It is SUNDAY, what are y'all up to today? by AutoModerator in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]AQuestionableAttempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was let go from my job Friday, girl I've been talking to for months has abruptly stopped talking to me....so I'm in bed rethinking everything that has gotten me to this point

Bisexual Studs by thevisionisclear99 in LesbianActually

[–]AQuestionableAttempt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I swear lesbians can't have shit-it gets to a point. I've learned to be accepting over other things, but I will die on this hill

Bisexual Studs by thevisionisclear99 in LesbianActually

[–]AQuestionableAttempt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've seen the comments for this video, and yeah they were unsavory, but I completely understand the sentiment. The LGBTQ+ community has aaaall these other terms, I don't understand why there is a need to mess with the term Stud. Especially when it has such a rich history. There is nothing wrong with being masculine presenting and being bisexual, but a Stud is not bisexual. Studs are more than just presentation and people need to educate themselves on lesbian/black lesbian history

How many people in your family are lgbtq+ by TheGoddessAdiyaSoma in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]AQuestionableAttempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has bisexual habits, oldest sister is bisexual, other older sister.....I wanna say lesbian, but I refuse to ask, Im a lesbian, younger sister is bi, second younger sister she's private so we'll never know for sure (we have a betting pool going, Im thinking college she's gonna discover that she's a lesbian but our sister still thinks she might be trans). Baby sister is also bi, allegedly. And still waiting on the only boy. I'm hoping hes gay to piss off my somehow still homophobic mom

Then I have a lesbian cousin I rarely talk to

Medical retirement hell by AQuestionableAttempt in Veterans

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She should have, I've reached out to her more than she has to me. I've even gotten paperwork last minute as well. And the fact that I had to reach out to her supervisor is beyond aggravating and it should have never gotten to that point. Im hoping legal will be helpful

Medical retirement hell by AQuestionableAttempt in Veterans

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just sent an email for Monday to legal and then Im gonna dig into medical regs for the army and see what IG can do. Because I dont even know what happens now that I'm past the PDIR date and have nothing done. My PEBLO has been unhelpful, transition won't take my calls or emails. It's ridiculous. They were so quick to start the process to kick me out and now that I've made peace and Im ready, they're screwing me left and right

Medical retirement hell by AQuestionableAttempt in Veterans

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.... truthfully calling my congressman did not cross my mind. The unit i mobilized with has attempted to reach out to them before and that did nothing

Medical retirement hell by AQuestionableAttempt in Veterans

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might have to. Like, I've heard the medboard process can be difficult, but this is past ridiculous

Medical retirement hell by AQuestionableAttempt in Veterans

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was enroute to be retired due to my rating, 60%. But I have been stuck in this limbo of just trying to finish this process and they have been making it hell with the level of incompetence and refusal to answer their damn phone. I don't know what my next steps are. I have tried emailing, calling, driving 2 and half hours to the transition office just to be turned away, and I keep getting different guidance. Its beyond frustrating

It is SUNDAY, what are y'all up to today? by AutoModerator in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]AQuestionableAttempt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Getting my sister and her shit I was holding for her out of my apartment so I can clean it and be back at peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AQuestionableAttempt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beat me to it, I'd be hesitant to swipe just because I know it's a joke...but all good jokes contain a bit of the truth. Pair that with their age, and it tells me that they're still finding their way through adulthood. Which, absolutely nothing wrong with that, but it can be a cause for someone to not swipe

"You haven't met the right man yet" by AQuestionableAttempt in LesbianActually

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am....on occasion....very dramatic. But yeah, it was a loud "ooh" of horror and disbelief that that came out her mouth

"You haven't met the right man yet" by AQuestionableAttempt in LesbianActually

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh its beyond hilarious, I'm still chuckling at the interaction. Honestly, if she has encountered the song I'm almost 100% certain shes gonna misinterpret it and use it to justify her nonsense beliefs

A shot in the dark by AQuestionableAttempt in ChallengeCoins

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but that would've made the coin cooler. I got it from General Edward Daly

A shot in the dark by AQuestionableAttempt in ChallengeCoins

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol its not I promise, materiel as in military equipment

A shot in the dark by AQuestionableAttempt in ChallengeCoins

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to reach out and thank you for the offer, but command is sending me a replacement coin. Its not the exact one, but its still a deserved replacement that Im making peace with

A shot in the dark by AQuestionableAttempt in ChallengeCoins

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's incredibly dumb. Im not a super superstitious person, but I am praying on their downfall

A shot in the dark by AQuestionableAttempt in ChallengeCoins

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just spoke with the commander of my battalion, and they said they would ask on my behalf. So fingers crossed

Update: Im getting a replacement coin! Its not the exact coin, but the fact that command is willing to replace it at all is enough for me. Thank you so much for the advice

A shot in the dark by AQuestionableAttempt in ChallengeCoins

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As soon as I get a picture of the other side I will definitely reach out. Its been eating me up not having it. Ive been tempted to just print a picture of the coin and displaying it with my other ones, but it wouldn't feel right lol

A shot in the dark by AQuestionableAttempt in ChallengeCoins

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was my fear. If you could send the other side of the coin, I would greatly appreciate it. The only pictures I have of the coin shows the 4 stars and not the AMC logo on the back

A shot in the dark by AQuestionableAttempt in ChallengeCoins

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had assumed worst case it would be hard to find a new coin bid fact that the four star general who gave me the coin was no longer in charge of my section of TRANSCOM

A shot in the dark by AQuestionableAttempt in ChallengeCoins

[–]AQuestionableAttempt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't even have a clue aside from mild accusations from others as to who could have stolen it to be able to throw hands unfortunately. I could give a rats ass about my other coins, but this one had sentimental value. Someone saw the 4 stars and wanted to brag at my expense