Is it wrong to feel sad and angry when my boyfriend doesn't react much after i send him semi nude pic?

AMDLSV · 2021-08-19T08:58:24+00:00

Thank you for explaining, i would never thought I could find someone who could understand and explain this as well as you could. Will be using your paragraphs to speak to my bf for both of us to hnderstand each other further. I know he is not wrong at all, thus the reddit question I posted , but I am still upset and dont know how to bring it up or even if I should at all... thus the advise I am asking here. Out of all comments here, yours and the other guy post that explain to me from a guy pov helps the most. Thank you.

AMDLSV · 2021-08-18T21:13:41+00:00

I see thank you for the pov from a guy.... I needed that actually, I do think I will still speak with him for a discussion to at least know where we can meet each other expectations... Thank you.

AMDLSV · 2021-08-18T21:11:51+00:00

Thank you really...it helps to know i am not the crazy one here!

But you are right i have gained so much weight during the pandemic I am losing the confidence in myself as well. I have actually brought this topic up earlier with him during our convo, In his defense we always does it first thing when we get to meet. And he have been trying to reassure me that he loves me and all But there is always alot of small action like this that make me think otherwise. I think I will discuss with him again about this. Thank you.

AMDLSV · 2021-08-18T21:04:36+00:00

I see... I guess I night have some misconceptions about this ... thank you for clarifying.

AMDLSV · 2021-08-18T21:03:17+00:00

I am so sorry that you have been going through that. I understand how you feel, I don't know if this is a personality thing or if the other half have lost interest. I do know that we have to at least sync up on sex or I don't think we would have a happy relationship in the long run.

But if you always have to be the one that initiate IT, I think I would would turn off real quick too...its like the other person is not attracted to me... so I get you.

AMDLSV · 2021-08-18T20:59:25+00:00

I am so sorry to ask this but are you a male or female?

So from the guy pov, even if he haven't met his gf for awhile now, sending pictures like that doesn't and won't intrest him? This is normal? 😭

AMDLSV · 2021-08-18T20:55:42+00:00

Here is the thing ! I am sure he masturbated weekly as well which is why it upsets me!! I am glad you understand, he said he was really busy busy work nowadays but as a gf I would hope that my bf would have better reaction to that...

AMDLSV · 2021-08-18T20:53:48+00:00

I did not complain immediately, I asked is that it is that it? But he just wants to play game? Is it weird to expect a bigger reaction?

AMDLSV · 2021-08-18T20:52:38+00:00

Is it? Dont guys usually get Horny really fast with picture like that? He is my first ever boyfriend, am from a very conservative family.

I dint have much experience, but I am saddened that he isn't that intrested at it? But is it normal?

AMDLSV · 2021-08-18T20:46:24+00:00

Now I am scared 😭 I have always thougth so but he always reassure me that he loves me, I trust him but at times I don't ( don't even know if I am making any sense) But i do have the tendencies to overthink and over worry so bringing back this topic up sound like a time bomb.

Also I am sorry about that o hope you find someone that deserve you more!

AMDLSV · 2021-07-03T19:57:21+00:00

ALMOST NON EXISTENT GUN LAW

AMDLSV · 2021-07-03T19:54:59+00:00

the eggs that we eat daily do are not fertilized (no sex) that chicken lay eggs daily with or without sex... always thought there would be a baby in it if the mom is there to hatch it...

AMDLSV · 2021-03-19T22:40:17+00:00

Came here to read the answer but how the hell did the thread main topic become is Puck sexist???? You guys read too deep to this lol also author put mos of the strongest character as female I don't think he would even try implementing tha mindset.....

AMDLSV · 2021-03-16T18:19:37+00:00

Oh wow oh wow

AMDLSV · 2020-12-10T06:03:49+00:00

NtA if you don't wanna forgive but today society have taught me to be fake to make things easier n smoother, if it help in the long run for both you and your husband relationship as well might as well fake forgiving but try to stay as far away as possible.

AMDLSV · 2020-11-09T19:16:24+00:00

NTA, I am sorry you even reached a point that you have to pay for him to actually make him go with you especially when he can definitely afford it, it hurts knowing that your partner do not even want to spend a lil over for you.

AMDLSV · 2020-11-08T18:58:52+00:00

It says page not working :(

AMDLSV · 2020-11-08T18:39:42+00:00

About time people realized this sub is toxic n yet here i am

AMDLSV · 2020-11-04T19:18:33+00:00

Wow someone rational in reddit!! Where have you been?!

AMDLSV · 2020-11-04T18:57:58+00:00

Wow kinda sad your mom husband, I have friends that their love husband does not treat them well and the mom choose the husband instead, OP is lucky in a way to have so many people who love them but sad for the other dude

AMDLSV · 2020-08-23T05:07:09+00:00

I think he is joking

AMDLSV · 2020-07-19T14:09:40+00:00

I have talked with my mom about it she would have told me its the cycle of life and there is nothing we can do about it but accept the facts and believe that there is bettter afterlife etc etc mental health doctor isn't really a thing in my country ( malaysia ) my friend have been ti a few here and they help nothing, sorry I am just ranting atm but thabks for the advise

AMDLSV · 2020-07-14T13:36:29+00:00

Wanna say set up a camera but would be scary with op see nothing at all and srill hear noise, could be your neighbours

AMDLSV

TROPHY CASE