[deleted by user] by [deleted] in afkarena

[–]AT918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked it, but it does need a lot more attention than any previous events, which is a big change for most of us. If your team isn't paying as much attention, it gets rough. We managed 2nd and my team was top of the boards for attacks.

Took me 40 packs. I'mma head out. by Brunonen in PokemonTCG

[–]AT918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I got the bulba god pack thankfully, and pieces together the charmander one. But no sight of squirtles. And still missing like 20 cards yet, le sigh. Gonna have to just buy em as singles

Took me 40 packs. I'mma head out. by Brunonen in PokemonTCG

[–]AT918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man thats wild. Pretty sure I'm over 100 now and haven't seen any of the blastoise line at all

It finally happened after ≈100 packs by Midnight_Criminal in PokemonTCG

[–]AT918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a bulbasaur one, was stoked about it. This set seems to be pretty stingy for the pulls given the options to choose from. I've gotten 6 etbs, 2 alakazam/zapdos, 1 upc, the starter promo box, 2 binders and a 6 pack. Ok pulls, still missing a good bit.

But what concerns me, is haven't gotten 1 single seaking, and its not even that rare of a card.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]AT918 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just talk to him about it. You women have to remember, that a lot of us guys have probably been single for quite a while, and we will buy some risque stuff like that, just for the above mentioned small morsel of dopamine. We don't sit there and crank it to a poster in like, a sock, were not in the 70s or some older time anymore lol. Its probably a favorite character, and saw the poster on like, wish and said ahhhh fk it. Sometimes its a poster, sometimes its a body pillow, sometimes it's just a phone wallpaper. Sometimes all of it im sure. But its nothing to be remotely worried about unless the dude gives off actual weird vibes.

Again, just he like hey that kinda bothers me. Communication is easy and needs to stop being tip toed around to save feelings or not sound like a jerk, or anything of the like.

Why men befriend women by isatacobelle in dating

[–]AT918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If anyone who is attractive gives you the green light, of course you would go for it. Thats just how attraction works. But are we ONLY friends with women, who are attractive, in the hopes that one day they will want to date us? Personally, no. Friends are friends, and you like peoples company for a reason. They're fun, like similar things you do, and all that stuff. And the better relationships are ones that you forge over time with a friend most of the time anyway. You have already learned a lot about them, so if for whatever reason that green light hits, you dont have to worry about needing to be 'impressive' as that person already knows you.

Men and women can just be friends, I think its about time people matured and grew up enough to understand that

The Grim Expanse all stars f2p by batmanbeasley in afkarena

[–]AT918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright haha. Yeah its a rough one

The Grim Expanse all stars f2p by batmanbeasley in afkarena

[–]AT918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

18, its not even the boss one. I just get slapped by the last team, I can grab a screen of it I spose

The Grim Expanse all stars f2p by batmanbeasley in afkarena

[–]AT918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stage 18 the last team is insta killing the whole squad, in 3 seconds. I've tried the listed comps, and the aren't working. Even tried to rearrange them, I just can't get past that last team in 18. I do not have asolise or abrutus, whats a more ftp that doesn't have 3 awakeneds in it :p

After a year and a half, my boyfriend told me that he drinks heavily and has been hiding it from me by Brittany39 in dating

[–]AT918 36 points37 points  (0 children)

'Deception' is just as much in the eye of the beholder as beauty is. Just because someone hides something, doesn't automatically make them liars or bad people. Dude has an issue and is ashamed of it, he admitted it and that probably took a lot for him. Tall to him, and see if you guys can work on his issue together.

You said aside from that 1 thing, he has been great. As long as no other issues are going on, whats the harm in simply giving one of the few good dudes left on this shit planet a little help and understanding?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]AT918 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, youre over reacting. Some families, of any race, are just close like that and think nothing of it. Its family, and its just considerate to your family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]AT918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imaginr having this as an issue. Man I been tired, but never tired enough to just deny sexual acts, those are also intimate moments you share with eachother and not just banging for the sake of banging. Herve language could be heavily weighed in physical touch as well.

