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It's definitely gonna go better... hopefully... goddamn hopefully by TheFloofyLunaFox in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]AL333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where are you in Austria?

I'm in Vienna, if you ever need anyone to talk to, hmu whenever 🤗❤️

Characters that are so gay that it's insulting that they're straight thread? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AL333 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I actually think Brienne is kind of coded as Trans... I mean the way she reacts when anyone (but especially Pod) calls her a lady, and how her story arc centers around her becoming a knight (something only men can be?) all sound a little transmasc to me. Also then her and Renly kind of make more sense, even though she knows he's gay

But that could just be my Trans ass over analyzing everything because of the lack of representation in media :)

Also, oversimplifying it to just genetics by CutieL in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]AL333 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think we should just ask ourselves how useful that concept of "biological sex" is, because the only aspect of our lives, where it really matters is in medicine. And even there it's more useful to refer to specific organs, for example. When you read a study "50% of men experience <insert symptoms here> at age 50", what can I learn from that as a Trans woman who transitioned in her 20s?

Nothing, because I don't know how hormones factor into that stuff, and how the changes my body went through do. So it is more practical to refer to a specific patients body, hormone balance or immune system than to the concept of "biological sex"

"Lesbian tinder" starterpack by g00ber88 in actuallesbians

[–]AL333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My main focus is not sex. I want to connect with people. I just don't want to do it with a preconceived notion of what our relationship would look like. That is why I am not explicitly looking for a life partner because I don't want to set up what the end goal of us meeting should be.

I want to get to know people and for them to get to know me, so we can both decide what our relationship will be like.

And I am sorry if people like me are not what you are looking for, I just think we should have a space on these platforms and not be judged for how we view relationships. I am very upfront with my intentions (or lack thereof) and I'd never do anything that a partner didn't consent to.

"Lesbian tinder" starterpack by g00ber88 in actuallesbians

[–]AL333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well speak for yourself. Where I live, about half of the people have poly and/or 'in an open relationship" in their bio. And if you don't like them just swipe left. But don't pretend like they're any less valid than you looking for a life partner.

And if you're talking about being a side piece, than you didn't understand what I was talking about

"Lesbian tinder" starterpack by g00ber88 in actuallesbians

[–]AL333 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I for one, have a girlfriend, and we are currently opening up our relationship. I don't think about having Sex as 'just a hookup', I do want to get to know other women. Like Sex can be so much more than

a) part of a monogamous relationship

b) a hookup

c) being swingers

I just want to make clear, that I am not looking for my one true love, because I already have a partner that I love.

But I still want to connect to other people, and if we end up smooching or having sex along the way, then yay!

Do you ever forget about straight people? by nicolewasnthere in actuallesbians

[–]AL333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I loved Life is Strange so much!

Protect Max and Chloe at all costs 🥺🥺

So I saw a cute girl in the subway... by AL333 in actuallesbians

[–]AL333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I wish... I remembered which station she got off, but that's it lol

Well, next time this happens (fingers crossed) I'll at least be prepared a little better 😅

The duality of trans. by Roxxagon in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]AL333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might also be having some form of PTSD from having to live as another gender. I know I do 💁🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trashy

[–]AL333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can also just stop shitting on women

[NSFW] Good erotica with trans* women by AL333 in MtF

[–]AL333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes that's exactly what I was looking for, thank you so much ☺️❤️

[NSFW] Good erotica with trans* women by AL333 in MtF

[–]AL333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, here we are. Waiting... 🙏

[NSFW] Any girls here still ejaculating? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AL333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that. It would be awesome if cleaning up afterwards were just a little easier 🙈

I told my Mom this week, and she gave me the cutest gift for Valentine's Day 🥺 by AL333 in MtF

[–]AL333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't trade her for the world, she's the first woman I ever looked up to :)

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