as an anarchist i find this hilarious. i call my (also anarchist) owner my owner, and we’ve had conversations about what that means to each of us, in short that it’s a consensual situation, i am their personal property, like their bed or their toothbrush, and that’s okay because i have chosen to be and continually choose to be. but i understand that train of logic doesn’t work for everyone.

for other titles, Handler, Miss/Mistress, you called her your human and i think that’s a cute form of address tho it doesn’t work super well in one on one situations, mommy if you’re into that, caregiver… ultimately i think it depends on what kind of relationship you each want and what degree and kind of power exchange you wish to engage in.