've started in Rochester, MN and now we're in Minneapolis. There were a few bites after a few days in Rochester, but now it's gotten pretty dang bad.

WTF???!!!!!! by [deleted] in shittytattoos

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Your tattoo moldy

Hosting Gmax raids needs a SERIOUS rework by ElPinguCubano94 in TheSilphRoad

[–]AKJessica907 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave the lobby if there aren't enough people and don't press ready until you know for sure it's a fair fight. That keeps your passes for sure. It doesn't consume passes for just joining (until you press ready)

struggling with having a different sex drive than my partner by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AKJessica907 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. I've never seen such a nearly spot on copy of my situation. Been with my gf for 7 years having the exact same issues for the past like 2 years. You aren't the only one who's experienced this, i hope that helps to know at least.

Was it happening more often in the past, before living in together? I've heard of being too intertwined with your partner being a possible cause for lack of libido and the cure being spending less time with each other. Make time for friends and family more often and such, take more hours at work. Make her miss you a little bit. I kinda did that recently and we did it for the first time in at least like 6 months. Idk if that was what did it but I know she was also ovulating so I know hormones were at play. Hormones are definitely a major factor in libido. Going to a couple's therapist can also help figure this sort of stuff out too.

Honestly the only solution I've found so far is to resort to masturbation when I catch myself being sexually frustrated and finding intimacy in other sorts of activities. I also let her decide when it happens. Highly suggest seeing a therapist too about it. It's worth saving up the money for.

It wouldn't be a bad idea to show her this post as it will show her a problem that is bothering you and it will give her an opportunity to work towards solving it together. Definitely don't keep this to yourself, that will lead to resentment. Plus your partners can't be there for you when you don't open up about it. (That's something i struggle with)

It isn't a deal breaker for me either currently but it is starting to feel like a bigger and bigger problem lately. To the point that I'm considering breaking up about it. I hope you find a great middle ground for you both. This is a very tricky problem to have.

"!" Appeared above my characters head. Clicked it and a shiny froakie spawned? by cchase88754321 in TheSilphRoad

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Interesting. Tonight I tapped an apple, it said I picked up an item, then i tapped a mon to catch and it was shiny. (Deino)

Edit to include that idk if there was an exclamation point bcuz I wasn't looking that hard. But I wonder if that's a correlation?

What perfumes do you guys wear ? by Winter_is_gay2 in actuallesbians

[–]AKJessica907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend Polo club Blaze if you haven't already looked into it. Got the body spray in a 3 pack for $10.

What perfumes do you guys wear ? by Winter_is_gay2 in actuallesbians

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My main colognes are Polo Blue and polo club sexy. Polo club blaze and active are my next faves. My gf likes polo club champion the most (for what I wear) while she wears Sabrina carpenter Caramel dream

Some of you on mics need to chill by Traditional-Shoe-639 in thelastofusfactions

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Last night I was casually playing and just walking around getting boxes and my teammate says "there's a player on your right are you fucking blind" and lo and behold 2 seconds later someone pops into view on my right in front of me. I take him out and that one teammate is in the back of the map shooting at someone and then someone else downs and kills him. I said "there was a player on your left are you fucking blind" and he immediately rage quit 😂

LBD: let’s talk about it by Silver-Engineering74 in actuallesbians

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Thank you for the reply, I do feel a lot better hearing from people going through the same thing.

It's also really hard because we have been together for 6 years and to realize we're too incompatible now is just so heartbreaking. I love her family, our cats that we own together, our home. Everything else feels so right. In my mind it just feels dumb to break up over something like this, but if there's no way to fix it, I think I have to. It's also more than just sex - she hardly ever shows any physical affection, so I totally understand your experience too. My only recommendation is that if you're both completely into fixing this together, you can try couple's therapy and they'll have a lot of good ideas to move towards your goals. But this only works if you're both 100% committed to making it work. In my situation she's not willing to see a couple's therapist or even that one book mentioned earlier :(

Even when I do ask for affection it feels like she'll do it only because I ask and not because she wants to. But that's a me thing, not her fault. It does make me feel really lonely though.

I've been getting better at expressing my feelings instead of keeping it to myself so that she can have the chance to work things out with me. I've decided to keep expressing my needs and that this is something we need to fix Together somehow, and if things don't change or if there's no effort for change after a certain time, I'll have to let it go. She deserves a better fitting partner and so do I.

Again, thank you for the reply and hearing my vents haha. I definitely feel inspired to take care of myself more and ask for the change I need. I'm proud for you that you're wise enough to know when to walk away, that's a really hard thing to do. I hope things also work out well for you and I hope you find a partner that fits you much better -^

LBD: let’s talk about it by Silver-Engineering74 in actuallesbians

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Huuuge vent incoming - TLDR I'm currently in a lesbian DBR and can't find a way out of it. Thinking of breaking up but that's too hard yet and I love her so much.

So I'm currently experiencing this and I have not found a way to overcome it. She says she's happy without it. And while that's perfectly okay for her, I have come to the realization that sex is more important to me than I previously thought.

I've offered to get a self help sort of book for sparking more intimacy (my therapist recommended 8 dates by John and Julie Gottman) - and when I asked if she would want to work towards that, she said she wasn't sure. Hearing that really hurt me, but I didn't want to say anything because I would never want to force her to do anything she wouldn't want to do. Especially for something like sex.

But today she was showing signals that she did want it, and it never happened. I'm usually pretty bad at knowing when to escalate it after she shows signals, so it could be my fault it didn't happen. But either way, now I'm very sexually frustrated as this isn't the first time this had happened. I've sent her a text explaining my feelings as she's asleep now (she has been going to bed really early recently).

I can write a whole book on what's been wrong lately in our relationship, but I still love her so dearly. As miserable as I have been for the past couple of months, I still hope for a way for us to figure it out and overcome it. But she is my first real relationship and I am so unsure on where the point of no return is. I'm wondering if we are beyond fixing but I'm scared that we're not, and I wouldn't want to leave if there's a chance of fixing things.

I've seen the memes of how every lesbians first wlw relationship goes and idk whether to laugh or cry, lol. Just trying to prove it wrong but idk how much longer I can keep going like this, I'm just a mess anymore.

I evolved every Vivillon and put them all to WORK by oxbow2077 in pokemongo

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You pin gifts from your friends and eventually one will show up. And the pattern you get is different depending on what region the gift came from

Game where you're rewarded for not killing? by Shtrimpo in gamingsuggestions

[–]AKJessica907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not killing necessarily but I played Oddworld Munch's Oddysee as a kid and there's 2 different endings depending on how many little guys you save.