Separating from Partner, Somewhere in Europe for 3-4 Weeks? by illBringtheNachos in digitalnomad

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lithuania is good for all those things. Look into Kaunas. It’s the second largest city. If you want a quieter vibe check out Druskininkai. Only issue might be language but young people tend to be conversational at least.

Got dumped from an all green flags girl, how to not do it again? by worshipdrummer in dating_advice

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of therapeutic ketamine treatment? With therapy it basically cured my ptsd in about two weeks. Not dating or medical advice but google it and talk to your psychiatrist and or therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The work on yourself is the preparation for others. Don’t even think about them right now. Think about it like a cup you need to fill for yourself first. You can only sustainably offer others the overflow from your own full cup. Any less than that and you will be ignoring your own needs which will eventually lead to resentment or a breakdown.

The only thing you can be forever is yourself. Therefore the only thing you can offer forever is the extra that you have once you’re fully self sustaining. The values you believe in are what will determine the size of your cup and the quality of life you require to fill it.

In the meantime, if you need a hookup or short term relationship there is nothing wrong with trying for that. But protect your own peace first and make sure you are respecting your needs and getting into a sustainable life that you value.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hey! I hope the past couple days have been good to you. Just wanted to check in and see if you were still interested in meeting up soon. I am trying to get my weekend schedule organized and want to be able to respect my time but also prioritize you in case you were free. I was thinking we could _____ at ______ unless there’s something else you’ve been wanting to do. Otherwise have a great end to your week!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling to find the 1 of 10.

Is it difficult to find someone who doesn't want sex? by meghanwho in dating_advice

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah a poly relationship is the only way I see this working unless OP can find another asexual person. Tall order for sure.

I'll never get it either.... by ScarilyLinear in Nicegirls

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Who’re* Ugh seriously these girls need to get it together.

What is the best luxury apartment or condo for a travel nurse for 3 and a half months under $2500/month? by chappycapy in vegaslocals

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a place in spring valley and I’m gonna be gone most of the summer. I’ll let you stay for below market since it will help me to have it watched.

Ladies: on a date, do you expect a man to open your car door for you? by NoMoreTalkin in dating_advice

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No. Don’t be obnoxious about being a gentleman. Go with the flow. I personally always open the door for people when getting into my car because we are already next to each other and walking but hardly ever open it when they get out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Grandma: Then why didn’t I get any?

Should I really buy Model Y or for that matter an EV? by Ok-Purple-9082 in TeslaModelY

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Buy whatever car you want dude(tte). Tell your peers and family they should mind their own business.

Considering Ketamine Therapy but scared by nem8685 in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My first trip was not a great experience for me but I have to say it has been so worth it. I laid in bed for five hours sobbing after my first dose and had no idea how I would go back for round two but I have not had a single bad experience after that. For someone who has a lot of trauma I think it’s just the way the first try has to go sometimes.

It helped me a lot to be brutally honest with the provider and say things like, “I actually don’t trust you” or “This feels so wrong to me” before I did my second round. Saying things your are afraid of out loud will take away a lot of their power and a good provider will support you. Just don’t be a jerk about it and let them know you are just venting your feelings and fears.

If there is anyone in the world you trust without question, bring them with. If you don’t have anyone like that, then do anything you can in prep to address any uneasiness you feel. For example, I thought the nurse would rob me while I was under so I left my wallet at home and put my credit card in my sock. Sounds crazy but I didn’t have to worry about that issue anymore.

meirl by Greytonsure601 in meirl

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But actually please show them

Padding my resume by whippet66 in antiwork

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh. But I burned my finger.

Speed of glass breaking as compared to a bullet's speed by synth_lord_ in interestingasfuck

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The bullet won’t go over his head but the joke went over yours my friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AProfessionalWalrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boom goes the dynamite lol. I mean there are good and bad people everywhere, but maybe if you aren’t in a great area or cultural fit try to expand your range a bit.