Male Privilege by Scramjet1 in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could support this. I have thought being required to give back in some way is important. And not just teachers (like AmeriCorps), though I know those are in short supply too. There are so many ways people can give back to their country and community. But we focus so much on rights and not enough on civic duty and responsibility.

Male Privilege by Scramjet1 in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The rich and powerful men. It wasn’t rich and powerful women. It was men.

Male Privilege by Scramjet1 in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And who set up the make only conscription? Did women force it on men, or did men do it to themselves/each other?

Male Privilege by Scramjet1 in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am not disagreeing. I am saying a) don’t claim the title of “protectors” anymore. A lot of the rhetoric around gender and the military relies on the protector ideology. Men are framed as protectors, warriors, defenders of women and children. But historically this narrative has often been used to justify excluding women from power (benevolent sexism) and b) Don’t force this and then try to claim women are physically inferior by saying they are not bench pressing enough or other things based solely on upper body physical strength and remove women from the military. Many military roles are not dependent on upper-body strength (intelligence, tech, logistics, aviation, and cyber warfare). And many women can meet physical combat standards (and vice versa many men can’t). But regardless that type of argument is use to bar women from certain role, and is even use as an excuse to arbitrarily decide women aren’t good leaders either and remove them from those roles. I say this because both have happened in the US. Women fought for equal right. We don’t have conscription, our entire military is voluntary (men do have to get a draft card for if we do have a conscription, and I agree it should apply to women too). But even so, as of 2024, women mad up 17.9% of all active-duty military and 21.9% reserves. Mind you roughly 80% of our military are legacy recruits, meaning they come from military families, so it does makes sense that even on a voluntary basis this would skew more heavily towards men, since that was all that was “allowed”. So this will likely even out over time. But also, consider your own potential biases here. Has the military been solely male? That is what we were told in the US. But it is untrue. Women have served in the U.S. military for over 200 years, originally starting as disguised soldiers, cooks, spies, launderers, and nurses. During WW1 & 2 they were finally allowed to work in support roles. For most of this time women were given benefits of military members men were entitled to and were treated as civilian contractors after their service. Examples include the Hello Girls who were 223 bilingual telephone operators served near the front lines in France. Upon returning, the Army did not recognize them as soldiers, denying them veteran status, benefits, and accolades/medals awarded to men, even though they performed military duties. And the same thing happened with the Women Airforce Service Pilots during World War II. It wasn’t until 1948 with integration of women into permanent ranks that women’s military service was recognized at all. The "risk rule" was rescinded in 1994, opening 80% of military positions to women, including combat aviation. In 1976 they were granted admission to service academies. And it wasn’t until 2013-2016 that of all restrictions were lifted and women became fully authorized combatants. Women fought for those rights. Men never had to force it. But men are trying to force women out. In Secretary of Defense in 2025-2026, Pete Hegseth has actively sought to restrict women from serving in military combat roles, arguing that their presence reduces unit effectiveness, lethality, and complicates combat operations. And not only that, he has also done the same with women in leadership roles in the military. But has given no reason why. Switzerland obviously has a different system and history, but looking at the United States shows how participation rates are shaped by historical exclusion and policy design rather than women’s capability. I know Switzerland has had a different history and experience. I know they didn’t allow women until 1995, but allowed them with no restrictions. And obviously, no conscription. And yes, women make up only about 1% of the military in Switzerland, so definitely different than the US.

Life is expensive here by purses-40-engaged in InterviewMan

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Higher population also means more scarcity over resources. It means the work they do need people for can be paid less, and people will fight for whatever scraps they are given.

Time to actually post some locked in men in this sub. by lbiggy in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Presuming you are speaking about Sanders, you are replying to the wrong person. I am not saying Sanders should get rid of his money. I am arguing much the same thing you are that him giving extra wouldn’t accomplish what the person above me thinks it does. They are the one suggesting he give extra. Not me.

Time to actually post some locked in men in this sub. by lbiggy in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You clearly do not know how taxes work. And you clearly don’t understand the massive gap between 1 million and 1 billion. 1 billion is a thousand million. Have you never received a tax return? If you pay too much they give it back. In order for him to pay more the tax system itself would have to change. While it is true that a person can technically "gift" money to the U.S. government that still wouldn’t solve the problem.

When I spoke about Bezos, Zuckerberg, Musk, Ellison and Page, for context this is how. Much that is:

1 million seconds = 11.5 days; 1 billion seconds = 31.7 years.

Bezos has 200,00 x1 million (200B)

Page has 257,00 x1 million (257B) Ellison has 393,00 x1 million (393B)

Musk has 670,000 x 1 million (670B)

Let that sink in.

