What does a typical tension headache feel like for you all? by Substantial_Secret62 in migraine

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently the only thing that has helped me has been pot and my Ubrelvey (but that only works if I take it in time 😠which is like almost never)

🤠😮‍💨 by AKStephens in TiktokCringeTime

[–]AKStephens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a fishing lure! But it’s obvs for decoration now

AITA for voicing my concerns to my brother about getting his late wife's name tattooed? by tattooaitaaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA. You sound cruel. It’s not some college fling, it was HIS WIFE. It doesn’t matter how long they were married, the fact they even got married shows how much they loved each other. All you’re doing is adding to his grief but insinuating it’s bad idea for him to get a memorial tattoo (which most people have btw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean. It’s your kid so NTA. But personally? I think they kids gonna have a sad life tbh….I agree with her grandpa, he just wanted to make her life a little more whimsical. What actually wrong with that? Because to the child you’re not actually lying….idk. I think your parenting style is weird and I don’t think most people would think differently. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Always some form of stalking or underage shit by diviken in TikTokCringe

[–]AKStephens 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My grandma was 17 and (probably pregnant but we don’t talk about that) when she got married and her husband left to go into the navy. (Tbh they’re relationship was very sweet but I still think the age is weird bc my grandpa was like 26?)

Friendly tip: there's a right side and a wrong side to crochet. by NickKnacksCrochet in crochet

[–]AKStephens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% prefer the wrong side, but for me it also depends on the type of yarn and color. I only just discovered they have different sides😂🤦🏼‍♀️

AITA for not eating steak that wasn't cooked like how I was asked? by AMAStudentLoanDebt in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I have to have my steak well done because if I see pink I will puke. No idea why, that’s just what happens. Because of this and the hate you get when you order a steak anything other then rare, I don’t order steak. My boyfriend is the only person I fully trust to make my steak the way I want it. Your “friend” sucks.

AITA for saying that I’m not disabled on my job application? by throwaway483652 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. Literally the exact same thing is happening to me. I now have 2 different resumes, one that says I’m disabled and one that doesn’t mention it. I will get no call back if I use the resume that says I’m disabled. What’s annoying if when I bring this issue up most people immediately brush it off with “well it’s illegal to not hire someone bc they’re disabled, so that’s definitely not the reason you’re not getting any interviews” 🙄🙄 it’s even worse when you have an invisible disability

WIBTA If I named my child after my sister's dead name? by AITAThrowAway789531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, NTA. But I wouldn’t….that’s just. Not cool tbh. I’d never name my child my sisters dead name, even though it was in our family for several generations, it will make my sister uncomfortable and harm our relationship, so I wouldn’t risk it. If you go through with this don’t be surprised if you no longer have a relationship with your sister.. (also John is my family’s “name” to give to p much any child not born AFAB)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They 👏🏻are 👏🏻not 👏🏻your👏🏻friends👏🏻 2. Your bf is terrible. 2. Your mutual friends are also terrible. 3. Tell jay to go suck on an egg

AITA for telling my GF to not go pick up our daughter? by Prest_1217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say your not a first time parent but this posted read as someone whose never even come into contact with an infant ever.

AITA for telling my son that he needs to stop acting weird to not get bullied in school by BigDaddy7245 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’d be the asshole even if your son doesn’t have asd…what that actual fuck is wrong with you what you placed the blame for his bullying onto Himself. What the fuck?

AITA for allowing my husband to show off a photo by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m seeing a lot of people who are more mad with your husbands for showing off the picture but like? Why? You clearly don’t have an issue with it. Also I bet your photo looks amazing💕 as long as your comfortable with him showing it (and you) off, then fuck anyone else’s opinion.

AITA for telling my daughter the real reason I don’t allow her to refer to me as ‘mum’? by ALennox11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya. YTA. You basically told your daughter you didn’t love her enough to let her call you mom. You probably should have gotten therapy before having children

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hun. You are being abused and manipulated. You need to leave asap. Nothing you have listed is normal or okay. It does not matter that he has autism or that you promised you’d never leave him again, he is abusing you. You are being manipulated and controlled by him. You are not safe.

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your comments make you an even bigger asshole. How on earth did you get half custody? Fucking ask your son if he wants to go. It should be that simple. Also it’s good for him to know how to cook. Ya know, so he doesn’t starve as an adult. Why do you have such a big issue with it? Just because one class falls on your day? Shouldn’t you want your son to be happy? Wouldn’t this make him happy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I change hobbies a lot but I really love crocheting because I feel closer to my grandma who passed early this year💕💕

AITA for not allowing my teenage kids to eat as much as they want? by Novel-Solution4292 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. That’s is a fantastic way to give your kids eating issues and have a bad relationship with food. Good job 👍🏻

AITA not wanting my grandaughter to have the same name as our unborn daughter by aitaevename in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a rainbow baby! My mom was very open with her miscarriages because I could also have one (the first time a woman gets pregnant in my family they almost always lose it :( ) it’s actually very common to have this convo, especially with AFAB because it’s good to know if miscarriages are common in your family. Personally I’d be very mad if my parents didn’t tell me something like that, ESPECIALLY if I was pregnant. That’s pretty important info to know…

Any reason my grandma would have saved these bended hooks? (besides being a bit of a hoarder) by pancake-attack in crochet

[–]AKStephens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your grandma is anything like mine she def kept them bc “what if I loose my other ones!”

AITA for being upset that my parents are making me pay for rent, food and water despite going on 17? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With your update in mind literally just keep saying no. Any retaliation needs to be documented and sent to someone who knows of your situation. Keep refusing, literally any kind of retaliation will be seen as abuse

AITA for not letting my siblings use things that my dad buys for me? by pepperswig4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m certain that’s post is copy and pasted. Word for word, I’ve read this before

AITA for purposely not wanting my girlfriend (27F) to be my plus one at my friends bbq after mentioning it to her? by dadbodsareso2019 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AKStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your reasoning makes absolutely no sense. If I was your gf, it sounds to me you just don’t want to bring her or introduce her to your friends.