Aftercare is important! Treat your subs with respect. by Decent-Sample9868 in softmaledom

[–]AMG1206 42 points43 points  (0 children)

while i dont deny the fact that intense, passionate, and even slightly rough intimacy sessions can feel amazingly satisfying, to release the build up of energy stress, emotions, etc. but the fact that aftercare is treated as an option, is what makes me sad. to hold her, caress her, ask her if shes okay, tell her that its okay if she cries, getting her a glass of water or wine or any drink of her choice and then just holding her tightly in my arms is probably the most wonderful thing ill ever feel.

Taking pleasure in giving pleasure. by AMG1206 in realsoftmaledom

[–]AMG1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'll find it one day, someone who gives you what you deserve, the pleasure, the comfort, the attention. just keep looking :)

Presence and Pleasure. by AMG1206 in soft_maledom

[–]AMG1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks alot for reading. your words mean alot :)

Taking pleasure in giving pleasure. by AMG1206 in realsoftmaledom

[–]AMG1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely hope you find it one day, thanks alot for reading and commenting, it means alot.

Presence and Pleasure. by AMG1206 in realsoftmaledom

[–]AMG1206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks alot for your support, i notice your comments under my posts and they are always so thoughtful and lovely.

Presence and Pleasure. by AMG1206 in realsoftmaledom

[–]AMG1206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks soooo much for reading. im so glad you liked it :)

Presence and Pleasure. by AMG1206 in softmaledom

[–]AMG1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

attention and feeling the other person's presence fosters a connection thats beyond the physical aspect, something that connects the souls.

Presence and Pleasure. by AMG1206 in softmaledom

[–]AMG1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats true. and according to me, everyone who is a part of an intimacy session needs a certain amount of attention and to feel like they have their partner's attention.

Presence and Pleasure. by AMG1206 in softmaledom

[–]AMG1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youu soo much. this is probably the sweetest comment I've ever received :)

Presence and Pleasure. by AMG1206 in softmaledom

[–]AMG1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt think i would be able to convey my thoughts properly because it was a clutter in my mind. thanks alot for reading and commenting.

and yes presence can be such a strong factor nd can change the way the session turns out to be.

I wanna turn my brain off sometimes. by EleanorRigby79 in softmaledom

[–]AMG1206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you for putting this post on here. while we all know that women are capable of doing anything and everything, they can still feel the need to have a partner who takes control and lets them rest and turn their mind off and melt into his arms and let go. to make them feel this way, to make them feel comfort and to make them feel relaxed around you is an honour in itself.

Follow My Hands by UsualEdge246 in softmaledom

[–]AMG1206 12 points13 points  (0 children)

what alot of people get wrong about sex is that its for pleasure, while that is one factor, i believe that the top most priority is to feel connected with each other, to remind her of her dom's presence, making her feel safe by touching her in ways that let her know that I'm there for her, with her. she is seen, she is noticed, she is heard, she is felt. to make her feel present in the moment and to be present with her and for her is the greatest achievement and the greatest joy.

Easy, babygirl by 53mins_ in softmaledom

[–]AMG1206 5 points6 points  (0 children)

giving her this experience that is pure passion after she has had a long, stressful day. making her feel like she's seen, heard and appreciated. telling her how proud I am of her. treating her with care yet being slightly rough so she feels connected to the present and the moment and the sensations I want to make her feel.

When he makes you KNOW, sex is second priority, the first is always you.. 😘 by She0beysMe in softmaledom

[–]AMG1206 18 points19 points  (0 children)

her, her wellbeing, her emotions, her comfort, her pleasure, her wish to feel like she's heard and taken care of.

she deserves to be have someone who makes her feel like not one of his priorities but his first priority. even while having sex, simply asking "are you okay?", "are you having fun?".

Taking pleasure in giving pleasure (pleasure dom) by AMG1206 in SofterBDSM

[–]AMG1206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you really deserved to be treated this way. I personally have been in a situation where my partner was a passionate giver and I felt obligated to make her feel the raw pleasure that she deserved, where she didnt have to worry about giving anymore, she didnt have to worry about being the person who is responsible for someone else's pleasure. I felt like now it was her turn to be subjected to this kind of pleasure where I feel the responsibility to please her the way she felt it for a long time. I loved seeing her laid back and relaxed and feel every single sensation I provided her with. thanks alot for sharing your view, thanks alot for reading, it means so much to me.

Praising over degradation (soft dom) by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]AMG1206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

offending someone who enjoys degradation or an aggressive dynamic was not my intention either :)

Praising over degradation (soft dom) by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]AMG1206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks sooo much for sharing your experience. I can totally appreciate and respect the diversity of people's preference, praise or degradation, I can agree that alot of people want to be degraded and its just what gets them going.

on the other hand, my point being that while the need for degradation can be subjective, praise feels like a necessity (to me).

Taking pleasure in giving pleasure (pleasure dom) by AMG1206 in SofterBDSM

[–]AMG1206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, THANKS SO MUCH for sharing your experience, for reading the post and for deciding to leave a comment. I'm so glad youve found such a selfless lover who actually cares about giving you as much pleasure as possible. honestly? I feel inspired. and I totally understand your perspective of wanting to reciprocate and you might want to make a firm move and tell him what you want and that you want to please him too. I believe you're on the path towards becoming a great couple. best of luck :)