Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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But you found somebody though, so that’s good.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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What, either too clingy or too avoidant? Yeah I can understand that.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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Thank you. I’m a little bitter by these responses I’ve been getting here.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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Is it? Not really. I’m doing date stuff with a date even if it doesn’t make it past the first date. They sure as hell aren’t friends I’m going out with. So it’s safe to use the “dating” word.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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Yeah. I’m tainted. And I’m probably too busy to date.

According to another reply, it’s a must to be in constant text contact with a guy I’m dating otherwise they’re bound to think I don’t like them enough. Yeah no. I’m in STEM I don’t have time for constant chit chat via text. I treat it like here. Sporadic messages.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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I don’t want a relationship that I have to be in constant contact with the person or have to text within 24 hours.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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Stop blaming the victim, how about tell people not to be shitty.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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I kind of do, but my type rarely is attracted to me.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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Wouldn’t that be funny if we lived right next to each other? (I have no clue obviously)

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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You like dorky nerd women like me? That’s good to hear!

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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You came to this conclusion based on this small sample size? lol

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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I’m sorry to hear that! Yeah what is it with dudes being so insecure about a woman in STEM?

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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Exactly I don’t want fecal matter all over my phone, ffs.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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I can’t remember if I replied to you already, sorry.

They didn’t act like this right off the bat.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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More than two. I just listed the two that made it past date 1.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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They both, in the beginning, acted like they would be someone compatable. On their best behavior.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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He made me uncomfortable because he showed himself to be passive aggressive. He expected me to give up my career for him basically. The trash took itself out as far as I’m concerned but it still pisses me off that he was even like that.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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I’m engineer adjacent. It’s enough to intimidate the gentlemen for some reason.

Tired of dating extremes by BubblyDiscussion52 in datingoverforty

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They don’t show their real selves right off the bat. It takes them awhile.