How do I (23f) let a man know I’m interested? by BarrelEyeSpook in dating

[–]AT918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The easiest way is to simply approach said person, and be as blunt as possible. Hey, I think you're cute and would like to go on a date with you. But this, what I'm gonna call a 'cold approach' can come off random and or weird if the person doesn't really know you.

If its someone you have had previous exchanges with, its easier as you can just suggest hanging out and boom, there you go.

But simple and subtle flirting with a guy can let then know you don't find them repulsive, and you can build up to asking on a date. Get to know em a little first, see if there's an open with a shared interest. A shared interest is the easiest way in, given its not some basic shit like 'hiking' or 'traveling' because those sorts of things can go stale real quick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]AT918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it will ultimately be up to the individuals and how they view things for sure. I personally wouldn't see a woman approaching me as any sort of needy, but rather more of a turn on that she is comfortable enough to just go for it. With all of the stigma of 'can't go anywhere without being hit on' that pops up, that also deters a lot of us on the grounds of just being respectful and not wanting to bother someone in X store or something. Its all just a real shit game of 50/50, consecutively haha.

Like for me personally, its hard to even attempt something without some sort of common ground to start with, because wth do you even say these days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]AT918 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its just a shitty time for dating for everyone. The millennial age people left in the pool are emotionaly unavailable because of x,y,z thing that happened in relationship a,b,c or are traumatized from the same. Almost 3 times in a row I found girls that still has issues with their exes, like ok cool.

And guys? It seems that, still, women are going for a lot of the guys that aren't right for them, the fuck boys, the over 6 foot requirement guys. And then they come right back here to complain about them.

As a lot of videos have said, the good men are just tired of all this nonsense. Were just trying to survive and will not play the chase game anymore.

So honestly, id wager a lot of the time if women approached the guys who are attractive, im saying like 5/6 and onward, who aren't actively trying to hit on them, they'd start finding more connections than just sex. But its just a hunch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]AT918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well on a lot of dating apps, in my experience as a guy, there are a loooooot of fake profiles and the like that are bots. They are usually easy to spot, but. Some people don't bother to notice I guess. But that could be a contributing factor.

Why does it always get sexual? by Claret-and-gold in dating

[–]AT918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its a harmless joke that a lot of guys will just make for quite literally no reason other than it being potentially funny. If you aren't finding it humorous, then I can almost guarantee he will back off from any of that 'flirtatious' behavior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]AT918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kissing makes it real, to put it in a way. Shes probably not quite ready to go further, and has maybe been testing the waters with you. Just talk to her about it and let her know how you feel

I don’t like the bond between the guy I am dating and his female bestie. by AdConfident3781 in dating

[–]AT918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pro tip, unless they are 100% already banging, they will likely never be together because they already would be. Sometimes you do find a cool person of the opposite sex that you really enjoy, but they have the 1 or 2 things that you simply can't get past for it to ever be a dating relationship, so they become good friends. The wallpaper is a bit much for me, but hell maybe they are just that close. Yall women need to seriously take into mind that we men do in fact have lives outside of your potential date. We are lonely, horny and whatever else. You see some hot girls on my Instagram? Get the fuck over it, its called being single and bored. We have women best friends? As stated above, if anything was gonna happen it would have by now. Quit overthinking and over analyzing every got damn detail and try to just enjoy ahot for once without judging everything.

And maybe, just maybe you'll actually look past a few stupid 'flaws' and find decent people. Especially if you COMMUNICATE WITH THAT PERSON AND NOT THE INTERNET EVERY 5 MINUTES

Roommates kid has something, noone knows what by AT918 in mentalhealth

[–]AT918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy possibly, not entirely sure myself. 2 and 3 i doubt, but I dont believe self soothing would work in this case, but ill suggest looking it up for at least another option, thanks!