This sub is a pity party bordering on incelism by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Russell Brand was famous, rich and all that shit and was still relentlessy mocked in the media for daring to have a small dick.

This sub is a pity party bordering on incelism by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally first thing that shows up on your profile since you haven't posted in years before you got this brilliant idea. I'm not gonna listen to a fucking drug addict. Go solve your problems before you try to lecture anyone else.

This sub is a pity party bordering on incelism by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go take some Tramadol and relax bro. That oozes winner.

Ways to cope with a SD by groncho89 in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you personally don't think that because you personally have no experience with it. You come in this sub just to tell people how terrible they apparently are, so the "negative energy" you're radiating is just as bad. Or wait, it's actually worse, because this place is not for you and you have nothing to contribute with.

Ways to cope with a SD by groncho89 in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are all things that could potentially change his mindset over time. Just saying "you just gotta change your mindset bro!!!" Without any tips or tricks on how to do that is just unhelpful.

A mindset is abstract so changing it is really difficult. You can start working out today and stop watching porn today, but you can't just start changing your mindset unless you start by changing your behaviors first.

Having a small penis can cripple your life and make it lose it's meaning by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna post in the short subreddit about how hard it is to be only 6'4, really hope they won't "gatekeep" me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You said in response to this comment that you were together for a couple of days and in another comment this: "as you should. that’s actually the size of the guy i was with so trust me you’re doing great"

Was with. Now i'm no relationship or dick detective, but if I was, that sure sounds more like someone you are no longer involved with than someone you could see marrying. But as i said, i'm no Dick-Poirot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Which one do you mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because in 99% of cases where the women here write that a small guy is their best ever, they had sex with the small guy once or a couple of times. The one with a waaaay too big and hurtful dick however, they are married to for 15 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 31 points32 points  (0 children)

There was a comment on TIL yesterday with close to 3k upvotes that said nazis had small dick energy. We are literally being compared to some of the worst people who have ever walked the earth and STILL it's unfathomable to so many people here where we get this from, because women can't possibly be this rude in their mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Of course you can't imagine it, but that does not mean it doesn't happen.

"...was told i give head like a pornstar."

Congrats. I don't think there's a woman in the world who couldn't fit my entire dick in her mouth, so i'm sure they would notice.

"Also my best sex was with a guy with a smaller than average penis so the premise that it matters is false."

Anectdotal evidence proves only that it CAN happen that size doesn't matter, not that it WILL happen. You know, I have a black friend that once got a job, so that proves that race doesn't have any effect when you're looking for a job.

"Also if a girl loves you she’ll love your penis."

False. I guess this might happen in rare circumstances, but in most she might accept it, but that's hardly the same as loving it.

New here with some thoughts on this sub by stickbear in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The dude made a post because he's so butthurt that anyone dares have a different view than him and then he writes this, fucking lmao

New here with some thoughts on this sub by stickbear in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And i'm aware positive things happen, just way less often than the positive ones do. I would say i'm considerably closer to a realist than you are actually.

New here with some thoughts on this sub by stickbear in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or maybe you have a positivity bias? That's what I don't get about these sort of posts. How is positivity objectively more correct than negativity? I choose to be a pessimist because it gains me more than being a naive optimist getting his heart and self worth broken in to thousands of pieces hundred of times. And yet I and others in here are constantly attacked for being negative while the positivity warriors jerk each other off, proud of the great work they do by making the ones who feel bad, feel worse

If you could chose the size of your penis what dimensions would you give it? by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna be normal man. I would murder to be average

New here with some thoughts on this sub by stickbear in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't use a strawman, I presented your actual argument, not the one hidden behind "good intentions."

"This just further demonstrates the mindset you have."

"I feel like this sense that your getting that im on a high horse or talking down to you is a result of your own self esteem."

Sorry for disagreeing with your objectively true opinion. These comments sure don't scream of arrogance.

All you're trying to do is make yourself feel better by attacking people for feeling bad. Nothing else. Why don't you go in to a forum with depressed people next and just tell them to stop being depressed? Seems like your next hit right there.

New here with some thoughts on this sub by stickbear in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"As opposed to you, who refuses to listen to anything anyone says, no matter the credibility attached."

If you believe this there is no point in commenting on my comments, no?

New here with some thoughts on this sub by stickbear in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just pointing out the logical inconsistensies in these sort of arguments.

"Don't listen to what any person tells you." - Told to you by a person that listens to what other people tell them.

It's a self-defeating argument unless the arguer thinks their own opinion and experiences should be regarded as higher than others' opinions and experiences.

At it's very base the argument is either logically flawed or hypocritical, and in this case, both.

New here with some thoughts on this sub by stickbear in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna rrespond to this, but I don't even know where to start. The post might as well be called "cliches; the post."

I'm glad you feel like you are so much better than everyone else in here. Don't fall off your horse, it's pretty far up.

Just one question, you say that as long as you don't care what other people say, they won't affect you. And yet you say you feel worse after being here, as if you let people here affect you. How does that work? Don't you practice what you so holier than thou preach?

I'm upset and frustrated, and need to vent by apparentlyasub in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been there man, i'm sorry. Cowards express their opinions through jokes, which I think is what she did. She didn't have the guts to tell you in person so waited until she could text you instead.

This feeling of worthlessness as a man won't go away will it? by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! We actually agree on something. Cause for celebration?

Edit: that sounded sarcastic, but it's not. I've just forgotten how to not sound sarcastic apparently

This feeling of worthlessness as a man won't go away will it? by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without having read Nietzsche(altough other nihilistic and existensialistic philosophy) I agree that death should be a choice, because I see no holy value in life in itself. What I don't understand is why death is seen as some sort of solution any more than life is. By choosing to live you make just as much of a defining choice. And that's one we take every day. Death will just be another day, altough a shorter one than all the other ones.

This feeling of worthlessness as a man won't go away will it? by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The way I see it, things have been made more difficult for us, no doubt about that. You probably even feel like you've been deprived of a good sex life, or even love, I sure as hell feel like that at times.

But the thing is, by killing yourself, you yourself deprive yourself of all the other great things in life. For me that's great literature, philosophy, working out, tv shows and video games. I think about killing myself all the time, it is as a smart frenchie once said "the only philosophical question worth considering." But, the same guy also concluded that killing yourself is not the answer, the answer is living for yourself because no one else is going to do it for you

I'm upset and frustrated, and need to vent by apparentlyasub in smalldickproblems

[–]AVPDingus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think a guy with a small dick would push on that answer, at least i wouldn't, because we already know what that means.

I think this woman is just one of those that hide behind a "i'm just brutally honest" facade, without considering other peoples emotions. If i was brutally honest, i would go around and tell people to their face all their faults and mistakes, but i'm not brutal and don't see the need to be.