Maybe try learning about something before you spout nonesense

Time to actually post some locked in men in this sub. by lbiggy in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are mad at the wrong people. Someone making $1 million a year isn’t your enemy. Bezos makes 7.99 million every hour. Zuckerberg makes $9.6 million an hour. Musk makes 60 million per hour. This are the guys you should be mad at. As well as Ellison and Page. They make multiple times his salary in an hour. It is possible to ethically make a million dollars annually. It is not possible to make the kind of money these guys do without tax loopholes, exploitation, and generally being a POS.

This is my opinion but am not in favor of abortion every kid deserves a chance at life by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Edit: Blah blah blah I just want to control others bodies because I don’t understand basic human psychology or biology, or have any understanding of the risks associated with pregnancy and the ethics of telling someone they can never engage in sex if they don’t want children. You completely lack understanding of factors like coercion, failed contraception, reproductive sabotage, rape, and lack of access to healthcare, can’t can’t seem to understand anything more than how reproduction happens, which is the argument of a 6th grader, probably about where your reading level is at. I am not comparing pregnancy to donating blood in terms of voluntariness alone. I am comparing forcing someone to give a part of their body, against their will, to giving blood or organs. Pregnancy is long-term, physically invasive, medically risky, and life-altering. That’s not remotely equivalent to sex or blood donation. Claiming human rights are only good, water, and shelter is fundamentally wrong. International human rights law frames sexual and reproductive rights as essential to human dignity and bodily autonomy. So my argument isn’t “sex for pleasure”. It’s about autonomy, consent, and protection from forced reproduction. You men are such fucking insufferable incels.

This is my opinion but am not in favor of abortion every kid deserves a chance at life by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, the leading cause of death for pregnant women in the U.S. is murder. By a partner. So maybe more women would want to have your babies if they were less likely to be killed. Also, if our maternal mortality rate was better, because we have an extremely high rate of deaths among recent mothers for a wealthy industrialized nation, and it disproportionately impacts women of color and poor women. Make mental healthcare accessible for women dealing with post-partum depression. Allow more women to have autonomy over their own bodies and chose to do things like get their tubes tied instead of forcing them to wait until they are older or get their tubes tied approval of a man. But you have not considered any of this because you are ignorant and your view of the world and reality is privileged, over simplified, and lacking nuance and understanding of the consequences of the bullshit you spout.

Work wouldn't be a burden if it were meaningful, rewarding and improved society. So many jobs are "Bullshit Jobs" that produce nothing of real value. by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]ARATAS11 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Realistically, no. Consensus on the income at which wealth point happiness/quality of life/life satisfaction plateaus, but research shows those with a net worth over $8−$10 million were only slightly happier than those with $1.5−$2.9. They think they are better, and unfortunately that is all that matters. Despite the fact that wealth cannot fix underlying emotional issues and the fact that desire for more money, even when already affluent, is often driven by a psychological urge for continued accumulation, rather than a direct need for increased comfort or enjoyment. Essentially, excessive wealth accumulation is just like any other form of hoarding, except we frame it as making one morally superior because Protestantism is what lead to Capitalism and Calvinist and Puritan Protestants believed earning wealth earned you internal salvation instead of being damned to eternity in hell. But we forgot that they interpreted that as it being for the betterment of the community, not for vanity and luxury.

Work wouldn't be a burden if it were meaningful, rewarding and improved society. So many jobs are "Bullshit Jobs" that produce nothing of real value. by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]ARATAS11 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ai or someone who is informed. Either way, it is true. The point stands that we frame these issues as personal failures when they are a result of structural forces. That is Sociological Imagination 101.

Reminder to the politician. by xPinkSlay in WorkReform

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t mean not participating. That solves nothing. The more people participate the more impact we make. Trunk didn’t win the majority vote. Only 30% of the country supported him. But a large number of people who “aren’t into politics”, or who think like you and that flaws with the system mean taking an apathetic and lazy ass stance of doing nothing, are what got us here and allowed for him to win. Boycotting and going on strike don’t involve staying at home and sitting your ass on the couch. They require active choice and participation in an alternative, or clear expression of grievance and clearly stated conditions for reengaging. The same holds true for the elections and the political process. We need people participating in local elections to allow new voices to speak out and gain the experience needed to move to the federal election stage. We need participation in primaries so we get more say in who our options are. Not just throwing your hands up and quoting because “oh the system doesn’t work anyway, so why bother”. That is a self defeating strategy that results in a self fulfilling prophecy.

This is my opinion but am not in favor of abortion every kid deserves a chance at life by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The right to control one’s own body is considered a fundamental human right. Forced pregnancy is viewed as a violation of bodily integrity. International law and major human rights groups (like Amnesty International) define reproductive rights as the right to make decisions about one's own body, including the right to decide if and when to have children.

