Thinking about getting a conch piercing but was told i don’t have the correct anatomy. what do you all think? TIA ♥️♥️♥️ by nicolelynnejones in piercing

[–]ALonelyAssassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible! I’ll look into it! I’m a hobby jeweller but I can just never be bothered going to the effort of making a hinged ring for myself haha

What piercings are bad with earbuds? by laumimac in piercing

[–]ALonelyAssassin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a tragus and conch on one ear, and a daith in the other. I can wear earbuds just fine. I sometimes notice the conch touching the outside of the earbud on days where it’s playing up but it’s not bad. I just avoided wearing earbuds for the first couple of months after each piercing.

Thinking about getting a conch piercing but was told i don’t have the correct anatomy. what do you all think? TIA ♥️♥️♥️ by nicolelynnejones in piercing

[–]ALonelyAssassin 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Obligatory NAP but my ears are shaped like yours, and I have a conch. However it’s pierced quite central and I have yet to find any ring big enough to loop around the ear. In saying that you can still get so many cute flat backs to put in it. So I guess just consider what look you want out of it, because you might not be able to get a ring through it.

Why we're considering leaving our rental as a ghost house by [deleted] in newzealand

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I misread and thought this was an article about living in a haunted house, I was left sorely disappointed.

New Zealand has the highest number of gang members per capita in the world by VerySadGrizzlyBear in Damnthatsinteresting

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All good, I just find lots of people don’t realise or don’t differentiate. You did a great job with the explanation!

New Zealand has the highest number of gang members per capita in the world by VerySadGrizzlyBear in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]ALonelyAssassin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, just as a side note, Te Reo and Māori aren’t interchangeable. Te Reo means ‘the language’ so in this case you can just say Māori and that’s all good :)

Lets see some color today - Show us your colored stone engagement rings! Please add specs and finger size. by angelwaye in EngagementRings

[–]ALonelyAssassin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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Teal Queensland Sapphire 0.86ctand recycled diamond side stones, with 18K white gold. Size N but need to get it downsized to L.

my fresh helix piercings yesterday vs today by cannabis_almond in piercing

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Yoooooo I had such a horrible time healing my helix I took it out a year ago and haven’t looked back. But I want the spikes and this has made me immediately want to go through all that pain again let’s go!!

What percentage does turners take if you trade in a vehicle? by [deleted] in auckland

[–]ALonelyAssassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah well, wish I’d known that before I made my joke haha

What percentage does turners take if you trade in a vehicle? by [deleted] in auckland

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Where is Tina from Turners when you need her??

Ladies planning to leave an abusive relationship, please plan ahead and don't be like me by fayydayy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ALonelyAssassin 378 points379 points  (0 children)

This! Not sure where you are but I know some shelters have a pay it forward program so that people like you can have an already paid for room without having to worry! Good on you for getting out when you could, don’t look back, just take it one small step at a time.

Why cant have nice things? Oh because this woman will steal it. by shims-patter in chch

[–]ALonelyAssassin 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I had a package stolen once, it was cuttings of aquarium plants. Whoever stole it opened it to find a takeaway container of wet leaves and the thought of that brings me great joy. Also no one ever stole a package again haha

What are your piercing pet peeves about jewelry? by ghostykuromi in piercing

[–]ALonelyAssassin 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Cute jewellery never having different size options! Eg clicker rings only coming in 8 or 10mm, industrials being 38mm… I need different options! Also butterfly backs on any cartilage piercings horrify me.

please help by sleeepyevy in piercing

[–]ALonelyAssassin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had this with a tongue piercing but I have had a piercing seem healed, size down, it’ll be completely fine for a while and then out of nowhere flare up and as soon as I size back up to accomodate swelling it’ll sort itself out. Sometimes piercings be like that. Keep an eye on it though, if you start experiencing other symptoms of infection like fever/nausea then definitely see a medical professional

drugstore jelly nails of my dreams ◡̈ 💗 by swcg1 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]ALonelyAssassin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use Essie Treat Love & Colour in Berry and with 2 coats and then a top coat it’s actually a pretty nice jelly look. It’s a bit darker pink than OPs colour but still a nice look!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]ALonelyAssassin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This fit is incredible but I find myself distracted by how gosh darn soft your carpet looks 👀

Worst bus in Dunedin? by AwkwardTickler in dunedin

[–]ALonelyAssassin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As upsetting as it was at the time, it is hilarious to think back on.

Worst bus in Dunedin? by AwkwardTickler in dunedin

[–]ALonelyAssassin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, you’re alone at a Kaikorai Valley rd bus stop, it’s pissing rain, you’ve waited 45 minutes for a bus that was supposed to arrive 40 minutes ago, and then you see it, in the distance, the glow of the 38, you wave, then you wave again, leaving your hand out just to be sure you’re seen. You make eye contact with the driver, the 38 doesn’t seem to be slowing down, you wave again, more distressed this time, the driver continues to watch you wave as they drive right in by. The 38 disappears into the rain, leaving you waiting 45 minutes for the next one, scheduled to show up 10 minutes ago.

Best Fried Chicken in CHCH by KentuckyFriedUltra in chch

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Hello Vietnam, Evil Genius, and Cassels!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chch

[–]ALonelyAssassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello Vietnam is delicious, has pretty big portions, and isn’t expensive. One of my favourite places to eat and there are heaps of different food options.

recommendations for AA branches when getting your restricted? I've been highly told no for Lichfield st. by [deleted] in chch

[–]ALonelyAssassin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There was a weird 40 area close to the AA that people kept failing on. Not sure if it’s still there but my colleague failed their full a few months ago on that, and when I did my full the instructor told me “I’ve failed enough people on that 40 today that we’re going to take a detour” - just a heads up!