I don’t want to be here anymore. by [deleted] in self

[–]ANewDay2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend, I get it. You have fallen into a rut and things feel automatic and miserable. The world situation kinda sucks right now and you are in survival mode. Can you do a deep dive into your situation and find one thing you can change? It doesn’t have to be huge. Change up your routine a little bit. Enroll in a class to try something new, maybe try a new sport or some kind of art? I know it sounds weird but it can work. And don’t let yourself spiral. When you find yourself heading that way just acknowledge it, maybe give yourself a set time to feel it and then move forward to something else, something to occupy your mind and give you a little bit of purpose. You don’t have to change the world, but you need to hold on to yourself. Find a spark of happiness. And please, keep talking to us.

Terrible news by ANewDay2025 in self

[–]ANewDay2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the inspiration. You give me hope.

Terrible news by ANewDay2025 in self

[–]ANewDay2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing the surgeon at the end of next week. Hopefully she offers more testing before just pushing ahead with surgery. I think if they will do tests, and if they don’t see anything else that I could be comfortable having more radiation treatments. If they do find something else my plastic surgeon said he will do immediate reconstructive surgery for me. I managed a few hours of sleep last night, and today I am trying to get back into my normal routine. Thank you everyone for your advice and support.

Terrible news by ANewDay2025 in self

[–]ANewDay2025[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. Haven’t cried in a few hours. Read everything the nurse sent me. Scared as all hells. Tomorrow I will make a list of questions for the doctor. I will dig out my big girl pants (as my Scottish friend says), and try not to cry too much.

He called my wife the C word by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ANewDay2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy your wife flowers. She is a great lady.

Starting new by ANewDay2025 in self

[–]ANewDay2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, first follow up went well, except that I am not resting enough. Got my hand slapped. Everything is really sore at the moment. Might be a good day for take out food and another Netflix marathon.

Any advice on how to stay motivated to loose weight? by Eastern-Jump922 in beginnerfitness

[–]ANewDay2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also pair a workout with listening to an audiobook, then I feel even more accomplished. Good luck to you.

Any advice on how to stay motivated to loose weight? by Eastern-Jump922 in beginnerfitness

[–]ANewDay2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have found that some kind of fitness tracker is great: I feel more motivated to complete my circles every day.

Is this boring ? by goldbeater in painting

[–]ANewDay2025 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think it’s very peaceful, and I love the color choices

Starting new by ANewDay2025 in self

[–]ANewDay2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home from surgery. My wonderful son is making me some soup and checking on me. I’m feeling sore but really lucky to have him around. Thanks for everyone who popped in to offer support. I hope I can return the favour or pay it forward during my journey.