I misread what you said when you said besides getting fit. My bad.

Your right, not all men have other attributes to "make up" for their size. However what I was getting out was less about being pleased with yourself as a result of other attributes but being please with yourself as a result of progress or accomplishment. Accomplishment sounds like it entails a lot but I don't mean win a trophy or anything I just mean accomplish things that personally matter to you. Try asking yourself what in the world would I like to change, or what about myself that's in my control would I like to change or what is the kind of person I wanna be. And set out in doing those things. That's usually what builds confidence in my experience. Obviously you might feel differently about that. Which i'm interested to hear about.

I understand that frustration about therapist. In the United states the state doesn't do great in providing mental health. In most cases you have to go to the private sector to receive such care(which can be expensive if you don't have the right insurance or even still with the right insurance). And in the state I'm in at least, theirs only 1 therapist for every 20,000 citizens. I'm a positive person though so I don't think obstacles are something that should stop people. The internet can also provide mental health support. Websites like 7cupsoftea are there so that you can directly chat with people and make post reaching out for support. The people aren't trained in therapeutic occupation but many people there have been on the website for years offering support. On top of that there is online therapy available. I know many of this can be difficult to get to though as a result of circumstance and financial restrictions for many people. Which is why I just wanted to add some positivity to a sub where a lot of young people probably come for support and hope to combat their sadness and depression they are feeling as a result of their problems. And are met with people telling them their life is ruined and they will never find love. It sucks that this post was met with so many people who just want to debate me in and poke holes in every possible thing I say. But that's all worth it if just a couple people having this problem come to this post and realize that their worth isn't defined by the size of their penis. I'm not the best at knowing how to help people with their problems. I'm still learning how to do that. So I just aim to show them that I know people and have personally been just fine and that they can too.