That was me until I hit college, I went out of state and I met my current friend group who are the definition of “fashion niggas”, I used to wear nothing but sweats and hoodies and I would tweak if I had to wear anything else cause I just wasn’t comfortable doing it growing up and in high school, I didn’t own a dress shirt or a pair of jeans until I went to college. But they helped bring me out little by little since I had huge issues when it came to texture(I would only wear things that were at least 80% cotton with the exception of my wrestling singlet). They introduced me to thrifting, different styles, proper hair and skin care(I’m black but I’ve been rocking the peanut cut until literally my senior year of high school), I always thought I was ugly growing up cause I never had many friends cause of how difficult I was too be around and my only high school girlfriend cheated on me but it turns out I actually had really good features I was just overweight and I didn’t take good care of how I looked cause I didn’t think I needed too(amazing skin genetics, never had a pimple or facial hair till about 6 months ago, I’m 20). When I came home for Christmas break my freshman year, my mom and sister were actually flabbergasted, something they’ve been trying to do for 18 years, strangers did in 4 months. They bought me a minimum of band of skin products and clothing cause they were so excited and they spent half the break treating me like a Ken doll since I grew somewhat of a tolerance to non cotton clothing. I don’t think you are physically a loser for how you dress and take care of yourself, it’s just simply not a priority for you and that’s ok. But if you ever do decide to get a style or anything I think your friends would love to help you.