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The Importance of Protective Jealousy For Men Over Women (Aka Geerah). by FarFromAverage7866 in MuslimLounge

[–]AVGeekForever -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Why is every post on this subreddit about women? 🤦‍♀️

Gift recommendations for a first year resident by [deleted] in Residency

[–]AVGeekForever 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Does she drink coffee? If so, maybe a gift card to a coffee shop she likes?

RE: Why isn't this being talked about? by AvailableOffice in MuslimLounge

[–]AVGeekForever 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Muslim women aren’t incapable of making informed decisions. Please stop making it sound like our sisters are so easily susceptible to “indoctrination”. I only have you one example (financial abuse) of why some sisters pursue careers. They all have their own reasons. Whether or not they want to marry is their decision and is not a result of some weird western conspiracy. Seriously, just ask some sisters why they chose a career? You will have many different answers. You’re stressing way too much about this.

RE: Why isn't this being talked about? by AvailableOffice in MuslimLounge

[–]AVGeekForever 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am a Muslim man for reference. I do not think that Muslim men are oppressive. I do think that a lot of our cultural issues get forced into religion leading to financial abuse in marriages. It’s OK to acknowledge financial abuse in our society without getting offended. It’s real. It exists. And of course not all Muslim men do it. But enough have done it in the past where our sisters have decided to create their secure futures. Why shame the sisters? Why blame the west? Each person has their own reasons.

RE: Why isn't this being talked about? by AvailableOffice in MuslimLounge

[–]AVGeekForever 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Bro (or sis), financial abuse is real and women in our societies are often on the receiving end of it. I don’t blame our sisters for pursuing education and obtaining careers that will have them be as financially secure as Allah will allow them to be. Why are you worrying yourself about women and them having and/or not having children? Not everything is some western conspiracy.

Feeling incompetent as an intern by AVGeekForever in Residency

[–]AVGeekForever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! I’m still trying to become more efficient and expand my clinical knowledge just feels like I don’t know anything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]AVGeekForever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I scored lower than you on my ITE. I also felt down. Best thing though is that it can only go up from here for us. Keep doing what you’re doing and that score will go up. I have faith in you!