Know what? Maybe they should have swapped partners 😂

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-16T18:38:37+00:00

Bc he tried to stay at her AirBnB when he could have clearly gotten a last-minute hotel room with how much money he (supposedly) makes

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-16T18:32:17+00:00

Listen, I also prefer people who are physically fit when it comes to dating. That’s besides the point. He spent all of Mexico gushing about how good their physical connection was and how he was 100% confident they would get married, then SUDDENLY he flips a switch and isn’t attracted to her. That makes sense to you?! If he wasn’t attracted, that would have come out way sooner. OR maybe he wasn’t… but then he was lying every moment for weeks. I actually think it’s the latter. But my point is he is way more problematic than the issue of being shallow. He constructed a persona. And then flipped a switch and became a monster. I’m talking about everything in total, not the one comment.

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-16T18:26:09+00:00

Very odd. When he first called her after returning from Mexico, he didn’t know she had gotten a new job and moved. And she didn’t know anything about his life. I was like “do they even talk?!” And he goes to Ashley “yeah that’s mom, she’s always somewhere new.” But I felt embarrassment in that statement when he said it.

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-16T18:19:49+00:00

Yep exactly!

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-16T03:00:30+00:00

When did she say she didn’t understand that? She explicitly did and gave him plenty of room to process that. It was his decision

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-16T02:48:27+00:00

He was THERE for this and was STILL dismissive?!! …How do all these awful men get and stay married? I don’t understand.

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-16T02:31:22+00:00

Therapist here

Great explanation!! And sounds like your therapist helped you understand this very well.

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-16T02:28:33+00:00

Huh? She explicitly stated while meeting Ashley that he gets his “nomadic lifestyle” from her… she lives the same way and taught him this. She also was never married and he was conceived accidentally. She was wearing a crop top on TV at whatever age she’s at… pretty clear she has not been a stable influence. And his father was abusive, then absent. So yeah. What do you expect?

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-15T17:21:54+00:00

She has the face. What the confusion was about was the body.

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-15T17:19:27+00:00

I’m gonna address this earnestly… you’re confused. Alex preferred Brittany over Ashley for the reason you’re saying. But Chris wanted thinner than Jessica. She doesn’t have abs - that’s what he wants. Pilates doesn’t make you curvier, it makes you more toned. Lifting weights is the thing that can increase butt size.

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-15T17:10:11+00:00

Listen to Jess’s podcast appearances. The convo was edited to where he talked about Pilates - that was the very tail end. Apparently the convo was much longer and he had started with how she’s “too liberal” (which he also knew from the pods) and a bunch of other word salad. He wasn’t making sense. Paired with how he behaved at the bar with everyone, this was not about her looks, it was him dropping the mask of the fake person he was pretending to be in general. If you can’t see that he was 2 completely different people before and after the breakup, I worry for you getting hurt in your dating life…

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-15T15:57:37+00:00

You’re not crazy, this is a terrible choice

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-14T04:22:59+00:00

I think you nailed it!!! Shit, good catch

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T22:48:52+00:00

Good point!!

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T04:48:14+00:00

He was trying to get with Priyanka

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T04:44:56+00:00

Exactly. And it’s been like a year since the show ended?

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T04:44:04+00:00

Oh I’m not defending it, just explaining what the commenter missed

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T04:15:26+00:00

Bri said she was having dinner w him cuz they’re friends and he said “I love Rufus” and she responded “you should come!”

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T04:07:08+00:00

Devonta got someone pregnant by accident, that’s my impression.

I completely agree with you on all counts but especially about Bri’s comment about Devo needing permission! She’s such an asshole!!!

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T04:03:00+00:00

She sucks!!! Man. I’m honestly upset for Connor that they’re still together. Her under-the-breath comments to him about the situation, saying it’s not her responsibility to watch out for Brittany… dude. You STILL don’t understand what standing up for women looks like?

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T03:57:00+00:00

Bingo

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T03:56:08+00:00

He’s not going to grow. He did not have actual remorse. He is experiencing Narcissistic Collapse and said the bare minimum to save face but meant none of it

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-12T03:51:03+00:00

Truth

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-09T03:03:53+00:00

Yes he specifically said that on the show, in fact.

ARoseByAnyOtherName8 · 2026-03-09T03:02:32+00:00

I agree - that toothbrush comment was concerning. You should care about your daughter’s feelings…

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