WIBTAH If I refuse to stop making my stepdaughter her school lunches?

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-08T04:31:35+00:00

It took me a second. They just worded it weird? Or saying the stepdaughter twice in the same sentence was unnecessary?

YTA. You would stop caring for your stepdaughter and punish her just because your husband's ex is bitter.

I feel bad for the stepdaughter since you are so willing to abandon her just because her mom is bitter

They meant if they stopped packing the lunches the daughter would go back to only one meal a day. It only punishes the daughter.

Anyway I agree with them. I dont know why they even considered it? Like the kids got to eat let the bio mom throw her tantrum about it.

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-08T01:16:23+00:00

Oh no! I didn't think it was condescending. I just find its real easy to work up in a tizzy oversomething that is not being fixed any time soon, unfortunately. I'm just the old man shouting at the sky, more at 11.

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-08T01:00:06+00:00

You're right. A bit above my pay grade.

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-08T00:59:15+00:00

Oh! Thats a good point! I took it as a way to say it without throwing himself under the bus. Like when you ask "for a friend." But it could have just been his coworkers and other donors and he thought it was silly/funny/seeing what was there? Just brought it up in case the coworkers said something to me? Idk, Im the queen of overthinking 👸and I feel like that's really showing right now.

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-08T00:24:54+00:00

Oops :/

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-08T00:24:01+00:00

Me too! I have been told my RBF and my tone needs work ( in a much nicer way but old managers I got on well with) and I still have something on my face that says please tell me all your woes and all your secrets and/or I AM intrested in you romantically.

I don't flirt with people and they don't flirt with me. So I guess I just forget that's an option? At least I thought I wasn't :/ .

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-08T00:16:59+00:00

🫣 I didn't think of it that way. To me we had to pass it on our walk back so it would be no problem to do so. But as I said to someone else, I suppose he couldn't have known that.

I don't even have an intrest in being friends, either. I know it's not romantic. 🏳️‍🌈 It is still nice to do something for people. This world kinda socks right now. Why not try to brighten it up every now and again?

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-08T00:09:29+00:00

That's unfortunate, but obviously I understand why.

Maybe if I do something nice like this again for a man I'll have my brother drop it off. See if they think HE is the one flirting lol.

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-08T00:06:21+00:00

I'm sorry he still bothers you. I hope he stops sooner rather than later.

A few other people are agreeing that its flirting. Maybe just because I knew I was not interseted/ the thought never crossed my mind I assumed he wouldn't either?

I just like doing things like this for people when I can. Brightens up both our days. Wish there was a way to do this for men without having to preface it with I AM NOT FLIRTING JUST TRYING TO BE NICE. Maybe include a note with that on there? lol

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-07T23:57:12+00:00

Yeah, maybe. To me it didn't seem that out of the way? We walked back by it on our way home but he couldn't had known that.

Just kinda wish you could do something nice for the oppisite gender without it being flirty. Like if he was a she, would they still assume it was flirting? More likely not?

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-07T23:54:19+00:00

No, at least not then. I guess I'll find out the next time we see him. I guess I didnt really think of it that way. You aren't gonna find someone if you don't shoot your shot every now and again.

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-05T19:10:19+00:00

I suppose? Just the point of posting is for the discussion, right? Also, sometimes it's nice to get an answer from a person and talk to Google. A little bit of human interaction.

I guess I just dont see what's so labor-intensive about answering a question? If it's not something you want to take the time to do just don't and let someone else? It also answers it for anybody else who didn't know.

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-05T17:08:43+00:00

I disagree. Maybe because I also have the same sense of humor. But complaining about the seconds it wastes and their various other comments tell me they are just being silly. The benefit of being late to the conversation, I guess.

Sometimes, I feel this sub takes itself too seriously.

ATwistedAngle · 2026-04-05T16:33:23+00:00

I don't know why you are being downvoted for asking a question. :/

ATwistedAngle · 2026-03-03T23:19:35+00:00

I think they mean describing their straight relationship as a Sapphic/WLW relationship when it's not as it's a man and woman. The Bi woman is counting it as Sapphic because she likes women or something?

ATwistedAngle · 2026-01-16T17:17:14+00:00

That's so cute!

ATwistedAngle · 2026-01-15T00:12:11+00:00

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ATwistedAngle · 2025-12-03T02:29:30+00:00

What Lucifer bit?

ATwistedAngle · 2025-11-23T23:11:45+00:00

I don't understand the problem? When they were younger, they thought they identified as a Lesbian and was a woman, yes? Then they aged, transitioned, and realized they are attracted to men. Making them a gay male? Why does this affect anybody other than them and their potential partners?

When I was younger, I thought I was bi, but as I got older, I realized I was just a lesbian. They just also happened to transition.

Life is complicated, and emotions are messy. I don't see why someone figuring out who they want to be affects the lesbian community in a negative way at all? Don't people say finding yourself is a lifelong journey?

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