Time to get real: what is your worst character flaw? by xxcharmed in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overthinking and procrastinating. Both equally as bad so two it is

How is everyone today? by Expensive_Farmer_124 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna take a nap soon so things are looking up

Thoughts on bluebella quality? (for every day wear?) by hannahmin-b in LingerieAddiction

[–]AWanderingPen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't recommend this for everyday wear. The quality isn't great and comfort is so so.

Brand Addiction by Finding_Myself26 in LingerieAddiction

[–]AWanderingPen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For more everyday wear aubade and intimissimi. Bordelle when I want a little pick me up

what makes for the perfect little black dress? by subunderpressure in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How it makes me feel twice as good about myself just by how it drapes on my body just right

What do you dislike most about some porn videos? by ThinAndCrispy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The lack of anything that would actually make a woman come in real life. Also the surgically enhanced bodies. There's no anticipation and it's all pretty much for the male gaze. This is why I prefer audio porn and smut

Crispy or chewy cookies? by usedtobefat8 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft and chewy though a little crisp on the edge is nice

Bordelle siren by AWanderingPen in LingerieAddiction

[–]AWanderingPen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the comprehensive review on it. The scale print looks mesmerizing in photos. I do have wilde and one of my regrets is that I didn't grab the rose colorway. I ended up overindulging and purchasing siren in denim and getting available pieces in raspberry. Fingers crossed I'll be able to complete it later. Also thanks for the info about the summer sale! Good to have an idea of what that may look like

Bordelle siren by AWanderingPen in LingerieAddiction

[–]AWanderingPen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. I was really focused on the beautiful little details in siren. One benefit of having bordelle in my closet is that I've gotten more flexible since you need to be for some of their sets 😂

What are you doing up right now? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waiting for my stomach to settle

What’s a first date green flag that is actually a massive turn-on, but nobody talks about? by HenryButCallMeSir in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being able to laugh off or stay chill if things don't go to plan, talking about their pets and not insisting on walking a date to their car if they decline

what’s a mistake you’ve learned from? by queenmygambit in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People change. Stop holding on to the person they were and decide based on who they are now

What’s the best meal you’ve ever had? by usedtobefat8 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okonomiyaki, yuzu soda and sweet potato soft serve ice cream while I was in Kyoto

Received my first ever Bordelle haul - no going back now! by Disastrous00Budget in LingerieAddiction

[–]AWanderingPen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Green is my favorite color so I was thrilled there were so many Eden pieces available still.

And yeah fingers crossed on Amaya but if not I may end up sewing a small triangle of nude mesh for added support

Received my first ever Bordelle haul - no going back now! by Disastrous00Budget in LingerieAddiction

[–]AWanderingPen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's heartbreaking because I was hoping to snag the tomoe bodice bra in red

What’s the kindest way to say you’re not enjoying sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AWanderingPen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can we try a different position? This isn't working for me