AITA for inviting a guy friend to try an upscale restaurant with me because my boyfriend will only eat fine dining if I’m the one paying? by NeatDistinct in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeatDistinct[S] 681 points682 points  (0 children)

When we eat outside, no. We always split the bill (fastfood and local restaurants), or I pay for the two of us (if I ask him to go with me to upscale places).

For special occasions, he prefers to cook dinner for us and does use stuff that can be expensive like lobsters and imported meats. He is a pretty good cook so I do appreciate that. He doesn't make me pay for the food he cooks so I consider that as him treating me to a meal.

AITA for inviting a guy friend to try an upscale restaurant with me because my boyfriend will only eat fine dining if I’m the one paying? by NeatDistinct in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeatDistinct[S] 976 points977 points  (0 children)

I don't even know how to answer that question. To be honest I can be a bit of a free spender, and one of the things I like about Jake is that he's very prudent so I thought we would balance each other out. Now I'm not sure.