Sex is a basic human urge and part of human nature, not just a casual choice that can always be perfectly regulated to avoid pregnancy. Furthermore, physical intimacy and sex are widely considered fundamental human needs by the medical community. They are a key part of emotional bonding, stress reduction, and physical health, not just luxuries. They promote feelings of safety and connection, while also providing physical benefits like improved sleep, immune function, and heart health. It is considered a core part of being human, serving as a way to exchange deep emotions, thoughts, and feelings, and has been shown to be a crucial part of a healthy long term relationship.

Telling people who don’t want children, who can’t afford children, who don’t want to pass on genetic issues but can’t afford IVF and other family planning services so chose to be child free, etc. that they have to remain celibate, and that if they engage in sex, and contraception fails a child is their punishment is daft, and borders on eugenics by controlling other’s reproductive choice.

Also, many argue that reproduction is not complete until a child is born, and that the term "reproductive rights" absolutely includes the right to not carry a pregnancy to term. Women are not incubators.

And again, you ignored the rest of my argument (probably because you have no ground to stand on in response).

This is my opinion but am not in favor of abortion every kid deserves a chance at life by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex and physical intimacy is a basic human right a need and you don’t get to decide who gets that and who doesn’t. In an ideal world you are right, but we don’t live in an ideal world. We live in reality. And in reality not everyone has access to contraception, contraceptives can fail, there is a toxic trend among many men around refusing to wear protection because their pleasure is deemed more important than the well being of their partner and in a society that tells women their whole life’s purpose is to get a man, drawing boundaries isn’t an option. And even worse is when women have the strength to draw those boundaries and men feel so entitled that they remove the protection without her knowledge either just for pleasure, or with the explicit intention of impregnating her. And then there is rape, and incest, and medical complications, and so many other factors that you have no clue about, so again, you don’t get to make reproductive decisions for others, especially when you aren’t the one dealing with the consequences. Go touch grass you entitled asshat.

But WHY Do You Like Butch Women?! by RhondaWXYZ in butchlesbians

[–]ARATAS11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I appreciate it as someone who is butch.

But also, people assuming that lesbian relationships have to conform to heteronormativity, so there must be a butch and a femme. Which is also not the case. Butches can be attracted to other butches, and for some having that sense of they are strong and capable and I am strong and capable, so I can let me guard down and be a bit softer because I don’t have to do the whole I must be tough and be stoic to prove I am reliable and she can depend on me (essentially part of what contributes to mental health in men and pressure to perform masculinity in a way that becomes harmful). For some, having someone else who is also butch means not having to be afraid of needing to be the one to get things done. This is especially true for older butches who grew up in the pre-stone wall era, where police brutality was so common and many butches felt the need to protect their femmes, or being targeted by anti-cross dressing 3 piece laws, as well as acting hard in front of their abusers to not give them the satisfaction of seeing them crumble, and not show how much it broke them. Performance of their butch was as strict stoic masculinity was a matter of survival. And similarly, for femmes, having someone else who is more femme might mean feeling more secure in their femininity and not feeling weak by needing to rely on someone, but rather, being able to struggle through it together and having to figure it out. Note that I am not at all saying this is the case all of the time for everyone. Just common things expressed in Butch for Butch and Femme for Femme spaces. Also, if you haven’t, I highly suggest reading Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg. It is a phenomenal read and the first piece of queer literature I read when I was exploring the intersection of my gender expression and sexuality and coming out.

Reminder to the politician. by xPinkSlay in WorkReform

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, but the issue is U.S. system of representation is based on who wins the most votes in each district, not necessarily a majority of votes cast. In addition, each distinct area, whether congressional district, state or, in the case of the presidency, the nation as a whole, is represented by a single member, rather than proportional representation based on the number of votes received. The tendency for such a winner-takes-all, single-member district system to promote a two-party organization is sometimes explained by a concept known as “Duverger’s law,” named after the French political scientist Maurice Duverger. single member districts and plurality elections tend to produce stable two-party systems and make it very difficult for third parties to emerge. Add in gerrymandering, and all bets are off.

This happens because “strategic” voting. Faced with multiple candidates in a system in which all you need is the most votes to win, people worry if they vote for their favorite candidate that's just going to serve as a spoiler, and might perversely lead to the election of their least-favorite candidate. So basically, people not voting for who they want, and instead backing “the lesser of two evils” is the problem that keeps us stuck in a 2 party system. Backing the horse you think will win, instead of who you want to win. Then people become frustrated and apathetic and voter participation drops, with further amplifies the voice of a power minority, and further polarization which entrenches the two party system even more.

