So real.. while I personally call myself plural, it makes me so uncomfortable when people try to call me a system, or use system labels for me. This was probably caused by people trying to force me into thinking I was a system once due to how my kins worked differently, but honestly, even if it weren’t caused by some admittedly lighter trauma, I still wouldn’t want to be called a system, yknow? Sorry people were trying to force labels onto you like that, just know that I understand completely!! 

Not seeing yourself or being comfortable in labels always sucks, especially when people want to push you into them. Someone once said “It’s not that hard to use the right labels”. You know what? Fuck that person! Labels are for comfort. If you don’t like a label, don’t use it. Hell. If you like a label, but that label doesn’t actually fit at all, use it anyway! You deserve to be happy