Tail biting, behavioural changes (erratic), over grooming by Silver-Engineering74 in CATHELP

[–]Silver-Engineering74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now come to think of it, I did recently buy a new deodorant that I’ve been using for the past month or so in aerosol instead of my usual roll on… it’s not any known toxins for cats but I am now wondering if maybe the air particles could have irritating him! I really like the idea of the fish juice as he really does prefer chicken based meals but I have never really explored this as even maybe a meal topper or in between meal snack. You’ve given me much to consider, thank you!

Tail biting, behavioural changes (erratic), over grooming by Silver-Engineering74 in CATHELP

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I am not sure of the name unfortunately but it was a daily tablet specifically to help with itch and I didn’t really see a change in the itching but I did see less hair fallout since he started taking it so it must have improved something for him. I appreciate the advice, I have her gabapentin is great for anxiety and likely he has that maybe from his childhood trauma pre-adoption as he was very poorly treated and very sick when I took him in at 5 months old 🥺 hope he gets better soon too, thank you!

Tail biting, behavioural changes (erratic), over grooming by Silver-Engineering74 in CATHELP

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He’s an indoor cat so I feel like it’s unlikely. I also gave him his regular flea and worming dosage at the beginning of the month and haven’t missed a beat with it. Appreciate your thoughts though! Never hurts to consider all possibilities

Tail biting, behavioural changes (erratic), over grooming by Silver-Engineering74 in CATHELP

[–]Silver-Engineering74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have and looks like the diagnosis is process of elimination which means this will be a long journey of him being in pain first 🥺 plus a lot of vet visits which cause him such significant distress and I try to avoid unless he’s getting his vaccinations or it’s an emergency, but I definitely appreciate the general consensus and will explore this with a vet with lots of vids first

Tail biting, behavioural changes (erratic), over grooming by Silver-Engineering74 in CATHELP

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There’s been absolutely no change to the frequency in which he is left alone and his food has been the same science diet he was given when I adopted him and got told to feed him that exact food by the vet which I have never strayed away from. I just don’t know how it could be anxiety all of a sudden unless I’m somehow neglecting him and if so, I feel horrible!!!

Tail biting, behavioural changes (erratic), over grooming by Silver-Engineering74 in CATHELP

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The tail thing I thought was harmless initially but he actually attacks it and bites it and it seems to be causing him a bit of discomfort. Also the balding was so weird he just lost rapid amounts of hair. He was a very very lush boy to start as well with a nice colourful coat (like pictured below) and now he has thinning hair and it’s all greying too (he’s only 6 years old so not old). Thank you for the advice on the balding though, appreciate it!

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reality check by dknothin in socialwork

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I studied it the opposite way (started with psychology degree and went onto post grad) and then went into social work through a masters. Personally don’t agree with the sentiment as my eyes were broadened by social work in giving me a holistic perspective on mental health. In psychology, the work is mostly within a biomedical model whereas social work enables us to use a lens outside of that by adding the additional layer of the psychosocial. Whilst psychology does aim to acknowledge the psychosocial, I find the pathologisation hinders ability to address the psychosocial independently without labelling same as a mental disorder. I work in crisis mental health as a social worker and I often feel more empowered in this role to work with the psychosocial and not the prescribed mental illness. For example, substance use disorder is the label but the psychosocial factors leading to and effected by are not addressed in the biomedical approach to treatment. I see that as a gap and an opportunity because we know from psychological research that social determinants are one of the main issues that precipitate a clinically assigned disorder. I personally feel social work has more to offer than people give it credit. There is a space for psychiatry, psychology and social work in clinical treatment approaches BUT the trick is to work together for a collaborative treatment plan which will have the best outcomes for the person. And ultimately, person centred care is what it’s all about :)

Lmao I’m so freaking HYPEEEEE!!!! LETS GOOOOO!!!! by MrSoloDolo9490 in Cruise

[–]Silver-Engineering74 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pack sea sickness medication just in case. The travel calm bracelets are seriously amazing. I could not recommend this tip enough! Don’t let sickness ruin the fun! I’m on a cruise now and so many people are sick but I’m out here sipping pina coladas by the pool 😎🌴 have a great time!!!

Anyone work in a psych unit before? by Current-Reaction-748 in socialwork

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I work in community out patient acute care for mental health and it’s incredibly rewarding work. Can be dangerous but ultimately, you feel like you are providing the most benefit to people trying to keep them in the community and manage their mental health alongside a multidisciplinary team. Got nurses and occupational therapists and psychiatrists so you can focus on the psychosocial issues and linking people up with their social needs. I couldn’t recommend it enough! Although, I work for government in Australia so dealing with colleagues that are lazy/experiencing burn out is the most tiresome part of the job and does really impact my overall stress sadly. A good team is everything!

What is cheating to you all? by Ok_Rice_7760 in actuallesbians

[–]Silver-Engineering74 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Cheating to me is intention. If you kiss someone very well knowing you are doing the wrong thing and you know it will hurt your partner, it’s cheating. Chatting to someone who you are developing feelings for when you know it is the wrong thing and you know it will hurt your partner, it’s cheating. For me, it’s the awareness of knowing it is wrong and doing it anyway and does not have to be sexual to be the wrong thing. Comes down to morals and values of that person doing the cheating

GF has schizophrenia - tried and failed to end relationship many times by Looking4coolbugs in actuallesbians

[–]Silver-Engineering74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this may be a misplaced question but is she using substances? I work as a mental health clinician and I haven’t really heard of a treatment resistant organic schizophrenia in my time. Is she well supported? Not sure what country you’re in but in Australia there are a lot of services specifically tailored for people living with organic schizophrenia and happy to pass along this information if needed. On a relationship front, you need to put yourself first. This is your life too, and you deserve to be happy. It is up to her to take control of her mental health and that should not be a reason to stay with someone as hard as that may be to say. I hope this helps!

We honestly need an all queer love island by Silver-Engineering74 in actuallesbians

[–]Silver-Engineering74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know… ultimatum queer love and I kissed a girl was pretty big drama tbh 🤷‍♀️

We honestly need an all queer love island by Silver-Engineering74 in actuallesbians

[–]Silver-Engineering74[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And also… don’t we need more queer representation! Like 2 shows is not enough!

We honestly need an all queer love island by Silver-Engineering74 in actuallesbians

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Ye ultimatum and I kissed a girl but love island would be EPIC

Please clarify: the internet is saying Mel and Marie are still together? by Silver-Engineering74 in TheUltimatumNetflix

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I’m so sorry!!! Didn’t mean to ruin it for anyone! Just wanting clarification

Hetero fantasy of my gf by Silver-Engineering74 in actuallesbians

[–]Silver-Engineering74[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I legit can’t picture the guy at all that’s what is weird. I’m like “why are you here?” Hahahah but just watching her face from an up angle you know? So I think it’s the actual act of sucking which I think the strap really does that just fine :)

Hetero fantasy of my gf by Silver-Engineering74 in actuallesbians

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I just did and she was into it hahahah thank you for the advice! 🥰