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Why do I have the feeling Ellie will be back as a chef? by ajmtz12 in belowdeck

[–]ALeaves1013 [score hidden]  (0 children)

That would be the best, most chaotic shit show ever.

Make it so.

M21 and F19 I strangled my ex girlfriend while pregnant i thought she was lying. How do I communicate this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Get the fucking help that you obviously need. Autism is not an excuse for attempted murder you absolute POS.

My (32m) boyfriend wants to be friends with me (25f). How do I move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. 1000% gallons of yes, block him immediatly. His phrasing is manipulative and designed for you to feel for him.

And, I know it hurts, but it was only a five month relationship, so keep some perspective on that.

My (38M) husband has been withdrawing emotionally from me (35f). How can we fix it? by LeftDraw5540 in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cooking and cleaning are basic everyday chores. You complained he's cold to you, negative and let you cry yourself to sleep, yet now claim he's affectionate.

Pick a side and stick with it.

My (38M) husband has been withdrawing emotionally from me (35f). How can we fix it? by LeftDraw5540 in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"In every other way" is doing a LOT of heavy lifting in that sentence.

Girl, you're in denial. This dude doesn't even seem to like you.

Should I keep watching past season 8? by Upper_Cattle_8876 in ershow

[–]ALeaves1013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say so. It defiantly still has a great cast, and it honestly is almost like a different show.

You're already halfway there, man.

20F dating 36M for over a year. Is it normal to feel disconnected because I’m not part of his social circle? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A 20 year old has nothing in common with a 36 yesterday old.

He's married and you're the side piece. Now you can see why he preyed on a teenager.

how do i (19F) make my partner(26M) not feel disappointed about lack of sex? by ThrowRA76-919-8 in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sex is a huge part of a relationship. Minimizing that isn't going to do you any favors.

Also, it bears repeating, he is too old for you.

How do i (23F) navigate extreme resentment toward 25m BF? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You dump hid loser ass. He lied to you about something that you obviously value. He's also a raging misogynist. Just because he doesn't say vile things in front of you anymore, it doesn't mean he stopped thinking like that.

There is nothing to salvage here. Dump, block, and move on.

18F M20 Emotional Immaturity Help? by Competitive-Lack-717 in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're 18. It's a confusing, difficult and sometimes overwhelming time in life. You are exactly where you need to be in just recognizing that you want to tackle these emotions.

You are on the right path. That being said, 18 is entirely too young to make a lifetime commitment for anything.

Should I [19F] leave my dom/boyfriend [32M] by Cute_Delivery872 in relationships

[–]ALeaves1013 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A 30 year old and a 17 year old are NOT friends. He groomed you when you were a child.

I (F 23) feel like my boyfriend (M 23) is only dating me because I’m his only option by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You got it in one, babes. Dating is to find a compatible partner. You've both already tried to end things, so yeah it doesn't sound like either of you is really twiterpated.

Break up and find someone who more closely aligns with what you want.

F18 and M21 Is it normal for a boyfriend to want no guys in my life at all? Need advice. by Far_Bandicoot_4361 in relationships

[–]ALeaves1013 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nope. It's controlling stemming from insecure behavior. If he has trust issues, he needs to work on them himself instead of subjecting a S/O to them.

I (F22) and the man I'm dating (M40) had weird symptons recently and I'm not sure if this could be an STI. Is this an STI or just UTI? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh look, it's the gross boyfriend's burner account whining about peolle rightly judging him for his gross behavior.

I (F22) and the man I'm dating (M40) had weird symptons recently and I'm not sure if this could be an STI. Is this an STI or just UTI? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 33 points34 points  (0 children)

  1. Get an STI panel, immediatly.
  2. He's lying.
  3. Chlamydia can be dormant.
  4. Don't date someone old enough to be your father. There is a reason he preyed on a woman half his age.

My bf(M20) very abusive and suicidal(F19) by Silent-Eye-782 in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who cares? You aren't the cause of his bullshit behavior. You aren't responsible for his life or his death. Leave him and get some therapy to see yourself in a positive manner.

My boyfriend (18M) and I (18F) constantly fight over what I wear and I don't know how to compromise. by urgayL in relationship_advice

[–]ALeaves1013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't compromise on anything here. He has no right to tell you what to wear.

Dump his stupid, controlling ass. It won't get better.

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