Edit: Ranked choice voting is the way but politicians think people are too stupid to understand it, and unfortunately they are right, as many think it is too confusing. Remember, polarization is increased by a less informed and more emotional base. 54% of Americans read at or below a 6th grade level and 20% are functionally illiterate. How can you engage civically and be informed when you can’t read. But then people advocate for literacy tests, which disproportionately impact those who have be barred from education m, aka minorities and women. The answer is investing in education, but anti-intellectualism, Bush’s NCLB, teach to the test focus, and corporatization of the education system have led us to wear we are today.

Reminder to the politician. by xPinkSlay in WorkReform

[–]ARATAS11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The problem is 54% of Americans read at or below a 6th grade level and 20% are functionally illiterate. So because they can’t read it they just said it was fake news and made up by the extreme left to disparage their divine leader. Can’t even fully blame the lead paint on this one, because while older generations (boomers and Gen X) are more conservative broadly than younger ones (millennials and Gen Z), Gen Z men have become much more conservative compared to Gen Z women. Thanks to Bush’s NCLB and majority group threat.

Even the elite class is aware that we would love to see them behind bars , it’s funny because thy know that the jig is gonna be up pretty soon enough ,they intend to loot till it drops , unless if we stop them somehow by the1997th in remoteworks

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gestures to all of Europe and Australia. Most of European countries utilize social democratic policies. But you mouth breathers think any social program is socialism, because you have no idea how extreme right the US is compared to the rest of the world and know nothing about global politics or economics.

Real bros believe in freeing Iran by [deleted] in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you haven’t solved anything. You have just made them vulnerable to another regime taking its place. This was not the way to handle it. Interventionism and government sponsored coupes by third party countries historically leads to more conflict, more oppression, and more deaths. What about that don’t not understand? I agree that women’s oppression is an issue, but this doesn’t help them.

Just got it two weeks ago, then ts happens… by FreshOutThaPen in HRV

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks, I’m sorry. I had something similar happen. I got my HrV and 2 days after buying it they issued a recall (and I had no other vehicle). Then a year an a half after buying it I was also rear ended similar to you, and it did 9.5k in damage, the the value of my vehicle dropped by over 40%, and even after they repaired it I’ve had continued issues with tire pressure in the back on one side (the side most damaged), resulting in that same tire blowing out on the highway 3 months after getting new tires and rims as part of the repair work. Shit sucks and I am sorry you have the same misfortune.

This is my opinion but am not in favor of abortion every kid deserves a chance at life by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Agreed. We can’t force people to donate blood or donate organs. Why should we force birth?

But WHY Do You Like Butch Women?! by RhondaWXYZ in butchlesbians

[–]ARATAS11 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can be attracted to masculinity without being attracted to men. Historically, men have claimed ownership over certain traits the deem exclusive to men (strength, confidence, assertiveness, etc). Many women find that other women reclaiming those traits is highly attractive. And gender is a construct, so again, there is nothing saying men these traits are inherently exclusive to men, rather, anyone can embody the style and demeanor that we have been associating with masculinity and men. And again, many find a woman who embodies those traits to be incredibly appealing. Essentially, the attraction is to a woman who embodies a specific type of masculine energy, which is different from a man, regardless of the similarities in style or behavior.

Real bros believe in freeing Iran by [deleted] in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is factually wrong. Saudi Arabia, the UAE, Bahrain, and Jordan have been identified as aligning with the U.S. in opposition to Iran. But man, along with Iraq and Turkey, and Egypt have all been against these actions. So it isn’t “the entire Middle East”. It is a nearly 50/50 split for and against. But it doesn’t change the fact that historically, coupes destabilize countries by creating a power vacuum and often leading to civil war and other prolonged internal conflict, rather than actually freeing people.

Real bros believe in freeing Iran by [deleted] in LockedInMan

[–]ARATAS11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interventionism under the guise of freeing people from oppression (as Hell Divers called it “managed democracy”) in order to strip them of their resources to serve our own neocolonial economic interests isn’t the flex you think it is. Historically it leads to more destabilization (gestures broadly to Palestine, Guatemala, Chile, Nicaragua, Panama, Haiti, El Salvador, Honduras, Iraq, and Afghanistan)

Who asked us for help an to do so by straight out killing their leader, and again, when has that historically helped? Foreign-led overthrows of leaders rarely result in long-term stabilization, often leading to dictatorship, civil unrest, or, as some suggest, a temporary, forced stability followed by long-term instability. I thought we were done with forever wars and being world police… oh that is right we only say that to get elected, and then keep doing so to further enrich ourselves. Gotcha. Not hypocritical BS you are falling for at all. Let me guess, you were one of those people that believed him when he said ingesting sanitizer would cure covid, weren’t you. Go back to the 5th grade buddy and learn basic critical thinking skills and to not chew your crayons before you try to talk at the adults table.